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How often do you buy groceries?

What types of things do you consider “essential”?

Do you make a list when you go shopping, or just have an idea of what you need?

Do you do one big trip all at once, or do you pick up just enough to make what you’re eating that night/the next day?

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[–] FelixCress@lemmy.world 18 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

Crate of 24 beers, five pizzas, two large steaks and a packs of French fries.

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 6 points 12 hours ago

This is kinda where I’m at, but it’s not conducive to GERD unfortunately.

[–] athairmor@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago

You ok? It’s never too late to start eating right. It will make you fell better now and definitely in the future.

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 3 points 12 hours ago

I can respect this. Beats racking my brain every night trying to think of what I want to eat.

[–] WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 12 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

1 lb of salt. 20 lbs of long pork.

[–] mortalic@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

The richer the better

[–] Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world 8 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

My groceries aren't interesting, but I had a friend who only ate what went into a mug.

He carried around a ceramic mug, either collecting free stuff or telling people about his mug to see if they'd put food in it. Free samples, a few grapes, and occasional hand outs all went into the mug. I filled it with soup when he came by.

[–] Devmapall@lemm.ee 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Was this wherever he went?

Did he take it when out to eat with friends or on a date?

How much did this mug effect his day to day life?

[–] Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

For the couple months I knew him the mug was either in his hand or clipped to his bag.

I didn't see his dates and I didn't ask, but he came by for dinner once and ate his portion from the mug.

As far as I saw, it was a great conversation starter, he made a lot of friends and ate reasonably well.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

This would get old real quick.

I was a smoker in a past life.

Occasionally you encounter other smokers who are trying to cut down, or quitting, and limiting their intake by refusing to buy a pack of smokes and simply bumming smokes off the people they encounter.

Sounds nice in principle but obviously this very quickly deteriorates into a parasitic arrangement.

What I mean is, if I went to work every day and there was a guy there with a cup, obviously I'd happily give him whatever, but at any given lunch break if he was hungry he'd know he could search me out for a bite to eat.

[–] Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I thought it was interesting and uplifting to see people come together to support this guy in a fairly simple way. He just told people about his mug if they asked and didn't belabor it from there. Even shared candy when he got it.

I worked at a restaurant, where there's a lot of food waste, so I was happy to help someone out while he found his footing. He didn't come back on his own, I told him to see me when I'm working.

It's weird to spin that into a "parasitic" relationship.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Sure ok. I'll readily acknowledge that I'm a pretty weird guy.

I probably also have a lot of left over baggage from being a substance abuser of minimal socio-economic means. That is to say I just like to pay for my own stuff, and there's a short list of people I might be very generous with but beyond that I'm not generous (with money) at all.

I guess it's a bit different if the guy is interacting with a lot of different people every day.

I had envisaged a situation where I work in some kind of cubicle hell scape and every lunch time I need to sneak past old-mates cube in case he sees me and tries to swindle me into contributing some crisps or something.

[–] Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Fair enough, I can see how that would taint your view of the world. Admittedly, that was a time when a lot of us were poor, in a place where a lot of young people go to get away from their lives. We were all just trying to get by, so we shared what we could.

I probably wouldn't have met mug guy, if not for the mug, and he was a delight. I say that as someone who grew up in a pretty insular, toxic, pay-your-own-way sort of family. Mug guy showed me it's okay to ask for what you need and some people genuinely want to help you.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 6 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I eat a lot of fresh food that doesn't last a week; I shop every other day. I also eat a lot of things that last forever and are cheapest in bulk, like beans, rice, pasta. As a result, I honestly don't know what a week of groceries looks like.

[–] gloktawasright@lemm.ee 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

What are you eating that only lasts 1 to 2 days?

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 3 points 8 hours ago

fresh bread, avocados, fresh tomatoes, fresh meat

It's not that they go bad after just two days, but a week is too long

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

My wife comes up with a menu for the week and buys everything needed to make it.

Once a month, we go to Sam's club and buy bulk meat which gets portioned and frozen, and other bulk non perishables like coffee, rice, pasta etc.

The weekly trips are about $200-$300 and the monthly trip is about the same.

We have five kids between us.

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 5 points 13 hours ago

We do groceries roughly every 1.5 weeks, or around 3 times a month. It consists of going to a big grocery chain for the essentials and two asian supermarkets for specific stuff that can only be found there. We try to hit them all in one trip but sometimes split them over 2 days because raw, frozen stuff sitting in the car while we go on two other stops is a bit risky.

[–] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 5 points 11 hours ago

I walk each day to the local markets and grab whatever I feel like that day That's a good walk and is usually my cardio for the day.

Right now, it's usually a couple chorizos, and then I use the leftover oil to fry potatoes, seasoning the potatoes and then use the leftover oil/spice from the fried potatoes to fry a bunch of diced tomatoes so I have a thick fried salsa.

bag of tomatoes is five quetzales, same for a bag of onions or potatoes.

I grabbed a tamale and some carnitas yesterday for 4 bucks.

I like walking around and seeing what's open and available each day.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 4 points 11 hours ago

I go grocery shopping once a week, and I'm buying just for two adults. Most things I get at Aldi, and some things at Giant if I don't like the Aldi version, or Aldi doesn't sell it. I do make a list ahead of time, but I buy mostly the same things every week.

A typical aldi trip includes bananas, berries (rasp or blue usually), avocados, some kind of fresh green veg for dinner (typically spinach, asparagus, or green beans), bread, jaffa cakes, coffee, low-fat cheese, laundry detergent & fabric softener, windex, dishwasher pods, toilet paper, canned fire-roasted tomatoes (soooo many easy recipes with these!), sparkling water, eggs, egg whites, almond milk, yogurt, and pierogies. Then I typically get my meat at Giant (most of Aldi's meat is pretty gnarly), plus things like toothpaste, evaporated milk, sugar packets, paper towels, canned lentils (my Aldi doesn't carry these???), and a little bouquet of flowers. And then some random things I buy on Amazon, like my tea (yorkshire gold), farro, protein powder, low-fodmap ingredients, etc.

I spend about $150 a week unless I'm out of something expensive like paper towels.

[–] socialjusticewizard@sh.itjust.works 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

These days, we tend to sit down on Sunday evening and plan out our meals for the week, then go shopping on Monday. We go to the farmer's market Saturday and plan our meals around what vegetables we could buy locally.

I don't consider very many things essential. Maybe dry beans, rice (sub millet, quinoa, or other cookable grain as needed), lentils, flour, and salt? Without those I'd have troubles surviving, with an adequate supply of those I could live for months, it'd take a while to even get sick of all the things you can make with it. I'm willing to cut pretty much anything I need to out of my diet if it's not available and honestly I think the obsession with having all foods available at all seasons is weird.

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (2 children)

How do you do your beans and lentils? My mental illness has me stockpile food, so I have quite a bit of black beans and lentils, but I just can’t figure out how to cook them to make them work for me.

The red lentils seem to be less bitter than the brown ones. Lentils seem to be the best option, since you don’t have to soak them as long as beans and I struggle with that aspect of food prep.

[–] tychosmoose@lemm.ee 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

If you have trouble with the soaking, black beans do very well with a "quick soak".

  1. Cover them with water about twice the depth of the beans. Add about 1 teaspoon (~5 ml or 5-7 g) salt.

  2. Bring to a boil and keep it boiling for 2 minutes. Then cover and turn off the burner/hob. Let soak for 1-2 hours.

  3. Add any extra seasonings now (but nothing acidic). Then bring back to a boil and then simmer until soft. Adjust seasoning and you're done.

They should take much less time than cooking from dry. How long will depend on the beans. Older beans can take much longer, but most should be soft in 1 hour or so.

[–] marron12@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

Yep. That works well unless you're cooking at altitude, then an overnight soak is the best and easiest way. Unless you own a pressure cooker.

Some beans you can get away with not soaking at all, just cook them low and slow for a couple hours. I've done that with great northern beans.

All kinds of ways, but I think a good few recipes to check out are:

  • cuban style frijoles with the black beans
  • red lentil hummus
  • dal makhni for kidney beans (needs a lot more special ingredients than the other two though) Green lentils aren't one of my favourites most of hte time but they do go well with rice

I can find a recipe similar to mine for any of these if you like

[–] Takapapatapaka@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Two trips each week. One to the local farmers shop, for whatever is available there (mostly vegetables, eggs and bread, but sometimes fish, meat, ice cream, etc), and another to a supermarket for the common things (pasta for my gf and couscous for me, rice, flour, some dairy (fresh cream or cheese), sandwich bread and chocolate spread, sometimes stuff that needs to be refilled like oil, soap, toilet paper, etc and usually an extra meal : either rice and fish for sushi-like thingy, chickpea for nugetts-ich fried stuff, or a can of smthg like chili con carne).

We try to do lists for the supermarket, otherwise we always forget something. For the local shop, what's available varies greatly so there's no sense making a list.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 hours ago

Yeah this is pretty much me.

I have unusual eating habits so not the same stuff.

I generally go to the green grocer (farmers shop?), then there's a wholefoods shop for nuts and pulses and things, then the butcher, then at the supermarket it's just bits and pieces.

We've gotten pretty good at getting things in bulk when they're on special. Some items are way cheaper to buy on-line like toiletries and medications.

[–] That_Devil_Girl@lemmy.ml 3 points 12 hours ago

I shop at Aldi and Lidl, so I'm buying the raw ingredients for meals rather than the preprepped meals themselves.

I'll spend my sunday afternoon cooking and meal prepping for the work week.

[–] Buffalox@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

1 kg / 7 packs of sliced Bacon, 2 dozen eggs, 4x 6 packs of beer.
I prefer a healthy varied diet with lots of vegetables, so I've decided beer is vegetables.

[–] tychosmoose@lemm.ee 3 points 11 hours ago

It's bread, too. Try a bacon sandwich sometime. Delicious!

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 3 points 12 hours ago

I'll usually have 2 or 3 meals in mind that'll carry me for the week. I'll make something that will have leftovers (stews, stir fries, etc), and other things that can be easily repeated (fried eggs, bagels, sandwiches, produce for salads, etc).

Once I get to the store things can change a bit according to what's available or what looks good.

[–] Corno@lemm.ee 3 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

A bag of frozen chips/fries, potato chips/crisps, 2 boxes of 12 eggs, some cereal, chocolate, maybe a crate of pop (Dr Pepper is my fave) and milk.

[–] seppoenarvi@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

A shopping list on Google Keep has been a game changer. We have a shared list with my wife. Whenever we run out of something essential or need something, we add it to the list. Whenever one of us is in a grocery store, it's easy just to go through the list.

[–] LostWanderer@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 10 hours ago

I usually pick up enough stuff to last me a week or even two; mostly frozen pizzas, ingredients for curry, sweets, snacks, pantry staples like pasta sauce and pasta. Caffeinated beverages like soda or energy drinks are typically on my list too. I also get toiletries, cleaning supplies, and toilet paper every few weeks.

[–] Blackout@fedia.io 2 points 11 hours ago

We spend around $200/week for 3 people and cook every meal. Comes to about $3/meal/person. Pretty much just some meat, beans, pasta, veggies, fruit and my kid's snacks.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 2 points 4 hours ago

The butcher delivers meat once a week on a schedule

About every other week go to the local wet market for variety

Anything else is ordered about once week from the local western style market (free delivery)

[–] deranger@sh.itjust.works 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Trip to Costco every 1.5-2 months to stock up on meat and whatever else we can buy in bulk and freeze. This trip completely fills the freezer and requires reorganizing it and breaking down the bulk packages and vacuum sealing smaller portions for single meals for two people. We also do a similar trip to H-Mart for Korean things and a huge bag of rice.

Trip to the grocery store weekly to grab smaller things we might need. Sometimes it’s much larger than others. Big meal prep day on Sunday so we don’t have to do as much work during the week.

Lists are essential so I can free up that memory for something else. I also will think of things at the most random times and I’d never remember them without immediately putting them on the list. Also helps ensure that if either my wife or I go to the store we can pick up things the other has thought of.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Usually a head of lettuce, a couple bell peppers, an onion, a lb of ground beef, any other meat that is on sale, a gallon of milk, bread, maybe some frozen or canned items, a bag of chips or some other snack, any staple items I might be out of, and a fifth of WT 101 if it's on sale.

[–] crabArms@lemmy.world 1 points 25 minutes ago

You buy a fifth a week?...

[–] dbx12@programming.dev 2 points 10 hours ago

We manage our "food inventory" with Grocy which calls itself "the ERP beyond your fridge". It basically tracks every single purchase and consumption of food and also each items best before date. It needs a bit initial setup and you need to remind yourself to checkout stuff you consume but then it's just great. Not a single item spoiled because it got pushed too far back on the shelf. And since Grocy knows how much of what item we want in stock, it automatically writes our shopping lists with stuff which is about to run out.

So the shopping is basically day to day as we return from work and pass the store just ticking things off the list. And we made a rule for ourselves to only buy the stuff on the list, nothing extra to avoid impulse purchases.

[–] AmbiguousProps@lemmy.today 2 points 11 hours ago

I pretty much eat depression meals, with occasional cooking. Trying to be better, but I still eat a lot of food that isn't the greatest for you, like frozen meals, that kind of thing. I really should be better, and I don't know if I should be sad or motivated seeing everyone else's food in this thread.

[–] HipsterTenZero@dormi.zone 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

2 cups of rice, 1 cup of pintos, 4 flour tortillas, a nebulous amount of grits, 6 english muffins, 6 eggs, a few bananas and plain oat cereal, two bags worth of frozen veggies (cauli, broc, carrots, bell peppers, onions), a single chicken breast, a small roll of ground beef, a small roll of pork sausage, a half gallon of OJ, coffee, tea, oatmilk, and a hand-waved amount of spices, salsa, seasonings, choese, vinegar, and/or sweeteners.

huh, i eat more than i thought. I shop about twice a month, and usually buy the dry and freezable stuff in bulk so I don't notice as much how much I'm taking in on the regular.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 1 points 7 minutes ago

Shopping is a mix of buying stuff that is pre-planned, and impulse purchases. That depends on a number of factors. If I went to the supermarket to buy e.g. peppers, but the ones they have don't look good, I can spontaneously change the meal and buy something else for which I can buy good products. Same at the meat frontier, I can easily switch plans if shopping reality dictates differently.