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[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Sure, but I'm sure you can imagine what would happen if your managers are almost exclusively male, looking for ways to exclude women from the boys club, and you take menstrual leave a few times a year.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Why do you have to be such an ass about it?

Gender bias is a real thing.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I'm not sure how much time you've spent in South East Asia, and Thailand specifically, but professional roles are heavily male dominated, old boys clubs, pay gaps, et cetera.

If an employee takes "menstrual leave", that's an easy way for male dominated management to suggest that women aren't suitable for higher level roles because they are unpredictable and less physically capable.

It's pretty easy to imagine these mental hoops honestly.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com -5 points 2 days ago (21 children)

I've never heard of it before.

As a guy, I need to hear a woman's opinion, but ...

My initial reaction is that it perpetuates the perception that women are inferior. As in, if I were in a professional environment competing for promotion with men, I sure as shit would be doing my absolute best to avoid having to take any menstruation leave.

Very on brand for modern conservative south-east asian country. You can appear to be accommodating to women while actually building barriers.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I just had hot English on my roast pork for dinner. Magnificent.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 44 points 3 days ago (15 children)

What's an accessible way for a non-wealthy person to bet against the AI bubble?

Yes I understand that this is tantamount to gambling.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 78 points 3 days ago (44 children)

This is obviously "good" but can someone help me understand how meaningful this is?

I presume this is a good indicator that the happenings in recent month have "activated" voters?

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 days ago

But... he's right?

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

These comments really illustrate how badly Lemmy has become a homogenised echo chamber.

Users just subscribe to these generalised binary concepts like religion = terrible, and any attempt to demonstrate the nuance is downvoted.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 days ago

Not sure what youre getting at.

Obviously it depends how good and how bad.

Also, there going to show both - but the frequency of each will depend on their assessed likelihood that im going to click and the revenue generated if I do so.

[–] null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 4 days ago

Sorry I don't understand why your grandma would say that.

If she got pregnant to a guy out of wedlock she would be entirely at his mercy. Presumably your great-grandpa did the right thing all the way along. However, there would be no way to force him to contribute to the child's welfare. Additionally, your own prospects as an unmarried mother were pretty dismal I think.

In 2025 I think things have changed - there's certainly no point being married in Australia for example. The mother of my children is not my mistress, she's my partner. In the context of the law she is the same as my wife. The reason we're together is not a piece of paper or a promise, it's because every day for the last 12 years we have woken up and chosen to remain together.

Polygamous or poly-amorous relationships are more common than they ever have been?

Honestly it sounds like great grandma was saying "I stayed with the man I loved and it worked out for me but you should get married".

 

I'm looking for some kind of File Drop / File Upload service.

I'd like to be able to create a folder, and create a share / upload link for that folder that I can give to a customer to use to upload their documents.

I've been using nextcloud but I don't use nextcloud for any other purpose and it's a behemoth so I'd like to transition to something else.

Some of these requirements are essential (!):

  • no login for customers uploading (!)
  • optional password protection for uploads
  • can't see / download files already present in the shared folder
 

I can't decide the best way to secure our front loading washing machine.

We have twins. They're fascinated by the washing machine. Lights, beeps, action... everything. One twin getting inside and their erstwhile companion starting the cycle is absolutely possible.

Obviously we keep the laundry door closed but in a way you just build up the appeal. One of them has figured out how to open doors by standing on his trike.

I could put some kind of stick-on toddler lock on the door but I worry it would be tough to establish the habit of closing the door and putting that lock on. Besides which surely it's nice to leave the door open to dry out between loads anyway?

The washing machine does have a toddler lock but that's only to prevent someone changing the settings during a cycle, it doesn't prevent starting a cycle.

My best idea thus far is a timer on the power outlet. So you turn on the power and set the timer to turn it off after however long the load takes.

The problem with this is that I haven't been able to find a count-down style timer that allows you to set periods longer than 2 hours. Most power outlet timer thingies do schedules, not count-down.

I know this maybe sounds like an easily solvable problem - just turn the power off when it's done - but that's just not how things roll in our house.

 

The wife of a wrongly deported Salvadoran father living in Maryland was moved to a safe house after Donald Trump’s administration posted a court document that included her address on social media.

In an interview with The Washington Post, Kilmar Abrego Garcia’s wife Jennifer Vasquez Sura said she began fearing for her safety and the safety of her three children after the Department of Homeland Security shared a protective order from 2021 that prominently featured her address to the department’s 2.4 million followers on X.

“I don’t feel safe when the government posts my address, the house where my family lives, for everyone to see, especially when this case has gone viral and people have all sorts of opinions,” she told The Washington Post. “So, this is definitely a bit terrifying. I’m scared for my kids.”

 
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Edit: nevermind. Turns out my email host is already running spamassassin and I can configure it how I wish.

My email is hosted at mxroute. I'm happy with their pricing and service and don't want to selfhost my email. However, their spam management isn't great.

I just realised that it might be possible to run spamassassin myself, which will set spam headers on the emails which my email client (thunderbird) can then use to decide what to do.

There seems to be a bunch of poorly maintained / abandoned ways in which to do this. I thought I'd ask here just in case any one else is doing this and can help me skip to the end.

I was hoping for a docker container (or compose stack) that provides an IMAP proxy and runs spamassassin.

Any ideas and insights welcome. My email juggling could use some improvement.

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