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[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 125 points 16 hours ago (4 children)

Software that switched from: Yes/No
to: Yes/Ask Me Later.

[–] zxqwas@lemmy.world 16 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I got angry just reading this!

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[–] SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 95 points 16 hours ago (3 children)

Ads. I am so fucking sick of ads. I have ad blockers on many things and my next network project will be adding a pihole to my network for network ad block. Sick of it.

[–] proudblond@lemmy.world 29 points 15 hours ago

My husband has set up a pihole and it’s the best ever. It used to run off an actual raspberry pi but now we have a home server and he got it set up on there. Literally yesterday he also added Tailscale to our computers and phones and it seriously rocks my socks. I don’t even exactly know what it does but suddenly I’m not getting any ads while at my in-laws house on their WiFi so, score! I am not tech savvy enough to know about these things, much less set them up myself, but I am super thankful that my husband aggressively hates ads and I get to benefit from his crusade against them.

[–] Redkid1324@lemmy.world 8 points 15 hours ago

It's getting crazy. Or I'm just becoming more aware of them.

[–] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 8 points 14 hours ago

I have an executive function disorder, ads literally prey on my disability even as society laughs at the idea of attention being something other than a product of pure limitless willpower.

[–] poweruser@lemmy.sdf.org 57 points 16 hours ago

I hate when an app tells me to take a picture of my driver's license

[–] elbucho@lemmy.world 52 points 15 hours ago (4 children)

Daylight Saving time, Donald Trump & his supporters, the US healthcare "system", mosquitos, Christmas music, babies on airplanes, hangnails, bigotry and intolerance of other people's cultures, and the Dutch.

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[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 43 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I hate when people are needlessly negative.

[–] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 9 points 7 hours ago

Hey, fuck you.

[–] JargonWagon@lemmy.world 30 points 13 hours ago (8 children)

I hate how a lot of men make the rest of us look bad. Can we just chill out for a bit? Like, can guys stop beating on their wives, molesting children, raping, and murdering? Please? Idk what to do besides just be chill myself and try to encourage others to be the same. Let's just read some books with some piano in the background.

[–] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

It's an absolute shit show.

Women have it bad. Honestly I don't know how how you all have the patience to try to figure out which guy isn't a psycho.

As a cis het man, I know that alone is enough to make some women say "pass".

I feel like if men learned more about consent and empathy and stopped listening to assholes like Andrew Tate or Joe Rogan, we'd be in a much better state.

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  • Stores putting out Christmas merchandise before Halloween.
  • People who use their phones while driving.
  • Littering.
[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 27 points 13 hours ago
[–] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 24 points 14 hours ago (5 children)

You know those package that said "tear here" and then proceed to stuck half way and you have to take out your scissor and cut it anyway? Yeah, those, hate it.

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[–] BlameThePeacock@lemmy.ca 24 points 16 hours ago (9 children)

Americans putting their thanksgiving in November.

WTF is wrong with you guys. It's 4 weeks to Christmas, you need to spread your food based holidays out better.

Easter, Independence Day, then fucking nothing until bam, Thanksgiving and Christmas back to back.

I don't want to hear about Labour day being a feast, it's a day off work to celebrate working. Stupid fucking holiday.

[–] A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world 28 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Labor Day isn't about celebrating work, it's about appreciating the gains organized labor has made for working people.

[–] BlameThePeacock@lemmy.ca 9 points 16 hours ago (5 children)

Union employment has dropped off a cliff the last few decades, we won't be celebrating it much longer.

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[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 9 points 15 hours ago

I’m getting cider drunk and pounding candy on October 31st, so October is already booked.

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[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 21 points 14 hours ago

Conservatism, probably. It's cruel and often self destructive.

That humans (all of us) are such emotional creatures and that we do often can't rise above it. You tell someone a fact they don't like and the brain just shuts that down.

These feel related somehow

[–] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 20 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I hate when you go to tie something down in a truck and the tie downs you have suck so they aren't the right length and you have to awkwardly tie them to the hitch and then you do a terrible job anyway

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 20 points 6 hours ago (3 children)

I hate that most people's ideas of success is to earn lots of money and buy expensive things, rather than help the community.

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[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 19 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I hate when people don't know how to act in a restaurant. I can tolerate it in tourists from abroad, that's excusable ignorance. But by the stars, some people never left the five hundred mile radius of where they were born and still never learned basic things like "don't treat service staff like trained animals" or "don't say you're ready to order until you know what you want" or "wait for a host or other staff to seat you instead of sitting down at the only dirty table and then complaining that you don't have a menu and your table is dirty" or "the number of people in your party includes all people, not just adults" or "you can't just order things from random people walking by".

Ugh.

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[–] missingno@fedia.io 18 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

The bully who pretended to be my friend in order to hurt me.

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[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 18 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Depression

What the fuck

What the actual fuck

What the actual fucking fuck is this stupid ass bullshit

It's outrageous! It's unfair!

So you're telling me, I could just live a normal life, but a part of my brain is getting rebellious and won't cooperate, spreading negativity propaganda to the rest of my brain?

What. The. Fuck?!?

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[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 17 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (2 children)

Bots

Billionaires

Billionaire-bootlickers

Excessively talkative people who tell you everything about their life - but take zero interest in yours.

Companies that make you jump through hoops when you call them and force you listen to recorded messages about how you can get what you need on-line, before they finally put you through to a call-centre in India.

My lack of discipline when it comes to drinking and eating

The fact that my body has taken to waking me up at 4am

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[–] Sterile_Technique@lemmy.world 17 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

The general state of the world / our collective inability to learn from history.

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[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 16 points 15 hours ago

That I can't find a job in America.

[–] Jumbie@lemmy.zip 15 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Unjust justice systems designed to rob citizens.

An example: NYC cops will ticket you for not displaying a parking receipt on your dash even though you paid through their fucking ParkNYC app.

When you dispute the ticket they don’t give a fuck and just say “guilty” then charge you anyways.

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[–] ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.org 14 points 12 hours ago

Whatever MS office turned into and that I still have to work with it.

And how governments of "first world" countries so openly shit all over the citizens they should take care of. It's not new but I feel like we're reaching a new low every day and no matter where you look at, it's the same just in different extremes.

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 14 points 14 hours ago

I fucking hate SQL. It’s “standardized”, but not in a way that makes anything about it interoperable between vendors. It’s insecure as fuck, unless you’re extremely careful. Every single SQL server has its own way of doing things, and you have to know it intimately to be able to use it effectively.

That being said, SQL is pretty cool. It kills aliens and doesn’t afraid of anything.

[–] sparkles@piefed.zip 14 points 16 hours ago

Gossipy people.

[–] DasFaultier@sh.itjust.works 13 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

low carb diets, Michael Moore, the Republican National Convention, Kabbalah & all Kabbalah-related products, Hi-Def TV, the Bush daughters, wireless hotspots, the OC, the UN, recycling, getting Punk'd, Danny Gans, the Latin Grammys, the real Grammys, Jeff that Wiggle that sleeps too darn much, the Yankees payroll, all the red states, all the blue states, every hybrid car, every talk show, everything on the planet, everything in the solar system, everything, everything, everything, everything, everything, everythingj every-everything that exists past present & future, in discovered and undiscovered dimensions! [turns away, then turns back] Oh, and Hugh Jackman.

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[–] PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 15 hours ago
[–] gigastasio@sh.itjust.works 12 points 16 hours ago (1 children)
[–] snooggums@piefed.world 11 points 15 hours ago

I also choose this guy's ex wife.

[–] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 12 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

Yes! Let the hate flow through you!

Feel the true power of the dark side!

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[–] X@piefed.world 12 points 14 hours ago

Republicans

[–] WhatsHerBucket@lemmy.world 11 points 11 hours ago

People that don’t use their turn signals.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 11 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

That reality is so incredibly fucked up on a fundamental, physical level.

You're telling me that if I do nothing, my room will get messy, my house will decay, my machines will break down. But somehow matter magically organizes itself into life?

Fuck all the way off.

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[–] OhStopYellingAtMe@lemmy.world 10 points 8 hours ago

Willful ignorance.

[–] HotsauceHurricane@lemmy.world 10 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Having to scan QR codes. Fuck 'em. My doctors office can & WILL print me out a goddamn paper form to fill out.

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[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 10 points 11 hours ago

How shit a lot of modern tech is.

[–] Xylight@feddit.online 9 points 16 hours ago (2 children)
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[–] INeedANewUserName@piefed.social 9 points 15 hours ago (5 children)

I hate the folks that burned the library of Alexandria

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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 8 points 5 hours ago

Exceptionalism.

The kind that says “I’m special, but you aren’t”

The kind that lets billionaires exist and fuck with national politics and laws. The kind that lets rich people or corporations off of crimes with little or no punishment. The kind that lets a religious person use their religion to be shitty in any way, as a shield or a cudgel. The kind that lets someone festoon their pickup with LED lights and a squat so you’re blinded at night when they’re coming at you or tailgating you.

All of them think they’re special and the rules don’t apply, they don’t care how it affects those around them - or others are to be exploited.

[–] FatVegan@leminal.space 8 points 8 hours ago

That we as a society just accepted that cigarette butts aren't garbage. It's something smokers are allowed to toss everywhere because they can't be bothered.

[–] TriangleSpecialist@lemmy.world 8 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

It'd be quicker for me to list what I don't hate these days, but I guess the main stuff that makes me tilt is:

Capitalism, billionaires, billionaires' bootlickers, ~~conservatives~~ fascists, state surveillance, bloated anti-user and anti-freedom (i.e. modern) software, anti-intellectualism, being in a "post-truth" era, AI slopaganda, and the relatively general apathy to all of that and lack of solidarity amongst us working people (at least where I live).

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[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 8 points 6 hours ago

MAGA and Assfuck Trump..

[–] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (2 children)

Every single person now thinks they're smarter than everyone else. No matter what their political leanings are, they're all smarter than everyone else. Smarter than:

  • Doctors
  • Scientists
  • Engineers
  • Economists

It's absolutely ridiculous and it started sometime around the 90s around when Ross Perot first ran for president and it just got worse with social media.

That's the real problem right now. Everyone thinks they know more than people who spent decades studying and becoming experts in their field.

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