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[โ€“] JargonWagon@lemmy.world 29 points 12 hours ago (3 children)

I hate how a lot of men make the rest of us look bad. Can we just chill out for a bit? Like, can guys stop beating on their wives, molesting children, raping, and murdering? Please? Idk what to do besides just be chill myself and try to encourage others to be the same. Let's just read some books with some piano in the background.

[โ€“] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

It's an absolute shit show.

Women have it bad. Honestly I don't know how how you all have the patience to try to figure out which guy isn't a psycho.

As a cis het man, I know that alone is enough to make some women say "pass".

I feel like if men learned more about consent and empathy and stopped listening to assholes like Andrew Tate or Joe Rogan, we'd be in a much better state.

Had my first creep encounter at night outside after transitioning. Nooot fun lol

No patience, just sheer terror.

[โ€“] tomiant@piefed.social 2 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

I don't look bad because they do those things. I am not them. What a bizarre proposition.

[โ€“] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 0 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

nah bro, you don't understand. you and anyone penis having adjacent are personally liable for the actions of every man...

or so feminist theory says.

weird though that when a woman rapes a kid, or beats someone, or murders someone... not all women are responsible for her actions... she's just some lone psycho..

[โ€“] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Do you not know how stereotypes work?

[โ€“] tomiant@piefed.social -1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] tomiant@piefed.social -2 points 2 hours ago

Um, are you specifically and genuinely mentally handicapped somehow? That IS how it works, you dumb fuck.

[โ€“] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

people who blame you for the actions of others are idiots and dicks.

stop feeling guilty by association, have some pride in yourself.