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[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 54 points 1 week ago

"Driving is miserable and parking is hard to find, so let's get rid of the bike lanes."

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 47 points 1 week ago

Conservatism, mostly.

[–] Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca 42 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Gestures broadly at American Coservatives.

Yeah. Don’t even know what to add to that. Maybe some boomer culture as well, how they had whatever issues that the modern generation doesn’t have and point that out as some kind of hardship while simultaneously being likely to have had the most stable career, technological, and economic progress of any generation in history.

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 27 points 1 week ago

It would save taxpayers money if the government would house the unhoused. In the long run, it would save the government money on healthcare and law enforcement. We would all be better off. But no, we can't have that because of a belief that people shouldn't have a safe place to sleep without earning it. I'm talking about in Canada but I'm sure it applies also in other countries.

[–] frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Almost any argument against public transportation or better bike and walking infrastructure.

You can't improve traffic by adding another lane. People who were using other means of transportation start to move over to cars, and then that lane fills up and you're back where you started. This "induced demand" has been studied by traffic engineers for decades, and is very reliable.

You can improve traffic by offering viable alternatives to cars. Even if that means taking up a lane for bikes, buses, or rail. The induced demand effect works in reverse, too. People see they're getting passed by the bus on their morning commute and make the obvious choice.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

When my mother wants to give me something, I think it's like a gift thing, or maybe its just some snacks, then my older brother (5 years older than me, for context) gets jealous and then my mother promises to get him something at another time, its late and no time to go to a store right now. Dude was so pissed me at ME, keeps complaining and would rather both of us get nothing... like... bro... why?!?... I didn't make this choice, blame mom or something. Why do I get blamed for receiving something?

I imagine bro was probably so pissed when he found out my mother was having another child, I could practically imagine him being 4 years old and trying to kill me before I was born lolz.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Jealousy 😟

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

In the reality show based on Squid Game, they were playing marbles. The rule was each pair had to decide what game to play and agree on the rules. If they couldn't choose a winner within the time limit, they both got eliminated. This one woman didn't want to play a throwing game because she had a disability. The asshole she was playing with refused to agree to any game other than a throwing game. So she gave in and agreed to a game where they threw at a target and whoever got the most in, won. It ended up being a tie. She argued that they should declare her the winner since she was the first to get one in. Asshole refused to agree to declare her the winner. So they were both eliminated. Dude, you're getting eliminated either way, would it kill you to let her continue in the game?

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

would it kill you to let her continue in the game?

I mean, technically...

[–] FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 days ago

I'm talking about the reality show based on Squid Game, they don't actually die

[–] supersquirrel@sopuli.xyz 12 points 6 days ago

US Republicans

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

This is a common strategy in competitive games. For example, in chess, it might greatly benefit you to hinder your opponent's pieces rather than improving one of your own pieces.

[–] exasperation@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 6 days ago

It might make rational sense in zero sum games where there is a winner and loser (or a draw). But the real world is full of examples of less rational people who forgo an improvement in their own situation to worsen someone else's situation, to create negative-sum competitive plays in a world where positive-sum collaboration is actually possible.

Literally every single US foreign military intervention ever. There are Americans starving on the street, apparently we cant afford to house or feed them yet apparently we can afford to bomb and murder abroad.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Inspired by the EU's new import tarrifs on chinese products. Instead of making better domestic products that people want, they just try to make foreign products less affordable.

What are other examples?

[–] MotoAsh@piefed.social 6 points 1 week ago

That's Liberals doing their liberal BS. Why improve anything directly when you can let the magic of the Free Market™ apply pressure to "increase competitive motivation"? Now European companies can compete because everything is more expensive! See, it makes perfect sense.

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago

You start out in 1954 by saying, “N----r, n----r, n----r.” By 1968 you can’t say “n----r”—that hurts you, backfires. So you say stuff like, uh, forced busing, states’ rights, and all that stuff, and you’re getting so abstract. Now, you’re talking about cutting taxes, and all these things you’re talking about are totally economic things and a byproduct of them is, blacks get hurt worse than whites.… “We want to cut this,” is much more abstract than even the busing thing, uh, and a hell of a lot more abstract than “N----r, n----r.”

[–] DarkAri@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 6 days ago

Oh I have a few.

Cell phone software and hardware. They lick out people from making good devices and they lock out other operating systems. Cell phones in general engage in tons of monopoly like behavior, like proprietary platforms who's only function is consumer lock in, and locking out people who they don't like.

Car companies, notoriously lobby against free trade with other countries so they can sell terrible cars for higher prices.

ISPs often libby to make collectively owned or municipal internet illegal despite being far cheaper and far better and net neutrality in many cases as well as more privacy focused.

Consoles, they try to prevent people from installing Linux and mods and stuff so they can get people to keep buying mediocre games, called triple AAA games. These games don't appeal to most PC users because there are actually many good games on the PC and mods, but on console you usually only have a handful of games that are fun to play in modded. Lots of action liteRPGs and multiplayer shooters and simpleton games on consoles. Easy to make, easy to play.

Political parties. Instead of actually improving they compete for corporate money and are backed by hypercapaitlist, corporatist media, and are almost 100% hostile to the voters at this point. Almost everything they pass is going to make our life worse and they only really act to protect corporations and expand the laws to boost corporate profits and screw over the workers.

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

U S A U S A U S A U S A G E S

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Thank you for this.

It's so simple, dumb, and judging from the dopamine hit, exactly where my brain wanted to go.

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 days ago

Happy to help where I can.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The area i life in. That is the main goal of everyone exept a few. You can feel the hate, and mistrust and unwell wishes in the air.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 2 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Sounds quite unpleasant :(

What are some telltales of that happening?

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I have no idea why that is happening. Everyone is just sabotaging, talking bad, spreading rumors and being so unfriendly to each other.

There was a case, while i was in hospital, that parents wanted to kick me from school because me and my autism according to the petition, is a threat to other students (note i was the bullying victim of the class) over half of the class' parents signed. They claimed i was randomly attacking, stabbing, and kicking students down stairs!!

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I'm so sorry that shit like that is still happening. As an (as-yet undiagnosed) autistic child, I was in the same boat. Bullies use their "strength in numbers" to have a gaggle of friends agree to lie against a lone victim, perhaps one who's already known to struggle with emotional regulation. It's nearly impossible to convince anyone of your innocence when other kids weaponize your weaknesses like that. Maybe you threw a chair against a wall in class one day, and now the school administrators are ready to believe that you'd escalate to actually attacking someone (even though you don't have a history of hurting anyone. Just inanimate objects. Because believe it or not, some of us do have some degree of self-control.)

I've been there, and I know what absolute bullshit is possible for someone like us. I'm livid on your behalf.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 3 points 6 days ago

Seeing red baseball caps with "Make America Great Again" on the front are a pretty good sign it's happening in your area.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

when people decide to divide people up into 'good' people and 'bad' people.

this naturally means they want to punish the bad people and boost up the good people.

[–] DoubleDongle@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago

Russia's hybrid war with the West comes to mind. The invasion of Ukraine has turned out that way too, although it was intended to be a quick resource grab.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

In the UK, civil servants used to get an excellent pension (a percentage of last earned) . People complained and said that wasn't fair and it should be removed, so now everyone gets a shit pension. Well done, guys.

[–] Doomsider@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Every decision around healthcare at the national level.

[–] jaxxed@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago (2 children)
[–] iii@mander.xyz 1 points 5 days ago

You can tell by how they assume everyone is american

[–] FriditaBonita@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Greedy people.

[–] ICCrawler@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Why not do both?
colonizing and plundering of resources intensifies