I say, it's your money, make the choice yourself. I'd rather donate time and money to an org like Food Not Bombs where they can use the same amount of money to help more people. But, let's face it, I'm too busy these days to find the time to volunteer. So for me, if I have money--and I usually don't--I'll give them what I feel like I can.
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I pretty much never have cash. So, if I'm buying a 'to go' lunch/coffee I'll offer to get them something.
talk about how the beggars might spend their money on, how they might be lying
Only thing that I ever heard: they use all the money for alcohol and nothing else (I don't know, cannot prove it)
they should be looking for a job instead (My commentary: finding a job is impossible for them this days
Around here everybody who wants to work (and is legally allowed to) finds a job.
I had a job that paid stupid well. I'd give some money to almost anyone who asked on the street. They need it. I have plenty. I'm not going to notice the $1 or $5 or even $20 that I gave away. I make more than that in interest every day.
Rarely, I'll talk with them a little. Ask their name or their story. There's a regular around me that seems delighted that I remember his name.
Sometimes someone will seem unsafe, but most people are alright. It helps that I'm a bearded man, so certain classes of danger and harassment are rarely pointed at me.
I got laid off in February. I still give to people who ask, but I carry less cash so sometimes I don't have anything to give.
When I'd be out with coworkers, before we all got laid off, none of them would give anything to people asking. I know they made as much or more than I did. I don't judge people for not giving cash out when they're in debt or struggling to pay rent, but I do judge my coworker for like wearing a high five figure watch and never helping the poor.
I give money because it is the decent thing to do.
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really shitty look for the mods that this is still up
exactly which slurs count on here, gang? who counts as people to "be nice" to, exactly? @Bluetreefrog@lemmy.world @TheSaneWriter@lemm.ee @Asudox@lemmy.world