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There are a lot of homeless people that stand on the side of roads with signs asking for charity where I live. There is almost an equal amount of people who do it as a "job" and take turns being on shift with their buddies before they walk to a nearby parking lot and drive back home at the end of the day. They usually do not accept food if offered. Actual needy people will gladly take food. If I were to give cash to someone, I'd offer food first.
Sometimes they are allergic. Sometimes they aren't hungry and have no way to store the food you give them. Sometimes they are sick of the same food because there's a taco bell nearby and that'll all everyone gives them. Sometimes people give them stuff that you need to cook and they have no way of cooking it. There's legit reasons why someone might turn down food if you try to give it to them.
You're not wrong. There may be legitimate reasons to turn down food. There are definitely other indicators which could be a tell as to whether they are truly needy or not. Their response to food is usually a big one, but shouldn't necessarily be the only thing to make judgements on.
Can confirm this. I was in downtown Kansas City Missouri on a daily basis for a time in the late 90's. There was always someone with a sign at a big intersection close to the river. One day I spotted the person that was there that morning at gas station in the afternoon. They got in a BMW at the gas pump and left. It was at that moment that I mistrusted every pan handler I ever saw afterword. Turns out it was a whole family that sent someone down there daily. They dressed down but they were living big in a town right outside the city.
People can be in desperate financial situations and still have a car. Hell for some people that's their only shelter. Begging doesn't really get you a lot of money, so that family might've been desperate for a different reason than being homeless.
Nope that wasn't the case. When I asked around I found out they were not poor or desperate. Few people dare I say no one with a late model BMW is living in their car.
I mean, who'd you ask? Anyone who actually knew them?