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I was talking to one of my friends and he mentioned staying home on July 4, citing how there are a lot of really ugly things going on in the US.

After thinking about this myself, I'm starting to feel the same way. Instead of being proud of the country, I'm feeling like I'm just another wallet that companies and the government are trying to suck all the money out of.

The cost of living is going up, the housing market is a nightmare, I don't feel very confident in our government at all, the job market is a nightmare...

I think I'll be staying home this year too... anyone else?

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[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 8 points 8 hours ago

4th of July? You mean the Ungrateful Colonists Insurgence Day?

[–] Bebopalouie@lemmy.ca 8 points 19 hours ago
[–] hardcoreufo@lemmy.world 7 points 16 hours ago

It's been almost 20 years since I felt patriotic. I mostly just comfort the dog and hope the yahoos don't accidentally burn my house down.

[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 22 hours ago

I mean I always stay home because I'm an introvert, but yeah, mirroring what other's have already said in this thread, I haven't had much to feel patriotic about since at least the Dubya Bush years. So probably more than 20 years of not feeling it.

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 7 points 13 hours ago

I haven't been necessarily patriotic for a long time because why pledge allegiance to a single nation? The only reason I really care about July 4 is the fireworks. It's more tradition than anything that I see them.

Anyways, both of his terms make me feel vindicated in not being patriotic in a country.

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 7 points 5 hours ago

I get double pay for the holiday, yay!

[–] solsangraal@lemmy.zip 7 points 22 hours ago

i'm also staying home. if someone "how dare you!"'s you, tell them you like celebrating not-fascist countries.

personally, i think i'll adopt and celebrate mexico's holidays

[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 7 points 20 hours ago

I would be very concerned about anybody who is feeling patriotic this year

being hopeful and not having given up is one thing. but patriotic? entirely shameful

[–] misteloct@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 11 hours ago

I still have hope, until I am forced to emigrate I won't be giving up on us. This country at one point saved my ancestors from doom, I believe it can again. It's actually the "America sucks" crowd we need the most. In the words of AOC: resist, make them make us.

I'm boycotting America this year.

[–] SolidShake@lemmy.world 6 points 21 hours ago

I haven't gone to see fireworks in a few years. Recently I just go to Walmart and buy some big packs and let my kids enjoy lighting them off and just having fun. Plus the long weekend is awesome.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 6 points 10 hours ago

Call for independence from everything GOP and Trump on July 4th?

[–] DarthKaren@lemmy.world 6 points 39 minutes ago (1 children)

I'm a USAF vet. My ancestors literally fought in the revolutionary war, and signed The Declaration of Independence. I'm going through the motions this year, but I don't feel it at all. I'm pissed that we're multiple stages into a nazi regime. I'm profoundly flabbergasted at how anyone could be for this. How anyone that is for it, can't see that they're going to be the "out" party. Some already are seeing it.

I'm incredibly disappointed that the news has gotten so out of touch that they just rolled over and lapped up the rhetoric. Local news is all sunshine and rainbows while ICE kidnaps people, and a corrupt POtuS breaks the constitution left and right. While he deploys military against its own citizens. While rights are stripped, aided by a corrupt SCOTUS. While the rich get richer off of our backs. While the checks and balances are obliterated.

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[–] FollyDolly@lemmy.world 6 points 2 hours ago

I'm not doing anything for the forth. Fuck America, I am not celebrating my country, because my country wants me dead. Fuck em.

[–] Gismonda@lemmy.world 6 points 6 hours ago

The ONLY reason I give a shit about July 4th this year is that it’s a long weekend and the last chance we’ll have to spend with family before we move out of state in two weeks.

I’m even glad it’s supposed to rain the entire time, so I won’t even feel pressured to celebrate with fireworks!

[–] Shirasho@lemmings.world 6 points 22 hours ago

My friends and I use it as an excuse to have a get together. None of us use it to celebrate the United States or its independence.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 6 points 20 hours ago

Right now I'd call my mood more embarrassed than patriotic.

[–] squaresinger@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

After thinking about this myself, I’m starting to feel the same way. Instead of being proud of the country, I’m feeling like I’m just another wallet that companies and the government are trying to suck all the money out of.

Always have been, always will be.

The cost of living is going up, the housing market is a nightmare

Don't worry, once they deported or killed all the ~~Jews~~ illegals the prices will surely come down.

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[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 5 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah I’m just sick of all the greed and racism. I just want some MANSA (Make America not suck anymore)

[–] yarr@feddit.nl 5 points 18 hours ago

I would like MANA (Make America Nice Again)

[–] Goodmorningsunshine@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago

Oh goodness no. America has fallen, what the fuck does July 4th mean.

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 5 points 1 hour ago

Being a Brit, for years I've jokingly referred to the 4th of July as 'Rebellion Day' to my USian friends. Not sure I'm joking any more, just hopeful. Go on. Rebel!

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 hours ago

I’ll be staying home this year. There is nothing to celebrate. At this point I’d rather watch it all burn down.

[–] Bwaz@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

We used to have porch lights twinkling in red, white, and blue all July. This year, we're just flashing blue adamently. And that only because our lights can't radiate black.

[–] Endymion_Mallorn@kbin.melroy.org 8 points 21 hours ago

Careful, you might get mistaken for Thin Blue Line folks.

[–] Vanilla_PuddinFudge@infosec.pub 4 points 19 hours ago

Family is doing a get-together but if I hear any patriotic bullshit, I'm gone, but with them, it's unlikely to even hear the holiday they're gathering for mentioned. They just needed an excuse to party.

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