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I really don't like the design of the progress pride flag, and I couldn't really put my finger on it until I saw this: https://nava.org/good-flag-bad-flag

For reference, here is the flag I'm referencing as "bad flag":

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And here is the original:

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So, the original has too many colors, but it's the colors of the rainbow. In order. It's recognizable from really far away, and it's dead simple to draw.

With the Intersex flag, that's 14 colors. There are three shades of "purple". The circle won't be visible from far away. The chevrons are too thin to be very recognizable from far away.

It's not like there aren't good pride flags. Like there are AMAZING ones:

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Edit:

In case you don't know what these are: https://flagsforgood.com/collections/pride-flags

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 121 points 3 days ago (12 children)

I think it's basically just "feature creep." Too many ideas trying to be crammed into one symbol. And what's annoying, to me, is that the rainbow by itself was already supposed to represent everyone. That's why it is a rainbow.

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (3 children)

It’s the same phenomenon as “LGBTQI+”

It was literally LGB at one point. I understand the concept of inclusion but I think pursuing it by appending and appending and appending is a lousy way to go. I believe the “Q” was finally added in part because it was hoped to be some kind of catch-all, but that didn’t work.

[–] match@pawb.social 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I propose reducing it down to QT

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

You have reached enlightenment. The universe has no more secrets to you, young one.

You know too much.

CATCH THEM, BOYS !

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[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (3 children)

We could always use the GRSM acronym (Gender, Romantic, and Sexual Minorities)

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (7 children)

I just learned about GSM two days ago here on Lemmy. Now I am learning about GRSM, and while I like both, learning that there is now an additional letter leads me to believe it may go down the same rabbit hole.

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[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I guess I would like to schedule a meting with the project manager and/or customer to discuss the flag specification...

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[–] Yermaw@lemm.ee 73 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (6 children)

Thats way too busy. Should definitely just keep the rainbow flag. Not every little niche needs specific representation, just have the rainbow as a catchall for any kind of deviation from heterosex

Edit to add : if they want to use them to identify and specify within rallies or amongst themselves somehow then whatever, go for it, as long as we can accept the layman isnt gonna have a clue and cant really be expected to.

[–] Railison@aussie.zone 79 points 3 days ago (10 children)

I thought the rainbow was supposed to mean it encompassed everyone.

The colours on the flag apparently weren’t sufficiently inclusive so perhaps this should be the next flag:

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[–] Draegur@lemmy.zip 44 points 3 days ago (5 children)

this fails to capture the grades of saturation.

Here is every color in the RGB (#000000-#FFFFFF) color space arranged sequentially on a Hilbert curve (but scaled down to 512x512)

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[–] VindictiveJudge@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Why are there jpg compression artifacts in your png?

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[–] cecilkorik@piefed.ca 24 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I would absolutely and unironically fly this flag, although to be even more inclusive it also needs an alpha layer. Perhaps it should be a cube? Actually even that might not be inclusive enough, we need more dimensions. BRB I need to figure out how to attach a tesseract to my flagpole, I guess I'll need some kind of gordian knot?

[–] DokPsy@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I was thinking more adding from outside the visible spectrum. So a flag with the entire electromagnetic spectrum from ~10^-20 m to ~10^17 m

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[–] Asetru@feddit.org 8 points 3 days ago

Black and white are pretty overrepresented there though. Turning this into a sphere might help?

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 31 points 3 days ago

Wasn't the entire idea of the rainbow flag to just say "this includes everyone", to be inclusive?

Then people started "well red is this, yellow is that, green is that ...." Making the entire thing as exclusive as can be, now requiring a color and or symbol for each and every tiny different identity they were trying to be

[–] november@lemmy.vg 11 points 3 days ago (2 children)

deviation from heterosex

Totally normal words to say. BTW trans and intersex people can still be straight.

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[–] saltesc@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

They all sprung up in that period where flags were trendy. Every little camp had to have one to feel like a singled-out tribe—and, no, this isn't just kink flags. This meant many would be flag designers overnight.

The result is there's some really fugly designs out there in the wild now and the idiots can't go back. But most people are over flag phase now, so you're unlikely to ever see this and most others out in the wild.

Nothing fails more at its job than a pride flag that people have no idea what is. It's almost irony.

And is this one ugly? Oh, yes. Enough to turn a person straight.

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[–] Kaboom@reddthat.com 7 points 3 days ago

Imo, the rainbow flag is perfectly inclusive. By focusing on one minority, you make it less diverse and less inclusive.

Rainbow flag is best

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 days ago

Here's the thing though, I know this is an ally flag, but it's like they never considered symbols:

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Ignore the really bad black and white background for a second.

Imagine the left side of the shape is an homage to the original pride flag and the right side is WHATEVER YOU WANT TO PUT IN IT. Uniform clean design with representation. Easy to draw for the layman (fill both sides in with rainbow if you want), and easy to add specific representation

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 53 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It was poorly designed ever since they added the chevrons. The six colour pride flag was already pushing it with having six colours, but it pulled it off well and made it work. But anything else just screws it up.

Personally, I think adding intersex, transgender, black people(???) makes it seem as if they WEREN'T included in the original. I was always under the impression that the 🏳️‍🌈 flag included the whole LGBTQ+ groupings

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Same here, I don't understand the need to include ethnicity in a gender and sexuality flag. The flag was fine and already represented diversity. The fuck?

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Also very america-centric. Different races are oppressed in different places.

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[–] FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website 40 points 3 days ago (1 children)

You are judging work by somebody who doesn't feel compelled to follow guidelines made by other people with those very same guidelines. Those other people looked much more closely at flags for geographical entities, not movements, to come up with their guidelines. No one is required to follow them or retroactively abide by them. They are a great style guide but not the law.

Every flag serves a purpose. This flag's purpose is to show representation by color and design for everyone in the community. It's was the point to be busy.

Why don't they just stick with the rainbow flag? Because the idea of the rainbow encompassing everyone was made at a time when gay and lesbians came out with pride but many of the letters that abbreviate that community today were still marginalized more harshly, maybe even within homosexual circles. They weren't all suddenly anthropists and free from discriminatory points of view. Development of ideas and communities takes time. And that's why an artist took ideas from many different flags that were created over time and combined them into one. It is eye catchy and instantly recognizable, even at a medium distance still.

I don't find the result aesthetically pleasing either. But I recognize a) that wasn't the point of it and b) I'm not a member of the LGBTQ+ community. If from within that community a movement rises to change the flag into something else, by all means. Other than that my design opinions - and I suspect many other ones in this thread - are largely academic and frankly irrelevant.

Good flag bad flag is not the gospel. Take it as a starting point for new designs but don't scrutinize all existing flags by it.

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[–] november@lemmy.vg 32 points 3 days ago (1 children)

"Good Flag Bad Flag" is a bunch of people's opinions. It's not any kind of official flag rule book, because there is no such thing.

I think the progress pride flag is fine.

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[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 28 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Ugly flags & the LGBT+ community, name a more iconic duo. Like, I thought we had designers amongst us, whatever happened to them?

[–] Sidhean@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

But you see, Graphic Design is their passion!

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 24 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Americans love to subdivide themselves, and that's especially true for activists. The flag reflects that.

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[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Rainbow flag is cool. 🏳️‍🌈

Due the spectral (is that said correctly?) nature of gender identity and sexual preferences individualized representation of every part of an infinite spectrum is, by definition, impossible. Thus a catch them all flag is the best in representing our diversity.

[–] sprite0@sh.itjust.works 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

i just learned last week about the original lesbian flag:

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and i gotta say it's amazing

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Fair warning with that one, its really cool looking but mostly popular with trans lesbians and terfs.

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[–] SomeAmateur@sh.itjust.works 21 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)
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[–] Hugin@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I'm of the option that the original rainbow flag is still the best. It was meant to include everyone under the rainbow so trans people and others are already included.

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[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I doubt it'll ever be redesigned.

The reason it's badly designed as is, is that people wanted specific inclusion into the primary symbol. There's really no way to change a rainbow; it's the standard spectrum of visible light being used as a symbol of everyone in their diversity being part of a group.

To be any more inclusive, you have to put things on top of the already inclusive rainbow. A corner piece or an inset is the only way to do that that isn't horrible looking no matter what it is.

The chevrons from the side are at least visually balanced, though not well chosen colorwise. Then again, the representative colors weren't chosen with being added to a flag in the first place.

Once you start changing an established symbol rather than just coming up with a new one, design goes out the window. It's no longer cohesive because it can't be. It's like the difference between someone planning a tattoo that covers their arm, and someone getting a few dozen tattoos on their arm. Shoving things together without a plan ahead of time is airways going to be less visually pleasing.

But, visual pleasance isn't what the flag is for, so maybe it's more effective than something planned from the beginning. I dunno, but the fact that it isn't "just" a rainbow does mean you can't mistake it for someone liking rainbows in general, so that could be a benefit of that change.

I don't agree that the original rainbow flag has too many colors though. If you don't have the standard color spectrum there, it isn't a rainbow to most people's minds, so it would be worse design. The standard ROYGBV is standard for a pigment rainbow for a good reason.

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago

I'm not advocating for removing the rainbow. You could literally "cut" a big rectangle in the middle and just have a different color background with extra things, paying homage to the original rainbow flag and having center balance. The only good thing I have to say about the chevrons are that it establishes vertical and horizontal orientation.

I'll have to mull over your statement about being more effective that something planned from the beginning.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 16 points 1 day ago

What annoys me about takes like this is that it seems to be appealing to some sort of council of gays who are in charge of the flags. Nobody is. There's no "official" flag. If you don't like the progress flag or the intersex version of it then just don't fly them or design your own that you do like. Nobody is stopping you. A ton of the pride flags in use today are just designed by random Tumblr users in the mid '10s. Which is fine, not hating on them, just making sure you know there is nothing stopping you from making one you like or flying the ones you prefer.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Its purpose isn't to be aesthetically pleasing. Trans people and POC are constantly discriminated against by other queers, and intersex people rarely are even acknowledged to exist at all, let alone treated as anything else than disgusting or sex object.

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[–] pyre@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

it's a long time meme that pretty much all LGBT flags are awfully designed. but they also got wide acceptance so it's hard to redesign. as a designer I've looked for redesigns and have not seen anything really. even the ones you've shared are brand new to me. where did you find those?

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[–] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Why does everyone complain about the progress flag when the poly flag is right there and is terrible? Absolute garbage. Terrible color choices. Barely holds up to heraldic color rules. and Pi? Seriously? Get out of here you fucking nerd. 2/10, workshop it and come back. I hate it.

I'm cool with poly people, this is just the flag equivalent of biting your tongue when eating a burrito.

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago (2 children)

That's the old secret code one. The new one is listed in this post already

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[–] zeezee@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 days ago

meh I honestly kind of like it - I especially think the intersex symbol ties it together really well

[–] dontkickducks@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Aside from the design of the flags, scrolling through these ones felt a bit like a colour blind test. Especially the demi-flags.

That's not actually the original pride flag. That's the one with 2 mission stripes that were taken away due to cost. The original had turquoise instead of blue and a pink and indigo stripe, so one color more than the rainbow. Rainbows have red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, and violet.

The 8 striped also symbolized different things. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rainbow_flag_(LGBTQ)

I agree with what you're saying. As they keep adding more things to the flag, it becomes cluttered and harder to see.

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