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I really don't like the design of the progress pride flag, and I couldn't really put my finger on it until I saw this: https://nava.org/good-flag-bad-flag

For reference, here is the flag I'm referencing as "bad flag":

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And here is the original:

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So, the original has too many colors, but it's the colors of the rainbow. In order. It's recognizable from really far away, and it's dead simple to draw.

With the Intersex flag, that's 14 colors. There are three shades of "purple". The circle won't be visible from far away. The chevrons are too thin to be very recognizable from far away.

It's not like there aren't good pride flags. Like there are AMAZING ones:

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Edit:

In case you don't know what these are: https://flagsforgood.com/collections/pride-flags

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[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (3 children)

It’s the same phenomenon as “LGBTQI+”

It was literally LGB at one point. I understand the concept of inclusion but I think pursuing it by appending and appending and appending is a lousy way to go. I believe the “Q” was finally added in part because it was hoped to be some kind of catch-all, but that didn’t work.

[–] match@pawb.social 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I propose reducing it down to QT

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

You have reached enlightenment. The universe has no more secrets to you, young one.

You know too much.

CATCH THEM, BOYS !

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[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

We could always use the GRSM acronym (Gender, Romantic, and Sexual Minorities)

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I just learned about GSM two days ago here on Lemmy. Now I am learning about GRSM, and while I like both, learning that there is now an additional letter leads me to believe it may go down the same rabbit hole.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Really? I've never heard just GSM.

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I’ve gone down the rabbit hole and gsm is apparently a common incorrect way to say it. Also a lot of LGBTQ people dislike the term.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)
[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I’m just hearing it for the first time in this thread but my first impression isn’t great. Do you really want a label that brands you as a “minority?” That doesn’t seem like a great first step toward equality.

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

That was the general consensus from what I read about using the term “minority”. As someone who has been labeled a minority their entire life, the term didn’t strike me as odd from a technical standpoint point, but I can see where it would not sit well for many people.

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

It’s interesting - the psychology of that. Recently I was answering someone who asked why the US doesn’t have more of a working class movement, and a big part of my answer was that no one in the US thinks of themselves as part of the working class. Even if they are unarguably at the base of the economy, their plan is to get out of the working class, not make it better. Similarly, I can see Americans having a problem accepting themselves as a permanent minority. In other parts of the world this is just a fact of life. Christians in Syria know they will never be a majority. When rebels ousted Assad, one of the first things they said was that they will treat minorities well. Those minorities know who they are. Similarly, Kurds are 15% of Iraq and that is just a fact based on hundreds of years of ethnic history in the region. But in the US, everyone is on their way to something better (at least so we think). Parts of Europe had very formal class systems for long periods of history so there are people who just think of themselves as working class and they stand for workers’ rights. Not so in the US. No one here is working class or a monitory. We’re too full of all the rhetoric about being created equal.

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

I honestly didn’t even think about it from that point of view. That’s a really interesting perspective. I’ve known instances of Americans going overseas and realizing they are suddenly a minority. They do not like it at all.

[–] nomy@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh shit I unironically like this.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I'm a fan of it but it doesn't seem widely known. Maybe we should spread the word.

[–] Venator@lemmy.nz 4 points 2 days ago

Maybe we should shorten it to Q++ 😅 (j/k)