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I didn't vote for Trump, this is not a justification for anything he is doing, this is purely me trying to find any crumb of hope in this abysmal situation.

The country was in decline for at least a decade before Trump took office. So far everything has been a slow boil and we Americans just take it imo.

Maybe Trump will make everything so awful so quickly it will force actual change. Basically we were slowly heating the water and when it turned lukewarm Trump just cranked the heat up to max, maybe the frog realizes this and jumps out.

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[–] Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world 110 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

People forgot what Trump was like 4 years ago and re elected him. So no, it will not facilitate any change.

[–] Speculater@lemmy.world 54 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

I like how people think destroying everything will somehow result in a future where people are empathetic.

[–] GuyFawkes@midwest.social 21 points 10 hours ago

Agreed; that jackass has pushed me firmly into the “let leopards eat all their faces” camp as opposed to giving a shit WHY they’re so fuckin stupid anymore.

[–] Kroxx@lemm.ee 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

It's more about the less people have to lose the more they are willing to risk

[–] IrateAnteater@sh.itjust.works 19 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

When the people end up with nothing left to lose, things tend to get exceptionally shitty for a few generations. Then it's a die toss to figure out if what comes after that is any better or not.

[–] Zorque@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago

It's not really a die toss because the people with power maintain that power and have the most influence in what comes out of that shit-pool. It needs a functional shakeup at the deepest level, and not superficial changes at the surface level to make an effective difference. Otherwise things will just continue to repeat until we destroy ourselves. The problem is that kind of shakeup requires that people remain vigilant and involved for their entire lives, which isn't going to happen if their only concern is that their own lives are getting disrupted and they want it to go back to par, which is our current standoff.

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[–] Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 80 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

That's a legit societal theory called "accelerationism". Make everything so awful that people will realize what's happening and instigate massive backlash.

Except... the first time this was tried, in the 30's, we got WWII instead of solutions. So maybe not that great of an idea after all.

[–] WanderingThoughts@europe.pub 10 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

There's also the social cycle theory. Things always change.

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This was first proposed in "The Republic" by Plato writing down Socrates' arguments.

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[–] nickwitha_k@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

It's not a theory. It's a religion; sociopolitical homeopathy. Theories require supporting data and accelerationism has none. It just has people willing to sacrifice the vulnerable on the altar of fascism in the belief that magic will happen causing class consciousness, resulting in utopia, despite all evidence showing that it's more likely to result in dark ages.

[–] VoteNixon2016@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 hours ago

"Nah bro, we just need to let the fascists exterminate one more vulnerable group and the workers will rise up and form my version of a leftist utopia, just one more group, I promise, you just gotta read more theory if you don't believe me"

I've blocked more people on here for their accelerationist bullshit than for anything else. At least the fascists will tell me to my face that they want to see me dead.

[–] dexa_scantron@lemmy.world 40 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 32 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (2 children)

You should read some US history if you think that is going to happen.

At best there will be slight improvement for a couple decades while nobody in the administration or who helped to destroy the government suffers any consequences and they just do it all over again.

[–] LesserAbe@lemmy.world 8 points 11 hours ago (4 children)

Have you read U.S. history?

Despite the land of freedom hype, we started as a country where only land owning white men could vote, and slavery was law. As flawed as things are now (and there will always be a need to improve and fight injustice) slavery has been abolished, all men and women can vote, child labor abolished, 40 hour work week, gay marriage legal.

We should be realistic and honest about the bad things happening right now. But if we don't believe it's possible for things to get better (doomerism) then it's much less likely they will, and believing that ignores the actual historical evidence.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 8 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

As flawed as things are now (and there will always be a need to improve and fight injustice) slavery has been abolished,

Except in prisons

all men and women can vote,

Except for the ones who can't because of felonies that are arbitrarily decided to be disqualifying.

child labor abolished,

Except for family businesses, and if you haven't noticed Republicans are bringing child labor back.

40 hour work week,

Except for exempt employees.

gay marriage legal.

Conservatives are working on getting this overturned just like they overturned Roe v Wade.

Yeah, we aren't as shitty as we were 250 years ago but the gains we have made in those centuries is pretty fucking basic. We still have massive problems and Republicans and their half of the voting population are working turelessly to bring back the absolute worst things.

Yes, I have read history.

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[–] Montagge@lemmy.zip 5 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

slavery has been abolished

Took a civil war

all men and women can vote

Not all and women voting took violent riots to come to be

child labor abolished

40 hour work week

People died in gun battles against the government and hired guns to get these

gay marriage legal

It's legal but easy to take away, and also took violent riots

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[–] Kroxx@lemm.ee 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I don't think this will happen

this is purely me trying to find any crumb of hope in this abysmal situation

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

Yes, I was pointing out why you shouldn't try to convince yourself to think that there is any possible chance of a positive coming out of this.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 32 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

I have cystic fibrosis, it’s a genetic disease and my lungs are (were, I got a new set) especially impacted, I thought COVID could possibly change the world for the better for people like me, improved access via remote work or telehealth etc. that people would be more reasonable and understanding to those with lung disease, that the medical sector would start looking more heavily into lung health, lung rehabilitation, the issues around lung disease and immune-disregulation etc. but really very little has happened and there’s been no significant permanent changes and people chose to keep denying illness and disability exist… I think the virus of the trump presidency running through the US will have the same negative effect where a lot of people die and not much else happens

[–] LadyButterfly@lemmy.world 8 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I'm disabled too. By far the biggest issue for me is other people's reactions to it

[–] entropicdrift@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

My wife is disabled in a not-immediately-visible way and our experience is similar. Had one old friendship ruined because he decided she was lazy for not trying to diet her issues away.

[–] SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 8 hours ago

Ugh, your wife and me both. "Have you tried meditation? Fasting? Maybe just push through the pain?"

Pushing through the pain is why my desk jockey ass is currently recovering from a surgery rarely performed on non-athletes. At least all the hospital documentation promises that I can start competitive play within a year or so. Upgrade!

[–] chalupapocalypse@lemmy.world 22 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Thought this would happen the first time, woke up to him winning again.

Shit needs to get a lot worse before it gets better apparently

[–] nickwitha_k@lemmy.sdf.org 17 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Nah. Accelerationism is pure bunk with exactly zero evidence supporting it. Things getting worse just makes it harder to make them better.

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[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 18 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

There’s three ways to get rid of cancer:

  • Poison it. Diminish its numbers to the point where it never comes back.
  • Excise it. Cut it away from the rest of the host.
  • Do nothing. It’ll die once it consumes the host.

Eating granola and berries or sitting there with hopes and praying for change is option 3. I’m on team option 1. Time to get active.

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 5 points 10 hours ago (2 children)
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[–] Nay@feddit.nl 15 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

There's so much negativity here... Don't let it take away your hope.

Things are looking really bad right now, yeah, but losing hope only ensures misery.

"Hope for the best, prepare for the worst."

[–] TehBamski@lemmy.world 8 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I understand your perspective and agree that it would be best to do the following.

But you gotta understand how it feels for most Millennials.

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What's not included in this meme are: USA's Unjustified involvement in two Middle East countries with our armed forces and bombs, 1 Trillion dollars collectively "spent" on those two involvements, "Resurfacing" of mass racism, Mass false news/information, The never ending inflation of everything, and the lie that if we all went to college and got a degree, that everything would be alright later on. (Let me know if I missed any.)

So yes, giving up hope is not wise. But nor is letting us live our lives as if this isn't some of the most corrupt, asinine, 'fight amongst yourselves while we the ultra rich keep taking from you in any way we can,' period of time.

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[–] Kroxx@lemm.ee 4 points 9 hours ago

Yeah there is, I get it though. I've noticed that in myself I have a much shorter fuse now. I try not to take it out on people because I recognize it's just misplaced frustration.

Part of the reason I made this post was to just let people get all of their vitriol and upset feelings out, if even a little.

It's of course not helpful to shout in the void but it also alleviates some of that frustration people feel. I thought it may be a bit therapeutic to give strangers a little spot to direct some of that negativity to.

Thank you for the kind words and your quotation perfectly sums up the response I'm trying to maintain in my mind, if only for my own sanity.

[–] TheReturnOfPEB@reddthat.com 14 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

"Let the OrphanGrindingMachine cook," he said to the crowd.

[–] cmlael67@lemmy.world 12 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

The problem is that there are 70+ million "frogs" in this country who are being told that being boiled alive is good for them - and they believe it without question, and will fight anyone that says otherwise.

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[–] JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world 12 points 4 hours ago

This post breaks literally rules #1, #2 and #3 of this community. Crazy.

Mods please wake up and DO YOUR JOB.

[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 12 points 11 hours ago

Making things worse only makes things worse.

[–] TrojanRoomCoffeePot@lemmy.world 11 points 3 hours ago

If the Reagan administration's legacy is any indication, no, no it won't. Things will continue being fucked and getting worse decades from now.

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[–] xor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

no, but it will be good for punk rock and comedians… everything else will hurt.

[–] Tujio@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

I dunno. My favorite punk band just canceled their American tour...

[–] RagingSnarkasm@lemmy.world 7 points 7 hours ago

See, things are already better for that punk band.

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[–] sbf@feddit.org 9 points 12 hours ago

Things have to get real bad before people realize they need to get better. I’m hoping that happens here

[–] Paradachshund@lemmy.today 9 points 6 hours ago

Reading these responses is so sad. I can see that a large number of people on here have fully embraced cynicism and active pessimism. This is the most damaging attitude possible when trying to create change. If you have this mindset, you're not only not helping to make positive change, you're actively working to drain any energy from those who might be in a better and more productive place than you.

To the OP, don't give up hope. There are thousands of people around the country working right now to change things and resist the downfall of our country in whatever ways they can. The number is growing every day with each new outrage and attack, and energy is building quickly. If you can't donate your time, donate your money to progressive organizations (look up the 50501 project for help finding them).

Nothing is going to change with blind optimism, but history is on our side, and it shows that when things start to hurt for people in their day to day lives, real change is possible. This is not the first fascist takeover in history, and it won't be the last. Some older folks have literally lived through similar times in our own country (see: McCarthyism for example). Nothing is inevitable and no one can predict the future, no matter how believable their claims may sound.

To the cynics, you're absolutely allowed to feel how you feel. I feel quite cynical myself a lot of the time, too. Just remember that when you mock and shout down people trying to move forward, you help create the future you're so resigned to. Not all of us are so ready to roll over and take it. If you won't help, please at least get out of the way.

/soapbox

[–] Mustakrakish@lemmy.world 7 points 40 minutes ago

Thats called "Accelerationism" and its stupid, as history keeps proving

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Long-winded product of a quick brainstorm session incoming...

So, Americans will have two options:

  1. Wait it out passively. Corporate infrastructure/services will become more prevalent and take the place of governmental agencies as they default due to debt and mismanagement (a position they've been put in through the decades thanks to defunding, with Elon's DOGE being the latest of villains in this story). Get ready for corporate cities, and conglomerates being the de facto rulers of America. As governmental power wanes and after the eventual American balkanization, you'll be part of the Amazon Republic of Arizona or whatever. Idk what happens after that.

  2. Somehow, Americans fight both corporate and governmental power, through the creation of alternative supply chains, alternative (labour based, for instance) currency and become more self sufficient. Americans are heavily armed as well and, while incapable of fighting an army of drones, it should be enough of a deterrent (especially if the power structure collapses and infighting amongst oligarchs happens but these post American cooperative societies stand by each other). Communities with immigrants that still have connections to the civilized world might help bring foreign aid and intervention. However, this requires trust, empathy, prosociality, generosity and critical thought. You and I both know Americans are famous for lacking in all of those attributes so I don't really see how they'll get it together quickly (and no, American Christian dogma, which is even more cursed and against the actual teachings of Jesus than the Catholic dogma, cannot offer a solution).

God willing something will happen to snap Americans out of their white ethnonationalist, imperialistic fantasies and into love for humanity, and God does do miracles, but I'm not very optimistic. It might just be the new Sodom and Gomorrah, NGL.

Finally, there's a reason the Western mind can only picture Mad Max when the government collapses: even they know they're completely amoral and uncivilised, the only force holding society together is fear of legal repercussions/getting killed by the cops. By themselves, for the sake of being good and prosocial and to have some self respect, they won't do shit.

[–] dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I can tell you that what happens after option 1 is Snow Crash.

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[–] Zorque@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago

And maybe cotton candy will shoot out of my butt and feed all the starving orphans.

The frog jumps out when it's uncomfortable no matter how slow you heat the water, despite what the meme tells you. The issue is that there's plenty of people more than willing to provide yet another pot of water to boil for the frog to jump into, because the frog just wants out, it doesn't care where it goes.

[–] RandomStickman@fedia.io 5 points 11 hours ago

That's what I thought COVID would do and here we are

[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 12 hours ago

The USA is taking one for the global team rn. We're a shining example of exactly what not to do, what roads to avoid, and who to not become.

[–] Jimmycakes@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago

The masses are poor and uneducated. Under Trump they will get further uneducated, allowing this to happen more often.

[–] ModernRisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

I’m not an American and I don’t live in America. I don’t have much knowledge in this but, I’m quite pessimistic on that regard.

Have you seen other countries? Fascism, hatred and racism are unfortunately on the rise. To name a few; Israel, India, Germany, The Netherlands and Italy (I think it was Italy that had a year* ago or something, bunch of Nazis in standing ovation with their hand ups for their “fallen comrade”);

Chilling Video Shows Hundreds of Far-Right Activists Giving Fascist Salute

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

This usually happens, yes.

After millions people have died.

Not worth it. Trump and the other right wing extremists should have been stopped years ago.

[–] veniasilente@lemm.ee 3 points 10 hours ago

Maybe COVID will be so bad that it will facilitate me go get into exercise

Health, being about people or countries, does not work that way.

[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 2 points 9 hours ago

That is what I'm assuming too.

Would be nice if it wouldn't be causing so much death, destruction and suffering before you got there

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