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[–] Sanctus@lemmy.world 161 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Everything is fetishized by the right, especially the things they claim to hate.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 77 points 3 months ago (2 children)

So much temptation, I must ban EVERYTHING that makes me horny!!!

[–] bizarroland@fedia.io 46 points 3 months ago

I think it was Jesus that said, "It's better to ban an entire nation from existing than it is to work out your own sexuality with fear and trembling".

[–] JayGray91@piefed.social 9 points 3 months ago

Mega Frollo energy

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 31 points 3 months ago

I mean it's the logical conclusion of "everything the right says is projection"

If a right winger wants to ban something you can find as a category on pornhub, that's what they've been clicking.

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 3 months ago

Yup, as a trans person I have personally experienced this

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 94 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I don't think it's widespread or mainstream, but speaking as a femboy, we are fetishized a lot in general. Even normal people often just assume I'm hyperhorny, like the only reason I'm femmodeing is because I want cock. The creepy part about the right-wingers is they see us as "failed males" and specifically get off on the idea of asserting their dominance over us. There's also a lot of dehumanizing and degradation that I see those types engaging in, beyond the typical "slut" that normal people do. They want to sexually abuse and violate femboys to feel better about their own fragile masculinity.

I'm very glad I live in a solid blue state and can go out safely, I think if I lived in a right-wing state I wouldn't feel safe going femmode outside.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 15 points 3 months ago (2 children)

What is a femboy honestly? A straight? feminine man?

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 43 points 3 months ago

Just an effeminate man. I don't know if sexuality has much to do with it, but I'd say the majority of femboys are gay/bi with a minority being strictly heterosexual. To be real blunt, imagine the exact inverse of a tomboy, and you're probably pretty close to a femboy. I like some p girly things, I like to wear skirts and dresses, but I also have a masculine side to me.

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[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 53 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Yes - there is a lot that has been written about the homoeroticism of fascist movements. For years, it’s been a meme that “traps aren’t gay.” Nick Fuentes has sex with submissive puppy boys or something.

Fascism is libidinal. The Nazis who tortured gay men in concentration camps were also very eager to have sex with them. It goes back to Roman or even Bronze Age sexual mores, where sex is an act of aggression and as long as the “superior” is in the penetrative role, then it is okay.

[–] GoodLuckToFriends@lemmy.today 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Where can I find these submissive puppy boys? It doesn't seem like it should be hard to convince one of them to wear one of those rape prevention reverse condoms, just in case...

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Where can I find these submissive puppy boys?

blahaj.zone

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 3 months ago

You can also find catboys here :3

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 43 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I don't know if I would call it fetishizing, as much as it is denying their own homosexual desires because a lot of right-wingers are sexually repressed homosexuals.

"It's not gay if they look like a girl" basically.

[–] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago

I think it's more like, "I'm not gay if a guy sucks my dick, but I'm gay if I suck his."

To Republicans, being "gay" and giving pleasure are submissive, non-masculine traits that go hand in hand. It's why they are so hesitant to go down on a woman, even though it would not be gay for a man to do so.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 41 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Depends what he means by that. Are some right-wingers fetishizing femboys? Yeah. Can we generalize this to apply to all right-wingers as people have tendency to do with this sort of things? No. Turns out that people are individuals and they have different preferences. Shocker.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 29 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] TerranFenrir@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 months ago

Oh hello again, cute cat profile picture that looks like a dick pic for a millisecond! Hope you are doing well! <3

[–] Lasherz12@lemmy.world 28 points 3 months ago

They definitely are, although the most fetishized thing by them is black bulls cucking white men. Seems easy enough to see their criteria is things that flare up their enormous sexual insecurity. Femboys stuff fits that criteria for some of them.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 24 points 3 months ago (1 children)

The term ammosexuals comes up alot, and yes they festishize everything because they are so sexually repressed and frustrated.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 21 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Just saw a dude dumping used motor oil on his lawn exclaiming about being proud or "dgaf" about libs, on Reddit. People snooped his profile briefly and found out he was a big fan of showing his butthole and trying to find weird sexual encounters.

I think it's true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.

[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I think it’s true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.

Every conservative i know personally is ultra repressed, so at least anecdotally, this tracks.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 4 points 3 months ago

I've met some that were malleable, but the moment I brought up some gay shit (I'm cis het btw) they shut the fuck up.

I wish I was who I am now in grade school.

[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 24 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Imagine you're a horrible misogynist who has the drive to have sex with a woman, but you don't like the idea of actually having to touch one. If only there was something feminine but not a woman. Something that could understand a man in the way only a man can, but at the same time is not quite as strong and powerful as a man...

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 19 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Yeah for sure lol. It's kinda the end level of misogyny + toxic competive masculinity + extreme hetero sexual ideation. What else comes from that combo than "forcing weaker men to replace the role of women for your own desires"?

[–] boolean_sledgehammer@lemmy.world 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

They're about as fetishized as cuckolding is in right wing circles. The way those dorks toss that term around tells me enough to know that a lot of them are harboring a deep-seated desire to watch some dude rail their wives like they never could.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago

usually someone more attractive or well built too.

[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 16 points 3 months ago

I think femininity itself is the more fetishized component, so it just means the femboy is successfully femming.

Especially when you consider how right wingers tend to interpret gender roles.

[–] Nyticus@kbin.melroy.org 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Femboys don't even need the right-wingers' help at all. They fetishize themselves and it is in of itself a fetish. I would know given by the amount of furry porn that encircles around femboys in general. And unfortunately, they are some of the loudest and pretend all femboys want to just be cock-slaves and cock-sleeves.

[–] erin@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I don't love the take "men dressing feminine is a fetish." Are tomboys a fetish? Just because some people choose to engage in fetish and also are femboys doesn't make it "in and of itself" a fetish. It isn't.

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[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 16 points 3 months ago

I think this is true for a lot of prejudices. Pron sites have released data showing deep red states where one might imagine more racist people live searching for interracial videos.

[–] figjam@midwest.social 12 points 3 months ago (2 children)

4chan has a lot of gay/trans porn for how right they slant.

[–] swab148@startrek.website 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] figjam@midwest.social 1 points 3 months ago

They are back.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 1 points 3 months ago

I'd say that 4chan is among the main reasons for many of my "weird" kinks and femboys absolutely are among those. Seems to align with my assumed political leanings too.

[–] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 10 points 3 months ago

Kinks transcend political ideology. Roger Stone was famously into getting cuckold.

[–] FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Your friend is pulling "facts" out of their ass.

[–] RVGamer06@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I sent him a screenshot of this comment and he told me that you and me should both touch grass.

Lol he mad

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 6 points 3 months ago

Ironic, because everyone that was familiar with the hellsite formerly known as 4chan both knows the statement is true and doesn't touch grass.

[–] CoffeeJunkie@lemmy.cafe 5 points 3 months ago

Tbh I think most people on Lemmy need to touch grass more often ¯\(°_o)/¯ Your friend sounds alright, for someone who pulls "facts" out of his ass. 😂

[–] FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Can I smoke grass instead?

[–] CoffeeJunkie@lemmy.cafe 5 points 3 months ago

Yes, Feelzgoodman420, you may indeed smoke the grass.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 3 months ago

they are more into transporn and gayporn than femboys. they also tend to seek out more extreme porn and deviancies, because of thier repression. pedophelia, beastility is strangely common amongst conservatives.

the episode of american dad where STAN finds his kink, hes portrayed as an uptight conservative man, but when roger help him release his sexuality, he couldnt stop, he went and more extreme.