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[–] PhobosAnomaly@feddit.uk 129 points 1 day ago (7 children)

I'm not sure about elsewhere in the world, but daytime TV in the UK is full of programmes where people want to move house to somewhere a little nicer or chilled - whether it's to escape the rat race, bring up kids outside of a city, to retire, whatever. They have the strangest "contestants" though, like (and I'm pulling these from my arse but I doubt they're far from the truth) meeting Tarquin, 44, a part time artist; and Helena, 49, who volunteers at the local farmers market.

"Their budget is 1.2 million pounds"

what the actual fuck

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 62 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My (half serious) conclusion is the contestants like you describe are either the no-I'm-not-wealthy class of idiots that have simply come from money and don't realise that's not the norm, or they're drug dealers that found a skilled accountant.

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[–] TranscendentalEmpire@lemm.ee 50 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeap, same thing with "find my dream house" shows in America. I think the major difference is that instead of the people being in their 40s, it's usually people in their 20's. The source of the funding is ultimately the same, rich parents. The likely difference is between trust fund kids in the US and just people whose parents have finally taken their much awaited dirt naps in the UK.

I think rich parents are basically a prerequisite to owning a home for anyone under 40 nowadays. I'm one of the only people in my friend group of people in their late 30s who owns a home, and that was due to what I consider a minor miracle.

I was lucky and bought an abandoned house from the bank for 30k after the last recession, and that was only possible because I got a loan I probably shouldn't have qualified for through USAA. So, still a bit of nepotism, but because my dad was in the service, not because he was wealthy.

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[–] peregrin5@lemm.ee 43 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Yeah that's the House Hunters trope. It's in the US too on HGTV.

Lisa is a 25 year old retired yoga instructor and Drew is a 28 year old brick layer who does crack in the alley behind his apartment. They are looking to upgrade into a home in the suburbs because Lisa is expecting any day now! Their budget is 3.5 million. Can they find a home?

[–] baguettefish@discuss.tchncs.de 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)

oh no, they have a bunch of requirements and accidentally spent double their budget on the house but are still just fine somehow

[–] ExtantHuman@lemm.ee 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Every single episode of those shows features a couple that has already purchased a house, and they pretend to give them two other choices to "pick" between.

[–] VindictiveJudge@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Especially noticeable when they find a fake option that's a better fit for their wants/needs than the one they actually chose and the same price or cheaper.

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[–] pimento64@sopuli.xyz 26 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The fake jobs are euphemisms for having a trust fund.

[–] notabot@lemm.ee 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

That, or having bought their first property long enough ago, and in the right place, that it's appreciated massively more than the place in the country that they've got their eye on. The property ladder is, possibly was, a thing.

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[–] conditional_soup@lemm.ee 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Yeah, same thing with House Hunters in the US. Those made really good memes. "Stacy, 23, who is a professional whistler, and her husband, Joe, 25, a part time stick weigher, are looking for a more relaxed pace and a smaller, cozier home. Their budget is 7 million, and they're looking for no less than 3,000 sq meters"

[–] frezik@midwest.social 9 points 17 hours ago

Those are good shows to hate watch in a hotel when you don't have anything else to do.

Except for this one time. It was an African American family where a single working mom had to use the dinner table to get work done after hours, her mom lived with them and had to sleep in the same bed as the younger daughter, and the teenage boy had outgrown the length of his bed.

I can't make fun of that. This family needs a new house.

Next episode had a white family. Their biggest problems were that the kids didn't each have their own bathroom, and they didn't live close enough to the golf course. Now that's more like it.

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[–] FelixCress@lemmy.world 82 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (9 children)

This is winding me right up. You see people in movies and you think straight away - there is no way you would be able to afford this house/car.

The same goes with them living without any noticeable employment for months. Or having a job but spending their working hours doing something else.

[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 60 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hollywood has done irreparable damage to society’s expectation of reality.

[–] taladar@sh.itjust.works 34 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

And it doesn't even stop at the financial stuff where someone has an incentive to screw with society's expectations. All kinds of other aspects like friendships, relationships, parenting,... are strange in movies too.

[–] cRazi_man@lemm.ee 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's was a video essay on YouTube about there being less and less sex on TV and in movies and how bad that is. They argued that media should portray all aspects of life realistically; and if sex is left only to porn then it's going to give people a more and more skewed view with no counterbalance.

[–] taladar@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

That is a good point but they should also just include more awkwardness and in general more of the effort required to keep relationships (of all kinds) working, even the successful ones. That whole "find your soulmate and then coast" nonsense has done a lot of damage to relationships to take just one example.

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[–] archonet@lemy.lol 40 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

It's the system working exactly as designed. "you, too, could have all this if you only worked hard enough. Now that you've spent 2-3 hours of your weekend off at the movies, get back to work, slave"

[–] NJSpradlin@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Exactly, and everything is product placement. WTF would Ford want a beater from the 80s being the car in the film? They’ll lobby for the coolest, brandnewest model even when it doesn’t make sense. Or their product placement models will be every other car on the road. I see you Transformers.

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People in movies and tv rarely have messy houses, they’re always spotless, and everyone pops in on each other and everyone is at home wearing pants.

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[–] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 43 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Is that a Frank Lloyd Wright?

[–] rem26_art@fedia.io 48 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Yup, thats Fallingwater in Pennsylvania. Its a museum now and you can take tours of it

[–] squirrel@lemmy.blahaj.zone 35 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Despite subsequent repairs to the parapet, the cracks there periodically reappeared. Fallingwater's problems were so numerous that Edgar Sr. referred to it as "Rising Mildew".

This part never fails to amuse me.

[–] rem26_art@fedia.io 14 points 1 day ago

lmao yeah thats great. Cantilever structures are interesting to look at, but boy would I not want to be in charge of maintenance on that

[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 10 points 1 day ago

Rising Mildew

This was my first thought upon processing wtf was happening in the pic. I mean, sure, that's neat. But also a nightmare.

[–] drosophila@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I think his general style was really good, how his buildings could look futuristic and naturalistic at the same time, but FLW kinda didn't give a shit about structural integrity or insulation.

[–] Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The interior is also very cramped for such a large structure. The surrounding land is gorgeous though.

[–] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

The designer was fond of liminal space. He likes narrow hallways and sudden openings to big rooms. Personally, I was surprised by how low the ceiling is in last of the rooms. From the pictures, it looks taller and more imposing than it is IRL.

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[–] klemptor@startrek.website 12 points 1 day ago

Yup, I believe it's Fallingwater

[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 24 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

This is one of the reasons nobody likes movies anymore. Hollywood is so disconnected from the struggle of the working class it’s just sad. The Oscar’s have become a joke

[–] Awesomo85@sh.itjust.works 10 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

You got me thinking over here.

Perhaps it's a two way street, and both sides have changed.

It used to be that people wanted to suspend their beliefs for an hour and a half and live in a fantasy. I feel like most people look more for reality and relatability in cinema these days, but Hollywood is still trying to provide the escape.

It's just not lining up.

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[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] TheRealKuni@midwest.social 7 points 1 day ago

What about the Atom Brick set? (3/4-Lego-scale bricks).

[–] Sibshops@lemm.ee 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I'm always sort of happy when I see realistic apartment situations. Like how Ruby Sunday on Dr. Who lives with her foster family as an adult.

Sopranos have a tidy house but they have a maid, when tony lives on his own, his house is littered with dirty laundry, cereal bowls, pizza boxes and tony isn’t wearing pants. I appreciated the realism of that show

[–] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 17 points 10 hours ago (5 children)

Well of course they live there; that's one of Frank Lloyd Wright's worst designs. They're not going to live in one of his masterpieces, are they?

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[–] Phoenicianpirate@lemm.ee 17 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

When I was a kid growing up in the Middle East in the 80s and 90s I idolized the hollywood/US TV western lifestyle. They all seemed so effortlessly lavish and nice. All sitcom/domcom families had large homes and all the kids had their own rooms and those kids didn't need an allowance. They could get jobs like waitresses or paperboys that earned a half decent pay that allowed them to afford whatever the hell they wanted. I lived in Dubai they forbade all child labor. Even if those laws were ignored in some circumstances, they were generally quite strictly enforced. So unless you were a debt-slave camel jockey kid, you were not going to work at any job.

I legit thought that that was the reality of many people. Even young adult slackers with chronic unemployment issues still somehow had small houses bigger than any apartment I knew. Of course this was myth, and ever since the 2000s rolled along with nearly 40+ years of stagnant wages AND rising costs of everything else meant that that idea is dead.

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 11 points 9 hours ago

Grew up in the ghetto of the US.

Would watch Fresh Prince and Family Matters and like "WOW look at that. Their house is so pristine. Everything looks new. Everyone has their own room. People sit at a dining table."

My house was dark, smelled funny, full of random junk and we'd have mattresses on the floor to fit a large family.

All my hood friends had the same experience. I had friends whose bedroom also their living rooms.

Now I have friends who have a lot of money. 6 figure incomes and everything. Their house is slightly better looking, but that's about it. Still full of stuff. Messy if you surprise them on a off day.

Average American is no longer the standard for quality living.

[–] jenny_ball@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago

seriously. or they'll have some 25yo running the CIA or something.

[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 13 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Malcom in the middle had a realistic home.

[–] Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee 8 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Which they only had because multiple people were murdered in the house, and Lois didn't tell the family.

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[–] fireweed@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

I don't mind unrealistic housing as long as it's not directly referenced. Nothing worse than a character inviting someone into their home saying something like "sorry it's so cramped" and then the shot reveals a living room large enough to fit my entire apartment.

[–] fossilesque@mander.xyz 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

LPT from a local: Skip this tourist trap and just go to Ohiopyle down the road for natural rock slides. It is, perhaps, my favourite park.

[–] callouscomic@lemm.ee 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I find most video games and other media far more unrealistic in that nobody ever needs to go to the bathroom.

[–] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sounds like you don't play Ark: Survival Evolved.

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[–] thorhop@sopuli.xyz 9 points 1 day ago

It's all that tip money.

[–] OwlPaste@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

80s had a different definition of being a part time mum to 20 kids

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