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[–] MoonlightFox@lemmy.world 22 points 4 days ago (2 children)

It is very dystopian.

But try to remember that people in grief do a lot of weird stuff. Try not to be too hard on this guy.

He is in a situation where he is both looking for work and grieving. Pretty bad situation.

[–] Orygin@sh.itjust.works 2 points 4 days ago

Made me think of Bruce Dawson, who lost his wife and kinda retired:
https://randomascii.wordpress.com/2024/10/01/life-death-and-retirement/

[–] some_random_nick@lemmy.world 0 points 4 days ago (2 children)

He could have given it a little more time, instead of the 12ish suggested by the wording.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Again, people do weird shit in grief, and losing a spouse is a special kind of hell.

[–] MoonlightFox@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Yep. The longer I have been with my wife, the worse TV shows make me feel when spouses die and one is left all alone.

I think I would lose myself almost completely for a long time if it happened to me.

When I was younger I did not understand how people could die of grief after losing a loved one. I do now. I have been with my wife for over 10 years, we have a great bond and share everything. I would survive, but I can only imagine that bond after 30-40 or even 50, 60, 70 years.

[–] Earflap@reddthat.com 4 points 3 days ago

There's no wrong way to grieve. I mean, I personally wouldn't do this, but that doesn't make it wrong.

[–] chetradley@lemm.ee 19 points 4 days ago

This is so sad. I'm going to go home right now, give my wife a big hug, and tell her that she is slightly more important to me than corporate cyber security.

[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago

My wife's dying breath, as I put the pillow over her face, was "be happy, which you will be, now that you have more time for cybersecurity".

I will miss her, but not enough to interfere with my ability to meet your cybersecurity needs, 24/7.

[–] misterdoctor@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

She held the encrypted passkey to my heart

[–] Sergio@slrpnk.net 2 points 4 days ago

She was my perimeter, my DMZ, my only endpoint...

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Every cloud has a silver lining. With the wife dead, you have more time to spend working on cybersecurity instead of shopping for Valentine's and birthday gifts. Date night is now Patch night.

[–] darvocet@infosec.pub 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Your title was so good i was waiting for the punchline the whole time.

[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 1 points 4 days ago

Still waiting...

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

What a loser. Embedded systems engineering was my everlasting light and love long before I met my wife, and it shall outlive her frail form for far longer than she shall surely ever know.