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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 6 days ago

And smart clients/UIs like tesseract realise that the link is to a remote lemmy instance, and then give you the option of viewing it remotely or from your own instances perspective

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 6 days ago

On the horizon? They crossed that horizon a long time ago. It's just going to accelerate now

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 40 points 1 week ago (9 children)

Any place with anonymous/ephermal account and posts as the default is going to attract the worst people in the world....

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Reports federate, in a limited way. They federate to the instance the community is hosted on, the instance the reported user is hosted on, the instance the reporting user is hosted on (well technically, it doesn't federate to the last one, as that is where it started). I don't believe that a report will federate to a remote instance that doesn't meet one of those criteria, even if it hosts a moderator for the community, but I'm not certain about this one.

Either way, report resolutions don't directly federate, so resolving a report doesn't resolve it on the other instances. It looks like they federate, because post removal from a mod federates, and removing a post auto closes the report. However, a report that was spurious or a troll or whatever that isn't going to be actioned, has to be manually closed down on each instance it federates to.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I'm panromantic, but attracted to men, however I only date women and gender diverse folk on that end of the gender spectrum. My partner is a woman :)

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago

I'm not the OP, but their question was pretty much describing me.

For me, it's about intimacy. I value intimacy. Hugging, kissing, touching, holding hands, sharing moments, laying on the couch together watching TV etc. Those are things that I don't do with my friends, and aren't things that I'm looking for from my friends.

Asexual folk have developed language that talks about the way they navigate similar situations. Sex averse, sex neutral and sex positive. So even though I'm not ace, the terms apply in a similar way to my relationships. Using these terms, I would describe myself as sex neutral. Which is to say that I don't seek it out, and I don't miss it. Yet, it's also a very strong form of intimacy, which I value a great deal, and as an expression of intimacy, it's very much something I'm happy to share with my partner.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (4 children)

That's pretty much me. I don't really have a name for it. I just call myself queer, or sometimes panromantic.

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 week ago

Phones are already too small. I use a fold because it's the only way I can get a decent sized phone now!

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

Isn't that just karaoke?

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago

I mean, the goal was to kill the vibe, and I would argue a poorly done rickroll meets those requirements :p

[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 weeks ago

If people cannot understand your experience, it's not because you are trans and they are cis

Well, it's not just that. As you say, even trans folk can't understand other trans folks experience. But that still speaks to my point. Acceptance shouldn't be gatekept behind understanding

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