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cross-posted from: https://reddthat.com/post/56223456

George Hendricks, a 69-year-old from Leesburg, a suburb of Orlando, told ClickOrlando he lost $45,000 after a scammer targeted him with a deepfake video of Musk. Deepfakes are digitally-altered videos often used to impersonate notable public figures.

Now, Hendricks tells the outlet that his wife “wants to get a divorce” over the scam.

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[–] ExtremeDullard@piefed.social 80 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (10 children)

She's right: she lives with a dumbass.

I've never understood this "old people are vulnerable" thing (not to mention that 69 ain't that old): even if the scam is really good, at some point the mark is asked to make a large amount of money flow out of their bank account: anybody with the good sense the good lord gave to donkeys would have alarm bells ringing loudly between their ears. Everybody I've met in my life reacts like that.

I might understand if the scanner impersonates a close family member really well - although if one of my children started asking me large sums of money, I would get suspicious because... well, they just don't. But Elon Musk? That guy ain't a victim, he's a moron.

[–] tgcoldrockn@lemmy.world 99 points 2 days ago (4 children)

You might be surprised about this, but as people age, so do their brains. They do not function as well and sometimes develop serious issues. Stop assuming everyone has the same resources to work with. Protect the vulnerable from bad actors.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago (3 children)

As of the time of this reply, 3 people have downvoted you. I cannot fathom reading your message and thinking "Well this guy is clearly wrong! Everybody should be judged equally!"

How they came to the conclusion to downvote you, I'll never know.

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's quick, it's easy and it's free, just like pouring river water into your socks!

[–] Serinus@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Why would I pour river water into my socks?

[–] aramis87@fedia.io 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Because it's quick, it's easy, and it's free!

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

It's not that quick, the nearest river is about a 25 minute walk from me, I wouldn't call that convenient. Also it's raining , so I can't go now or I'll get wet.

[–] aramis87@fedia.io 4 points 2 days ago

Also it's raining , so I can't go now or I'll get wet.

Lol

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[–] echodot@feddit.uk 11 points 2 days ago

We do protect the vulnerable from bad actors, when anybody tries to make large transfers of money the banks are required to check the validity of the transaction but ultimately if the individual insists what's the bank supposed to do. It's their money.

There is only so much that it is possible to do, and beyond a certain point you have to accept that scams are either going to happen or just take people's ability to control of their own money away from them, neither are particularly good options.

[–] Instigate@aussie.zone 8 points 2 days ago

You make a great point - not all of us have the same capacities and there need to be protections in place to prevent people falling for scams - but I just don’t know where the line is between personal responsibility and collective responsibility. Like, for society to function, we all need to assume some amount of collective responsibility to protect others but that can’t be at 100%. People need to take some amount of personal responsibility for their actions, otherwise we slide towards a society with no learning and no repercussions which is a recipe for disaster and collapse.

It’s a tenuous relationship, and extremely context-dependent, so I don’t think that there is an objective and quantitative answer to the question. Would make an interesting philosophical/ethical debate though.

[–] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And yet we let them vote and run the country.

We can't even agree to revalidate their driving ability because that would be disrespectful.

They don't get to have it both ways.

[–] CXORA@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Stupid young people are allowed to vote too. And for good reason. Tying ability to vote to a check of capability is easily, and historically broadly, abused

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[–] Taldan@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Avoiding scams is as easy as walking a single step. Yet almost everyone has tripped at least once in their life

We're exposed to scams all the time, all it takes is falling for one of them. Have a little empathy, because it absolutely could be you one day

It happens to soook many people. Thousands-10s of thousands of people a day. And not all of them are complete idiots, they are just stressed out/worried about some shit in a rush and make a mistake. You get a convincing enough email/text/call whatever and they call the number listed because they are worried someone got into their account.

Shit, I think I saw an article a couple days ago saying roughly $16 billion dollars were scammed from people in the U.S. like that in 2024 alone.

Very often the person who got scammed realizes right away but soon as that person that remoted in presses whatever button it's done. If they aren't paying attention, that $5,000 in Apple gift cards was bought with your face ID to verify it, the activation code was grabbed from the email they delete the email and end the call. They immediately redeem the activation code on a random Apple ID they have, and it's a race to use those funds up before the person scammed realizes, gets a hold of Apple, and apple flags the purchase and freezes the account it was activated on.

Even if all the funds are still on the Apple account and frozen... The person who got scammed won't get that money back I don't believe. Apple profits from that purchase, why would they want to lose that sale. People buy Uber and other such gift cards as well. And not much is done to stop all these people getting scammed

[–] finitebanjo@piefed.world 9 points 2 days ago

I wasn't with you at first, people age at different rates and cognitive decline comes for us all, but the point you make about Elon Musk is convincing enough.

I won't pity him but I also hope they catch the theif.

[–] bampop@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

Old people spent almost all their lives living in a different world, where you could trust and believe in certain things. That world has dissolved just as their brains got too old to adapt to the change. It's hard for everyone to keep up, but for some people it's impossible. My father in law is like that, his smartphone is always full of crap because if he sees a popup advert telling him he needs to install something, he'll do as he's told. He can't tell the difference between an advert and a system message. He grew up in a world where most of the time you could basically trust what people were telling you, especially if it looked official. Modern technology and media has no consideration for such vulnerable people, except for finding ways to exploit them.

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[–] Schmuppes@lemmy.today 71 points 2 days ago (3 children)

“My good friend Mr. George, I just want you to listen to what I’m telling you. I promise that you’re going to receive your package.”

I cannot help reading that to myself with a thick Indian accent. Been watching too much Scammer Payback, I guess.

[–] LordOfLocksley@lemmy.world 35 points 2 days ago

Do not redeem saar!

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 20 points 2 days ago

I didn't actually witness, this but one of these scam call centres called my bosses bosses well he was attending a cybersecurity conference. Unfortunately there's no actual video of the event but apparently everyone involved had a good time stringing the idiot along for about 45 minutes.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

I cannot help reading that to myself with a thick Indian accent.

See, it came to me in the voice of The Music Man.

"Yessir! Genuine, on-time, serves you wine when you dine. This here's gonna be a package you'll be thrilled to receive. Just 48 hours and its all yours, sign on the dotted line, no that's just fine. Here, here, and here, good sir. You've got excellent penmenship and a smile to match."

[–] Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world 39 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Imagine the arrogance of believing that one of the world's richest and most self-centered people has taken time out of their day ...

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Honey, listen. If you'd just watch the ad, he said his brain was in the Cloud. He's omnipresent now. He can talk to any of us.

Look! Look! I still have the link. Damn, why won't this link work? If you could just see the link, honey. He was talking to me. He said, I'd won and that I was incredibly smart. He said we've been chosen! We don't have to live in this shitty apartment anymore. He's going to take us away with him to Mars!

HONEY! Come back! I love you and I want to live in the computer on Mars together!

...

Fuck. Well, fine. I guess I'll just go find an AI girlfriend.

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 33 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Does the wife want to divorce him because of the money he lost or the fact that he chose a "Musk" product?

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 26 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Maybe it's because he's an idiot.

[–] phx@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah guaranteed this isn't the first incredibly stupid thing he's done - probably while ignoring the advise of everyone else - but it may be the latest or most expensive.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 7 points 1 day ago

The guy is also at an age where cognitive decline can start to set in. A lot of the early symptoms include becoming angrier and having worse impulse control.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

You dance with the Golden Retriever Boyfriend who brung ya.

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[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 28 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Because Elmo is famous for his donations and philanthropy...

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

He donates money to himself.

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[–] MyMindIsLikeAnOcean@piefed.world 26 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (11 children)

He’s an idiot…but his wife is also likely a gold digger?

…but at the same time he’s old and shouldn’t be expected to be tech savvy. I’m always worried about the viral nonsense my elderly mom falls for. If mom didn’t have a son like me drilling it into her head that everything is fake…theydve got her money by now.

What don’t understand is why isn’t social media fucking complicit for allowable these ads? Back in the 80s you couldn’t tell a white lie in a TV commercial or else you’d get fined…but YouTube and Facebook aren’t even required to have actual people checking the ads people post on their site?

[–] aramis87@fedia.io 35 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I don't see where his wife is a gold digger. According to the article, he's fallen for repeated scams and, the way they work is that once you've fallen for one scam, they sell your information to other scammers as an easy mark. As her spouse, he probably has access to all her money; if they get divorced, she'll at least be able to protect her half of their assets.

[Notice that it doesn't say his wife wants to leave him, just get divorced.]

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[–] echodot@feddit.uk 12 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I feel like it's not just being tech-savvy though. He seems to lack basic common sense.

Why would you assume that a free car giveaway would necessitate you paying transfer fees, why wouldn't that have already been pre-arranged. After all it's a Tesla car presumably Tesla the ones who are going to deliver it. Additionally why would the competition be exclusive to a niche Facebook group and not a national campaign. It all just seems very obviously a scam.

My parents aren't particularly tech savvy and often send me AI garbage but they wouldn't be easy marks because both of them have critical thinking skills, or at least my mother does. But my dad has learnt to do what he's told.

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[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I dunno. My mom is his age and taught us how to build crystal radios when we were kids for fun. She still does it every few years with the grandkids as they grow up. She's still sharp as a whisk.

[–] nightofmichelinstars@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

She's still sharp as a whisk.

Whisks are not sharp. Do you mean whip? Or am I missing the joke?

[–] Zamboni_Driver@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 days ago (4 children)
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[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Cutting someone loose who makes terrible financial decisions is not gold digger behavior. They are likely retired and have limited resources to worry about and he just blew a big chunk of that. This also doesn't speak well of his intelligence overall so maybe this was a long time coming.

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[–] xx3rawr@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

He could've bought an actual EV for that

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[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 14 points 2 days ago

I like to think she's not leaving him because he lost the money. I like to think she's leaving him because he's dumb enough to be the type of person to lose the money.

Like, $45,000? Yeah, it's a huge hit to your bank account. But money comes and goes. At the end of the day, you're still with the guy who never stopped to think.

[–] gustofwind@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

I’m (not) sorry but if you are capable of falling for this scam you are living in an actual fucking dream world and are a danger to the community

In a just world those scammers wouldn’t exist but this guy also wouldn’t recklessly revel in obvious delusions of grandeur

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

I've been on a Kitboga binge and the only thing that makes scam AIs better than flesh and blood scammers is that they won't talk over you.

However, I don't think I could get an AI to scream "DO NOT REDEEM!"

[–] arc99@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

And I thought my wife was gullible for nearly falling for a cadburys hamper giveaway scam. But this several orders of gullible worse.

Who here actually blames her lol

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

Good for her.

[–] kSPvhmTOlwvMd7Y7E@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

And she s right, i d also unbirth the kids if possiblr

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Just shove em back in there 👌

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[–] JC5@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

that $45,000 can be used for something useful, like yk covering the tuition fee of a university for a year or to make me travel places.

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[–] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago
[–] PK2@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

But now she can't afford it!

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