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cross-posted from: https://reddthat.com/post/56223456

George Hendricks, a 69-year-old from Leesburg, a suburb of Orlando, told ClickOrlando he lost $45,000 after a scammer targeted him with a deepfake video of Musk. Deepfakes are digitally-altered videos often used to impersonate notable public figures.

Now, Hendricks tells the outlet that his wife “wants to get a divorce” over the scam.

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[–] ExtremeDullard@piefed.social 74 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (9 children)

She's right: she lives with a dumbass.

I've never understood this "old people are vulnerable" thing (not to mention that 69 ain't that old): even if the scam is really good, at some point the mark is asked to make a large amount of money flow out of their bank account: anybody with the good sense the good lord gave to donkeys would have alarm bells ringing loudly between their ears. Everybody I've met in my life reacts like that.

I might understand if the scanner impersonates a close family member really well - although if one of my children started asking me large sums of money, I would get suspicious because... well, they just don't. But Elon Musk? That guy ain't a victim, he's a moron.

[–] tgcoldrockn@lemmy.world 85 points 20 hours ago (4 children)

You might be surprised about this, but as people age, so do their brains. They do not function as well and sometimes develop serious issues. Stop assuming everyone has the same resources to work with. Protect the vulnerable from bad actors.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 17 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

As of the time of this reply, 3 people have downvoted you. I cannot fathom reading your message and thinking "Well this guy is clearly wrong! Everybody should be judged equally!"

How they came to the conclusion to downvote you, I'll never know.

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 12 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

It's quick, it's easy and it's free, just like pouring river water into your socks!

[–] Serinus@lemmy.world 7 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Why would I pour river water into my socks?

[–] aramis87@fedia.io 16 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Because it's quick, it's easy, and it's free!

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 6 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

It's not that quick, the nearest river is about a 25 minute walk from me, I wouldn't call that convenient. Also it's raining , so I can't go now or I'll get wet.

[–] aramis87@fedia.io 4 points 16 hours ago

Also it's raining , so I can't go now or I'll get wet.

Lol

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[–] echodot@feddit.uk 3 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I haven't down voted them but I was strongly inclined to do so.

It's an argumentative comment that adds nothing to the conversation. Of course we should protect vulnerable people, but we actually already do do that. At some point someone has to take responsibility for their own susceptibility to manipulation, such as recognise you can no longer make sound financial decisions and give power of attorney to someone else. Otherwise it is their fault they're getting manipulated.

Just because of victim is over the age of 40 doesn't mean that they're mentally infeebled. This attitude ignores the underlying issue which is that quite a lot of people are just quite stupid.

[–] Zamboni_Driver@lemmy.ca 3 points 17 hours ago

I only downvoted them because I got the idea from your comment.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 10 points 16 hours ago

We do protect the vulnerable from bad actors, when anybody tries to make large transfers of money the banks are required to check the validity of the transaction but ultimately if the individual insists what's the bank supposed to do. It's their money.

There is only so much that it is possible to do, and beyond a certain point you have to accept that scams are either going to happen or just take people's ability to control of their own money away from them, neither are particularly good options.

[–] Instigate@aussie.zone 8 points 17 hours ago

You make a great point - not all of us have the same capacities and there need to be protections in place to prevent people falling for scams - but I just don’t know where the line is between personal responsibility and collective responsibility. Like, for society to function, we all need to assume some amount of collective responsibility to protect others but that can’t be at 100%. People need to take some amount of personal responsibility for their actions, otherwise we slide towards a society with no learning and no repercussions which is a recipe for disaster and collapse.

It’s a tenuous relationship, and extremely context-dependent, so I don’t think that there is an objective and quantitative answer to the question. Would make an interesting philosophical/ethical debate though.

[–] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 hours ago (5 children)

And yet we let them vote and run the country.

We can't even agree to revalidate their driving ability because that would be disrespectful.

They don't get to have it both ways.

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[–] Taldan@lemmy.world 16 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Avoiding scams is as easy as walking a single step. Yet almost everyone has tripped at least once in their life

We're exposed to scams all the time, all it takes is falling for one of them. Have a little empathy, because it absolutely could be you one day

It happens to soook many people. Thousands-10s of thousands of people a day. And not all of them are complete idiots, they are just stressed out/worried about some shit in a rush and make a mistake. You get a convincing enough email/text/call whatever and they call the number listed because they are worried someone got into their account.

Shit, I think I saw an article a couple days ago saying roughly $16 billion dollars were scammed from people in the U.S. like that in 2024 alone.

Very often the person who got scammed realizes right away but soon as that person that remoted in presses whatever button it's done. If they aren't paying attention, that $5,000 in Apple gift cards was bought with your face ID to verify it, the activation code was grabbed from the email they delete the email and end the call. They immediately redeem the activation code on a random Apple ID they have, and it's a race to use those funds up before the person scammed realizes, gets a hold of Apple, and apple flags the purchase and freezes the account it was activated on.

Even if all the funds are still on the Apple account and frozen... The person who got scammed won't get that money back I don't believe. Apple profits from that purchase, why would they want to lose that sale. People buy Uber and other such gift cards as well. And not much is done to stop all these people getting scammed

[–] finitebanjo@piefed.world 9 points 20 hours ago

I wasn't with you at first, people age at different rates and cognitive decline comes for us all, but the point you make about Elon Musk is convincing enough.

I won't pity him but I also hope they catch the theif.

[–] bampop@lemmy.world 7 points 10 hours ago

Old people spent almost all their lives living in a different world, where you could trust and believe in certain things. That world has dissolved just as their brains got too old to adapt to the change. It's hard for everyone to keep up, but for some people it's impossible. My father in law is like that, his smartphone is always full of crap because if he sees a popup advert telling him he needs to install something, he'll do as he's told. He can't tell the difference between an advert and a system message. He grew up in a world where most of the time you could basically trust what people were telling you, especially if it looked official. Modern technology and media has no consideration for such vulnerable people, except for finding ways to exploit them.

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[–] Schmuppes@lemmy.today 64 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

“My good friend Mr. George, I just want you to listen to what I’m telling you. I promise that you’re going to receive your package.”

I cannot help reading that to myself with a thick Indian accent. Been watching too much Scammer Payback, I guess.

[–] LordOfLocksley@lemmy.world 29 points 16 hours ago

Do not redeem saar!

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 18 points 17 hours ago

I didn't actually witness, this but one of these scam call centres called my bosses bosses well he was attending a cybersecurity conference. Unfortunately there's no actual video of the event but apparently everyone involved had a good time stringing the idiot along for about 45 minutes.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

I cannot help reading that to myself with a thick Indian accent.

See, it came to me in the voice of The Music Man.

"Yessir! Genuine, on-time, serves you wine when you dine. This here's gonna be a package you'll be thrilled to receive. Just 48 hours and its all yours, sign on the dotted line, no that's just fine. Here, here, and here, good sir. You've got excellent penmenship and a smile to match."

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 32 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Does the wife want to divorce him because of the money he lost or the fact that he chose a "Musk" product?

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 18 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

Maybe it's because he's an idiot.

[–] phx@lemmy.world 11 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah guaranteed this isn't the first incredibly stupid thing he's done - probably while ignoring the advise of everyone else - but it may be the latest or most expensive.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 4 points 7 hours ago

The guy is also at an age where cognitive decline can start to set in. A lot of the early symptoms include becoming angrier and having worse impulse control.

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[–] MyMindIsLikeAnOcean@piefed.world 28 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (5 children)

He’s an idiot…but his wife is also likely a gold digger?

…but at the same time he’s old and shouldn’t be expected to be tech savvy. I’m always worried about the viral nonsense my elderly mom falls for. If mom didn’t have a son like me drilling it into her head that everything is fake…theydve got her money by now.

What don’t understand is why isn’t social media fucking complicit for allowable these ads? Back in the 80s you couldn’t tell a white lie in a TV commercial or else you’d get fined…but YouTube and Facebook aren’t even required to have actual people checking the ads people post on their site?

[–] aramis87@fedia.io 32 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I don't see where his wife is a gold digger. According to the article, he's fallen for repeated scams and, the way they work is that once you've fallen for one scam, they sell your information to other scammers as an easy mark. As her spouse, he probably has access to all her money; if they get divorced, she'll at least be able to protect her half of their assets.

[Notice that it doesn't say his wife wants to leave him, just get divorced.]

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[–] echodot@feddit.uk 11 points 16 hours ago (4 children)

I feel like it's not just being tech-savvy though. He seems to lack basic common sense.

Why would you assume that a free car giveaway would necessitate you paying transfer fees, why wouldn't that have already been pre-arranged. After all it's a Tesla car presumably Tesla the ones who are going to deliver it. Additionally why would the competition be exclusive to a niche Facebook group and not a national campaign. It all just seems very obviously a scam.

My parents aren't particularly tech savvy and often send me AI garbage but they wouldn't be easy marks because both of them have critical thinking skills, or at least my mother does. But my dad has learnt to do what he's told.

[–] CallMeAnAI@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

Plenty of giveaways work just like this. Paying the taxes and fees wasnt that common at all up until recently.

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[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 8 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I dunno. My mom is his age and taught us how to build crystal radios when we were kids for fun. She still does it every few years with the grandkids as they grow up. She's still sharp as a whisk.

[–] nightofmichelinstars@sopuli.xyz 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

She's still sharp as a whisk.

Whisks are not sharp. Do you mean whip? Or am I missing the joke?

[–] Zamboni_Driver@lemmy.ca 5 points 17 hours ago (4 children)
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[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Cutting someone loose who makes terrible financial decisions is not gold digger behavior. They are likely retired and have limited resources to worry about and he just blew a big chunk of that. This also doesn't speak well of his intelligence overall so maybe this was a long time coming.

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[–] arc99@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

You don't have to be tech savvy to realise the adage "if it sounds too good to be true...". I would have thought Americans of all people would develop armour against scams. But even a modicum of due diligence like asking relatives, or googling his situation might have protected him.

I should add that my dad is 80 and housebound and gets scam calls all the time and bats them off like flies so being old is not an excuse.

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[–] Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world 25 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Imagine the arrogance of believing that one of the world's richest and most self-centered people has taken time out of their day ...

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[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 24 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Because Elmo is famous for his donations and philanthropy...

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

He donates money to himself.

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[–] xx3rawr@sh.itjust.works 13 points 11 hours ago

He could've bought an actual EV for that

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 13 points 20 hours ago

I like to think she's not leaving him because he lost the money. I like to think she's leaving him because he's dumb enough to be the type of person to lose the money.

Like, $45,000? Yeah, it's a huge hit to your bank account. But money comes and goes. At the end of the day, you're still with the guy who never stopped to think.

[–] gustofwind@lemmy.world 12 points 20 hours ago

I’m (not) sorry but if you are capable of falling for this scam you are living in an actual fucking dream world and are a danger to the community

In a just world those scammers wouldn’t exist but this guy also wouldn’t recklessly revel in obvious delusions of grandeur

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 10 points 20 hours ago

I've been on a Kitboga binge and the only thing that makes scam AIs better than flesh and blood scammers is that they won't talk over you.

However, I don't think I could get an AI to scream "DO NOT REDEEM!"

[–] arc99@lemmy.world 10 points 15 hours ago

And I thought my wife was gullible for nearly falling for a cadburys hamper giveaway scam. But this several orders of gullible worse.

[–] kSPvhmTOlwvMd7Y7E@lemmy.world 8 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

And she s right, i d also unbirth the kids if possiblr

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Just shove em back in there 👌

[–] cjoll4@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago
[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 8 points 20 hours ago

Good for her.

[–] charade_you_are@sh.itjust.works 7 points 20 hours ago

Who here actually blames her lol

[–] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago
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