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I was wondering this as buying real ones yearly get sometimes pretty pricey

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[–] nocturne@slrpnk.net 44 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (2 children)

We have a cat tree we use. So artificial.

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[–] butterycroissant@lemmy.world 12 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

that is so adorable, ive been seeing that all over social media would you say its worth the money?

[–] nocturne@slrpnk.net 12 points 18 hours ago

I got it last year for $90. It was up for ~2 months. Cats loved it. Got it back out a couple weeks ago, it is not used as much this year as last, but it does still get used.

I would totally say it was worth it.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 13 hours ago

a real one might not survive a cat.

[–] WoodScientist@lemmy.world 33 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

When I can, I get a real tree. After Christmas, I trim all the leaves and branches off the trunk and put those in the municipal compost bin. I then put the trunk in storage and let it dry out for a year or two. Once dry, I'll carve them into things like walking sticks, wizard staffs, etc.

[–] SystemL@literature.cafe 12 points 18 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Tja@programming.dev 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Only if you're not careful

[–] seraphine@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 7 hours ago

I CAST. FIREBALL!

[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

Name checks out

[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 3 points 17 hours ago

Artisanal! I love it!

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 29 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Artificial. While it was a ton of plastic I can't get over cutting down a tree every year. Seems wasteful to me. My artificial is exactly the same as it was 10 years ago and I have no need to replace it.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

a real one, which are usually Norway Spruce species, which has the iconic signature tree look. YEA its annoying when it starts to decay and go brown, you just dump outside, its wasteful asf. and a real one you have to make sure it doesnt carry any pests with it.

[–] Sterile_Technique@lemmy.world 15 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Never bothered with putting a tree up, but I've always kinda wanted to steal this idea:

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[–] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 14 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

Real f'sure.

A lot of states sell Christmas tree permits every year, so for 5-10 bucks plus gas I can harvest my own tree(s) sustainably.

It's rad.

[–] LORDSMEGMA@sh.itjust.works 4 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Thats what we do! 30-45 minute drive and we can get noble firs.

[–] Varyk@sh.itjust.works 2 points 17 hours ago

Heck yea! A satisfying quest all around.

[–] justdaveisfine@piefed.social 13 points 18 hours ago

Fake one. Bought it a decade ago and its still doing just fine.

[–] Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

I haven't had or put up a Christmas tree since I was a child. I don't see the point. I don't do any seasonal decorations. Time moves so fast that it's like a week later I'm taking down a bunch of shit I paid money for and can barely use.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

We started putting our shit up almost immediately after Halloween. I don't mind all the gaudy bullshit, just the work and storage space. I just want to put up projector lights. My wife complains that they look like someone didn't put any effort in — I said that's exactly why I like them. At least we were able to agree on a prelit tree with no extra ornaments. I do miss the extravagant trees my grandma put up when I was little but it's so much breakable glass shit.

Last year I put up permanent Govee lights. They were pretty good but then we had our roof redone this fall and I noticed half of them don't work now. C'est la vie.

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[–] Shadow@lemmy.ca 10 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Real, but I keep it in a pot and it goes outside the rest of the year. It's about 3.5' tall at the moment and gets a little bigger each year. I've had it for 4 years now

[–] Rinn@awful.systems 4 points 9 hours ago

Same, except that once it gets too big we take it out to my parents' house in the mountains and plant it there. So far one has died and one is surviving and happily growing.

[–] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

That sounds excellent... i might pitch that to my wife for next year.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 8 points 17 hours ago

Neither. Cutting down a healthy tree for a little ritual seems extremely wasteful to me. I don't care much about Xmas so I don't have a fake tree, either. I do have lights up in the apartment, but they're up year round. I like the colors.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Why would i want a real tree? They're messy and EXTREMELY FLAMABLE

[–] vodka@feddit.org 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

For me it's all the winter dormant insects in the tree that wake up once the tree is inside a warm home that makes me never want a real tree.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 15 hours ago

Or the smell of frozen animal piss thawing (I've heard some people mark their trees with fox urine to prevent theft)

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[–] halfeatenpotato@sh.itjust.works 6 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

I feel like I'm "not allowed" either.

I grew up in a very religious household/extended family. When I was 19, I became agnostic. But I actually really enjoy the Christmas season and decorations. It doesn't have a religious tie to me, but it has a nostalgic tie to me.

My husband is VERY jaded/exhausted/raged by Christianity as a whole. Their very existence pisses him off. So naturally, Christmas pisses him off.

But in a fantasy world where we could all get past this bullshit -- I'd honestly be happy with either. I grew up with artificial trees, but real trees always seemed better. But killing trees to be a decoration in your home for a month seems wrong..

Final answer- artificial tree would be my choice if I decorated.

[–] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 8 points 13 hours ago

While I certainly feel the rage, the tree is yet another decoration the Christians copped from the pagans they sought to drown out. It's yule, not what Jesus put in his home for his birthday (not that he was actually born in the winter anyway, they rewrote that too). Eggs and bunnies are pagan fertility things, not what phasewalker Jesus handed out from the tomb.

While I know it's clearly a Christian symbol now, you can't change what makes you nostalgic.

Anyway, I don't know about everyone else, but it was only this summer I learned that "pagan" just means ANY religion that isn't Christian. I assume it's more the various Nordic, Germanic, and Anglo sects in the European Christian range.

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[–] expatriado@lemmy.world 5 points 18 hours ago

none, my house keeps getting messy despite expending few hours of cleaning every week, no time for extra chores

[–] Pika@sh.itjust.works 5 points 18 hours ago

we've used artificial for at least the last 9 years now. Less cleanup, less expensive and easy to setup

[–] thisbenzingring@lemmy.today 5 points 18 hours ago

artificial because killing a tree is repulsive to me. killing a tree for a tradition full of lies makes it even more repulsive

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 4 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

I used to go real, but lack of proper ones made me go artificial instead.

I grew up on the countryside where part of holiday tradition involved grabbing a saw and finding a proper tree in one of the many woods around the property. Now that I live more urban I have to rely on whatever is on the market. And the quality of the market is awful, so I might as well have something that at least looks good.

[–] ctry21@sh.itjust.works 4 points 9 hours ago

I bought an artificial one second-hand which felt like the most sustainable option - not cutting a tree down every year and not paying for virgin plastic either. Charity shops here are usually filled with pretty nice ones since a lot of people seem to replace their plastic trees far more frequently than they should.

[–] MurrayL@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Have always had artificial. My parents still use the same tree they used when I was a kid. When my wife and I bought our own place we invested in a good quality artificial and I expect it to last just as long.

Real trees are a nice idea but I’ve seen far too many horror stories about them causing fires, and even if they don’t go up in flames they still drop needles and insects everywhere. Why take the risk?

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Number one cause of house fires around Christmas time, dry trees in homes. We put up the same artificial tree every year.

[–] elviraelenor@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

We 'rent' a real tree. After Christmas we bring it back and they re plant it.

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[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

I have a potted one I drag in and out of the house

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

we have a saying at our house, 'its not christmas until you you kill something'

thus, its always a live tree

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[–] oyzmo@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

A real tree 🎄 The smell and the beautiful imperfection, that is Christmas 🥰

[–] f1error@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago

Ceramic is the only way to go.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 14 hours ago

Frugal family, never had a tree. I didn't care either. I just wished we did something fun as a family. I see normal families on tv and I feel jealous. My parents aren't like bad, but they kinda aren't good either. None of the holidays were really memorable in particular. I had "okay" moments, but nothing really "wholesome" that i could share.

Like any useful gifts or really just family time to some new place is all I want, fuck trees, I personally don't care, it doesn't really do anything.

I mean colorful lighting would look cool, but trees? Meh.

(I'm not born in a western country for context)

[–] Quilotoa@lemmy.ca 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Our annual tradition is to go out into the bush and cut one down. Then we make a fire and have a hot dog roast.

[–] Yazer@lemmy.ca 2 points 15 hours ago

Same. Its my favourite xmas tradition

[–] Pazintach@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 18 hours ago

I used to have a pine sapling that I grow in a pot, and always used it as a Christmas tree in winter. But one year it died. I tried to grow another after that, but failed twice. Now my confidence of keeping a sapling alive is all gone. Maybe I should make a cardboard one this year. Or maybe just use a different plant that's not a pine, fir or yew.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] grumpo_potamus@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

Both!

Since my kids were young, we've made it a tradition to go out to forest service land and cut down a real tree (with a cheap permit), which helps with wildfire mitigation. The trees are usually kind of scrawny and awkward as they're not grown on a tree farm where they're all spaced apart and tended to during their growth, but the experience is fun. We put our cheap, lightweight ornaments on that.

Our main tree is a fake one that we can put up earlier.

[–] salacious_coaster@infosec.pub 2 points 18 hours ago

I'm lucky enough to have a yard, so years ago I planted a dwarf spruce to be our living Christmas tree. We string it up with solar lights for the holidays.

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 2 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

I just put lights on my fig tree lol

[–] sic_semper_tyrannis@lemmy.today 2 points 16 hours ago

It's like $10 to pay the Forest Service for a tag to cut one down yourself in the USA

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