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[–] Geodad@lemmy.world 27 points 1 day ago (4 children)

When people call sex "breeding".

It sounds like some puritanical shit where they believe that sex is only for procreation.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

I uh... I'm not sure what your source is, but for mine 'breeding' is anything but "only for procreation"

E: in case it isn't painfully obvious, I am le gay, so that may factor into your source woes :p

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It kinda depends on context.

A gay guy? Hedonistic, in the best way.

An incel? Puritanical, in the worst way.

[–] Geodad@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Apparently it's urban slang.

Sounds like some misogynistic nonsense to me.

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[–] Houseofoliviereu@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It is, maybe, something very particular as I am not familiar with that term used through "Puritanical thingy". Sorry, I am located in Europe and lack of knowledge about Puritans 😬 [ANSWER RECEIVED]

[–] Geodad@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

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Did you look them up? That's basically what most of the mainstream US churches are based off of.

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 4 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

I'd say that is more about a kink than anything remotely religious

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[–] richieadler@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I only use "breeding" to refer disparagingly to the actions of those who believe that having kids is mandatory or, at least, unavoidable.

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[–] idunnololz@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

biweekly, bimonthly, etc.

Wtf does it mean? Twice a week? Every two weeks? Who knows. What's the point of this word when it's so ambiguous.

[–] rmuk@feddit.uk 7 points 1 day ago

In the UK we have the word "fortnight" for two weeks, which helps. I also found out very recently that "biannual" mean twice a year and "biennial" means every other year so, yeah, fuck knows.

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Slay because my 10 year uses it for everything. Slayalicious, slaytastic, slayme...

Nag. Just sounds harsh

Bungalow. Should be obvious.

People who shorten food names aren't doing English any favors...

'za (Pizza), taters, sgetti, nanners, gnosh (im hungry I need some gnosh gnosh)

[–] xep@fedia.io 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can't pick just one so here're a couple.

"Crypto" used in the context of cryptocurrrencies. "AI", referring only to LLMs. "Research", referring to an indeterminate amount of reading up on the topic at hand, such as in the phrase "do your own research" that's being bandied around in some communities.

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

"AI", referring only to LLMs.

Yeah, it's annoying because there are a lot of legit image recognition and pattern matching applications in my work field, and I need to ask for clarification every time someone says "AI".

Like, is this actually useful, or do you mean "we asked ChatGPT to generate you 20% nonsense"?

[–] scottmeme@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 day ago
[–] carbonari_sandwich@piefed.social 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've come to hate "Utilize." It has a decent purpose as "using to the fullest extent," or, "making do with something in a new context."

Instead, I just hear it as a replacement for "use" when someone wants to sound smart.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

"Heh heh... Utilize. 👉👌"

[–] loomy@lemy.lol 9 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Trump.

I will never speak it again.

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] rmuk@feddit.uk 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 8 points 1 day ago (5 children)

The F word that means "a bundle of sticks" used almost exclusively as a homophobic slur.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

With some specific exceptions, for me. If you are one, and you aren't using it against others, it's fine. Like storytelling and describing a conversation, or just even being playful about it. Maybe being at a store with some friends looking at clothes or something, describing yourself and how something looks perhaps? Totally fine in my book. That's our term, we should be able to reclaim it for ourselves.

But someone else who I don't know and can't immediately determine the meaning/context that uses it? Bitch you about to die.

[–] moonlight@fedia.io 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't know. I think reclaiming slurs can be a good thing, (queer, for example), but that one is inherently violent and I always feel uncomfortable when I hear it. Like, there's a reason you didn't write it out in your comment.

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[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm so fucking tired of the word "cringe" lately.

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[–] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Any misspoken words, said with full confidence that it is correct.

I left him know.

There's a woof in the backyard.

[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can I (aks) you something?

[–] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

That one I hear so much, I'm afraid it will become the new normal way of pronouncing ask. Definitely bugs me!

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[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 6 points 20 hours ago

'Woke' when used as a perjorative.

[–] randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Cocktail… it sounds stupid as a word to describe an alcoholic drink. Maybe it’s because I’m not a drinker and I just don’t understand 🤷

[–] Pronell@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A peacock's tail is a flourish, something that adds to the whole without detracting.

A cocktail combines spirits with other flavors to make them something else.

I don't really drink cocktails, but thr antiquated term makes sense in a particular context.

Now looking it up, apparently the origin of the term isn't actually known and my interpretation isn't even in the running, but I'm saving this anyway because it's amusing.

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[–] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I don’t hate it, but apparently they have done polls and often the top result is:

Moist

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[–] Mildetoast@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

“Mouthfeel.” Especially if it’s a food show.

[–] Townlately@feddit.nl 3 points 1 day ago

"Unctuous", especially when overused on those shows...

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago
[–] pugsnroses77@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago
[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago
[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Receive.

I think my grasp of English is pretty good, but this is one of the most common words I misspell on a regular basis. I have no idea why I keep wanting to write "recieve" instead.

[–] kdcd@sh.itjust.works 4 points 19 hours ago

Ointment… it sounds so gross

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

I like woody sort of words. Bound, prudy, recidivist. Erogenous zone, loose woman... concubine! Errrogenous zooooone!

Funny thing, dear. All the naughty words sound woody.

E: It appears I have misread the question. But I'll leave my Monty Python reference here.

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[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Too many to count. A lot of the current slang

Rizz comes close to the top of the list

[–] whotookkarl@lemmy.world 3 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Irregardless, inflammable, idiom are all like nails on a chalkboard to me

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[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Lots of sex words, none of which I will list.

[–] Bebopalouie@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can’t or won’t. Take your pick.

[–] rmuk@feddit.uk 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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