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[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 86 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Consider cooking it, then you have something to eat.

[–] Emerald@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (10 children)

I love cooking, just can't ever get motivated to do it

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 62 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

If your problem is you buy ingredients but can't be arsed to turn them into food? Resist those beautiful fresh veggies and go get the frozen bag of the same thing. Not only will it keep until you really want to cook, it's already washed and cut, and it has all the same vitamins. Since you're already saving money, splurge on the better brand.

Also, go ahead and get some prepared food for no-cook days that are still cheaper than delivery. If you're inspired to cook that very day by a particular ingredient, make it a simple way, because shopping and stowing is also a whole chore.

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[–] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 2 days ago

A couple of strategies depending on the problem you're dealing with:

  • if you don't have time, make simple meals that minimize prep. There are cookbooks dedicated to this concept and highly recommend picking one up. "30 minutes or less" meals were a god send for me in college.
  • if you don't like the food you're eating, explore new types of food. This is often a more expensive endeavor as it may require you to buy new spices, cookware, etc. again, cookbooks are a great help here. Most Americans eat a combination of Italian and Mexican food. Try making your own Chinese or Indian food.
  • if you are lazy, consider a food prep day. I do food prep on Sundays and makes cooking through the week much faster and easier. Also helps to cook large batches that can refrigerate and reheat in the microwave or toaster oven. Make dishes that taste better with age. Chili, marinated dishes, etc. fall into this category.
  • if you're too lazy for that, then eat out and don't cook. If you value not wasting food over your money, then this is the best choice overall. It's the most expensive option but if you'd rather not cook and have the resources to just eat out, then do so.

Lack of motivation (assuming you're not neurodivergent) often is a result of not having a plan or you find the activity tedious. If it's the latter, I'd go the simple route and try to keep your cooking as easy as possible. This is essentially true if you're new to cooking.

If it's the former, consider meal planning. I plan my meals a week in advance, taking into account left overs I already have, left overs I'm planning on making, food I need to buy, and other factors.

If you're neurodivergent, I'm hesitant to provide advice as I am not a doctor but I suggest talking to your therapist about it and seeing if they can help you.

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

Have you considered cooking simpler dishes that require far less work?

Here's a simple one:

  • Brown one 1lbs of ground beef (takes about 10 minutes) in a skillet
  • pour off the excess liquid fat (not down the drain of your sink. Put it in a container and throw it in the trash if you don't plan to use it for another recipe_
  • Add 3/4 cup of water to the meat in the skillet
  • one pouch of this:

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Stir the contents of the pan on and off for about 2 minutes.

You now have a 1lbs of taco meat.

Empty a bag of lettuce into a bowl. Scoop out the taco meat and put it on the lettuce.

Sprinkle cheddar cheese on top of it.

You've got taco salad and it took you a bit less than 15 minutes.

[–] orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Sounds like you have an answer.

[–] Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I finally found the answer to all problems in my life: just be motivated to do things. I'll start tomorrow....well, next week at the latest.

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[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 33 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Yeah ...

Strategies against this include cooking for several people (well, that ain't happening), doing meal prep several days in advance / cooking larger portions that you can eat over a couple of days, and buying frozen ingredients (still better than buying entire frozen meals). Some non-frozen ingredients keep for a long time, too, e.g. dried rice or noodles, onions, pickled vegetables.

[–] corvi@lemm.ee 25 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Something that worked for me is always shopping for a specific meal. Instead of buying ground beef because I might want burgers or tacos or chili, I instead buy everything for a chili. It’s lead to less “oh I forgot I had this beef in here” and more “I better use this nice, fresh beef to make chili because otherwise I’ll go hungry.

It’s not a perfect system, and seems really obvious in hindsight, but has been a paradigm shift for me.

[–] Emerald@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

better use this nice, fresh beef to make chili because otherwise I’ll go hungry.

My issue is that I often end up choosing the "go hungry" option over the chili option

and I love chili

[–] misericordiae@literature.cafe 9 points 2 days ago

I think one of the tricks is to purposefully plan time to cook that's not right before you're planning to eat, so it's an activity/hobby, not a necessity. If I have to cook when I'm hungry, I'll probably just make do instead, but if I say "ok, Saturday afternoon, I'm gonna make a pot of soup, because that'll be delicious later," it's a lot less dreadful, imo.

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[–] Soup@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

100% the longterm ingredients. I have an emergency meal which is just rice, frozen peas and carrots, and crushed cashews. I probably have green onion and definitely have numerous sauces available, too.

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[–] ScreamingFirehawk@feddit.uk 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[–] Lembot_0003@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] Snowclone@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Be organized, have a weekly menu. I'm sorry this is the solution. My bad.

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"the only solution is being responsible" well fuck guess I'm SOL

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[–] svcg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I sought an ADHD diagnosis.

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[–] Seasm0ke@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago

I got a chest freezer for $200. I freeze everything before or on its expiration date.

Sometimes if its mushy veggies I make a stock and freeze it for the next meal. If its too far gone i have a compost jar in the kitchen and a bin outside.

I started a garden and an edible native hedge this year. I have tea herbs and squash for free now and working on a seed propagation.

I started a coop mushroom grow with my neighbors since he felled some hardwood and I had the plan. The leftover mushrooms we dont eat will be either sold at market or made into liquid cultures.

Were talking about going in on a local half cow or pig. He says if my garden keeps growing we can buy the plot behind us together and start a farm. Would cut grocery costs a lot.

My wife and I have pantry weeks where we dont go grocery shopping, we eat whats in reserve, soak dry beans, thaw last weeks on sale chicken breast and pressure Cook em, make a flatbread and have some curry.

Instant pot helps too. Thinking about getting coturnix quail to feed good scraps to and get eggs out of. I can plant cover crops for em on the last strip of lawn I have.

It doesn't have to be wasteful forever.

[–] G4Z@feddit.uk 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I live walking distance from 2 small super markets, I walk to those near every day and just get a few things and I also get hello fresh and I always cook those. So generally my fridge is pretty empty but I always eat well. Just in Time Home Economics you could say.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

This happens to us - if I cook dinner for everyone, two of us eat, if I cook dinner for two of us, everyone wants to eat. If I make enough for leftovers, nobody takes them to lunch. If I don't make enough, they ask why there is not enough for lunch.

Things that help on your question though -

Canned beans, canned tomatoes, canned coconut milk, canned pumpkin, jarred spaghetti sauce, spices - a lot of our staples are not perishable.

Do you live where you can stop by the store on the way home? Then don't buy perishables for the week, buy them for the meal you are making.

Some foods and meals freeze pretty well, freeze them and keep a list of what's in the freezer so you remember to eat it.

I hate meal planning but it helps a lot. I sometimes put a note on the fridge "we have food for dal with spinach, chicken & cabbage, sheet pan gnocchi with sausage and broccoli, eggs and potatoes" or whatever we have the food to make, and cross them off as they are made.

Some foods make other foods. So if I make a hunk of pork, it's pork, rice and beans then enchiladas then burritos, and so on.

[–] haych@feddit.uk 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Meal plan. Write what you're cooking for the week, buy only ingredients for that.

Anything uncooked goes in the freezer, you can defrost and cook/reheat a lot of food, stop throwing stuff away.

[–] Nangijala@feddit.dk 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Problem is that some of us have freezers the size of matchboxes, so it is very limited what leftovers we can put in the freezer. It's something I have attempted to tell my parents who have big freezers and lots of good ideas to how you can buy this and that in bulk and just freeze it for later and save so much money!! Cool. But my freezer is still the size of a matchbox.

[–] haych@feddit.uk 5 points 1 day ago (12 children)

That doesn't stop you from Meal Planning ahead and only buying what you need for that week.

And leftovers can often make great soups, stews, and curries. They can last in the fridge for about a week.

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[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago (10 children)

Protip: Save up, buy a dedicated freezer. Like a "redneck hunter's garage" style one. Nothing fancy, just a white box with a dial on the front for how cold you want it. Cheaper than the fancy flashy fridge freezer combos, and much more usable space (although you have to stack stuff inside). A lot cheaper than you'd expect. They also come in a variety of sizes, from small to "I need space for three bodies".

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[–] TheReturnOfPEB@reddthat.com 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

i didn't start cooking until I got a big enough kitchen to store plates, forks, knives, spoons, glasses, cooking pans/pots&utensils, cutting boards, leftover food storage, dish towels, and food cupboards and pantry.

rentals rarely have enough for that.

but once i got enough space to have that stuff, and then saved up to buy that stuff little at a time then cooking became a lot more sensible. (middle aged bachelor)

i have recipes that i don't have to think about that create leftovers.

And that is the goal: LEFTOVERS

Leftovers are your bread and butter of saving money and not having to cook.

[–] Uranus_Hz@lemm.ee 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

A freezer and a pantry full of canned and dried foods.

Only buy fresh meats and veggies when you are actually gonna cook.

Freeze leftovers in single portion sizes.

Eventually you’ll have a bunch of homemade frozen dinners to choose from.

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago

It's not for everyone, or even most people probably, but I deal with it by buying virtually the same thing every week, once a week. No impulse buying. So, I eat everything I buy, every week, because I know exactly how much I eat for each meal, each week. I waste nothing. I don't need a list, I know the path through the store I will take, and I'm in and out in about 20 minutes, including checkout.

I decided to stop thinking about food as entertainment or reward, and now think of food as only nutrition (as much as I can, it's not easy, but that's the idea.)

[–] Mr_Fish@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Solution: freezer. I basically never have food go off because basically all of it is either frozen or non perishable.

[–] corvi@lemm.ee 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I have a bad habit where I stop feeling bad about not eating the food once it’s in the freezer, and then it doesn’t come out until I’m cleaning months later. And then all of my Tupperware is in the freezer.

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[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)
  1. Consider therapy or medication.

  2. Buy nonperishables in a higher ratio, such as canned, pickled, or dry goods.

  3. If you're not concerned about your health enough to cook your own food every day, then just don't buy food that has to be cooked every day.

  4. Remind yourself why you're doing it, set a timer, and get it done. "This is for me. I love good food, I love my body."

[–] _donnadie_@feddit.cl 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

A thing that has helped me a lot is to go buy food when I'm not hungry. It reduces my chance of overeating and buying lots of food, also making me spend less money.

When I used to cook a lot for myself in uni it helped a lot to plan meals.

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[–] drunkpostdisaster@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I just hunt and eat the homeless. I work for the municipality so I just leave what I don't eat around park benches, bus stops and the front of stores to scare the rest away.

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[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 2 days ago

I solved this by getting into a relationship with someone who genuinely loves to cook for others. I felt super guilty about it for a while but eventually got over it.

[–] modernangel@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

Meal planning is overwhelming to me, so I made a habit of rotating a selection of staple meals with fewer, more stable ingredients. PB or eggs scrambled with cheese on toast for a breakfast. A salad of chickpeas, carrot, broccoli and avocado with a whole-wheat roll, or a lentil/rice bowl, for lunch. Precook larger batches of freezer-friendly staples like chickpeas, lentils, rice, turkey burgers, meatloaf, tomato gravy - reserve 2-3 days' supply and freeze portioned batches of the rest. Allow yourself less experimental ingredient buys per grocery run - so if it turns out they don't synergize with your staples, you're not accumuating a lot of dead-end ingredients.

[–] vane@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

with pen and paper

[–] fyzzlefry@retrolemmy.com 6 points 2 days ago

Meal prep brah, freeze that shit up

[–] Rooty@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (5 children)

Buy food that has a long shelf life - lentil, rice, beans, canned vegetables, salsa jars. As a bonus it also doesn't have to be refridgerated.

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[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago

If you don't have a good sized freezer, buy one. There are small ones that fit in any home.

Too many veggies? Chop them up and put them in quart sized containers. You can add them to any soup or stew.

I have a five quart pot; make chili/stew/soup and freeze in pint size containers.

My house has a good freezer, here's the first i searched out as an example.

https://www.homedepot.com/p/Magic-Chef-3-5-cu-ft-Manual-Defrost-Chest-Freezer-in-White-HMCF35W5/313922431

[–] backwater5430@lemy.lol 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Cook in bulk for the week. Grocery shopping on Saturday, cooking on Sunday. Then all you have to do is heat things up at meal time.

*I should clarify that you only need to refrigerate, not freeze, the type of stuff I'm talking about. Works better if you're vegetarian

[–] megopie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

For me, I try to focus on buying stuff that will keep well, things that I can use a lot of ways, or things I have an immediate plan to use all of.

Or multiple of those things at once. Like if I get a crown of broccoli, it will only stay good in the fridge for a week or two, but I don’t need to eat it all at once, I can just take a bit at a time and add it to other things, like a soup or a pan fry, to get some green in. Frozen veggies solve the only lasting a week or two thing also.

On the other hand there’s things like canned tuna, there is only really one way I’m gonna use that, but it keeps forever in the cabinet, so no wasting fridge space, and the cans are usually small enough I can use it all at once.

Like, if it doesn’t keep well, you you wouldn't use it all at once, and you’d probably only use it for one thing, just don’t bother.

Also, like, look in to how certain things should be best stored, some things can last a lot longer if you figure that out.

[–] Pulptastic@midwest.social 5 points 1 day ago

Perishables take more planning. Get just enough and have a plan to use it. Use canned and frozen food to account for uncertainty. Be aware of expiration dates of your food and plan accordingly.

[–] Draegur@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 days ago (6 children)

I only buy packages, containers, or cartons that will sit within my nutritional budget to eat all of in a single sitting. One, maybe two of those = one meal. Especially those wonderful single-course entrees I can buy at ALDI for like six bucks a pop. That's actually a day's worth of food. Especially because I tend to eat one meal a day (when i am behaving).

Costco rotisserie chickens rock my fucking world too. Those things can be more than one meal!

I will also buy packages of "salad mix"--mixed greens with a few other veggies in it,
and then I'll add a nice dash of salt, and either a splash of apple cider vinegar or a liberal dusting of Parmesan cheese and a sprinkle of red pepper flakes, then shake it all up and just GO TO TOWN on the whole container.

The only perishables I buy are things of this sort that I will most certainly eat RIGHT AWAY.

Everything else is either
a: canned goods where i'll use the whole can at once adding to one of the above items
or,
b: non-perishable usually dry goods with which i can augment other things with pinches and dashes at a time (there are some things like vinegar or certain hot sauces that age and develop more flavor over time).

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[–] mp3@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Buy food that you can cook in advance and reheat. Make a list of meals for the week, cook it all, then freeze it. Too tired to cook later in the week? Take it out of the freezer and reheat it.

Also, try to do recipes you can do in sequences that don't require too much dishwashing, then clean everything up at the end.

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Freeze stuff

Walk yo and from the grocery store

Buy stuff that will last a while

Grow your own produce

[–] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] aeternum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (16 children)

fun fact: we grow enough food to feed 15B people. It's just that we feed it to the animals, then eat the animals.

[–] modernangel@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago

We also throw away approximately half the perfectly good food we produce in the U.S.

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