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Back in 1970, Alvin Toffler wrote Future Shock, where he introduced the idea that too much rapid change could leave people feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and disconnected. He called it "future shock" — and honestly, reading it today feels almost eerie with how accurate he was.

Toffler believed we were moving from an industrial society to a "super-industrial" one, where everything would change faster than people could handle. The book was a huge hit at the time, selling over six million copies, but what's crazy is how much of what he talked about feels even more true in 2025. Some examples:

  • Disposable culture: He predicted throwaway products, and now we have single-use plastics, fast fashion, and gadgets that feel obsolete within a year.

  • Tech burnout: Toffler said technology would become outdated faster and faster. Today, if you don’t upgrade your phone or update your software, you feel left behind.

  • Rent instead of own: Services like Airbnb and Uber fit his prediction that we’d move away from owning things and toward renting everything.

  • Job instability: He nailed the rise of the gig economy, freelancing, and how fast-changing industries make it hard to stay trained up and secure.

  • Transient relationships: He warned about shallow, fleeting social connections — something social media, dating apps, and global mobility have absolutely amplified.

  • Information overload: This term literally came from Future Shock, and if you've ever felt exhausted just from scrolling through your feeds or reading the news, you know exactly what he meant.

Toffler also talked about the "death of permanence" — not just products, but relationships, jobs, even identities becoming temporary and interchangeable. He warned it would cause "shattering stress and disorientation." Looking around at the rising rates of anxiety, depression, and burnout today, it’s hard not to see what he meant.

I think about this book a lot when I read about some of the sick things happening today. Is this a warped perspective?

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[–] SouthFresh@lemmy.world 85 points 19 hours ago (4 children)

I’m absolutely shocked at how racist the future got.

[–] yarr@feddit.nl 24 points 19 hours ago (3 children)
[–] toy_boat_toy_boat@lemmy.world 35 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

i'm in my early 40s. back when i was a kid - even in the southern US - there was a clear message that racism was on its way out. tons of sitcoms even did special episodes about it! (/s) And because media was so controlled back then (ie you couldn't just post something to the internet), a lot of people actually blelieved it. i know that i did as a kid who didn't know any better.

[–] yarr@feddit.nl 15 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Is this similar to violent crime? A lot of right wingers bemoan the increasing amount of violence in "blue states and cities". Except, almost by any way you can measure it, violent crime has been on the decrease for years now. Is racism becoming worse, or are you just becoming more aware of it?

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 7 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I think it depends where you place the starting point. It's certainly less racist than the 1800s, or even the 1940s. But if you only measure your own lifetime (so call it starting at the early 1980s), I think it did dip in the late 90s, and stayed in the dip until about 2008. Then it came soaring back to 1980s levels.

And now it feels like it's rising, being used as a tool of fascism.

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 2 points 13 hours ago

The only real change was how open those assholes felt they could be. Doubt they increased or declined at all. They just got platformed.

[–] yarr@feddit.nl 1 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Serious question: if someone claimed deaths by smoking are up or down, there's stats we could rely on to tell if that's the truth or not. How do we tell the amount of racism in 2025? What statistic or statistics are indicative of racism?

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I use general reactions of society. If you see things like protests, societial movements, riots, demonstrations, ect, it may not be an exact number, but in general if people are mad enough to take to the streets, we know those issues are on the rise.

And if everything is mostly calm, you know those issues aren't the dominant issues of the day.

It also is harder because the internet has changed society. Now issues can grow and gain exposure to a global audience instantly. So it's no longer grassroots movements. Thats what made the million man march so impressive. A million black men, marching in suits, because they knew if they didn't dress up they would be mocked as thugs, all without the media to help them, all organized this way exclusively through word of mouth. And they had a million men march with them.

It wouldn't be so impressive today. Now you can just post a thing online, the whole world sees it. Nobody gives a shit about clothing, and the march would be a petition online. And nobody would care.

[–] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago

nobody would care

Information Overload. The march doesn't matter. The people who did the upsetting thing have already gone on to do several more upsetting things by the time we've started marching against the first one. The people reporting about the upsetting thing miss the point but it doesn't matter because nobodies actually paying attention, it's just fluff on in the background. The white noise we need to go about our day maintaining some false sense of "staying up to date" when it's impossible to do. The torrent of information comes from all over the globe and never stops growing. Even if everything is suddenly perfect in your neighborhood, city, state, or country, it doesn't matter because there's a genocide somewhere else, and the pope died, and there's a famine and a new study that says the sweet treats you like are going to kill you and the stock market is down but it's back up by the time you check and you should've bought the dip so you could actually retire but you were too busy ignoring a TV while looking at bad news on your phone and eating a sweet treat because nothing feels real anymore and you just need a hit of dopamine before you start panicking and reach for the gun in the nightstand to put a bullet in your brain because at least the bullet will be real and the silence afterwards won't be temporary.

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Just spitballing, but you could track it by number of hate crimes? There's the issue that the United States notoriously underreports hate crimes, so you might not be able to find accurate numbers, but I think that's the best hard statistic you could find for racism

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[–] Olhonestjim@lemmy.world 6 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Same here. Grew up deep in the South. Kids got in trouble for racist talk in public school.

[–] toy_boat_toy_boat@lemmy.world 6 points 14 hours ago

i want to say i don't know what changed, but the only thing that changed is that the government they hate said it's fine to hate again. stupid isn't even the word

[–] TheCriticalMember@aussie.zone 21 points 14 hours ago

Nobody's suggesting it wasn't. But a lot of us have lived our whole lives with the idea that racism was generally frowned upon by most and that it was naturally dying out. I don't think many of us could have predicted how readily it would come roaring back, along with god damn nazis, FFS.

[–] SouthFresh@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago

Yes it absolutely was. And while we seemed for a while to have been on a trajectory where it was decreasing steadily, that sure changed quickly.

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 16 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Eh, I'm not surprised. I'm more surprised at how comfortable with people being racist in public.

Same thing I think when I see Magats wearing that red cap.

[–] Aatube@kbin.melroy.org 7 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Well counterpoint look at LGBTQ rights in the 70s.

[–] Naich@lemmings.world 6 points 19 hours ago

Pretty bad, but things started improving in the 80s, through to the 00s, when it started getting worse, and now it's all shit again and getting worse. And when it's over, we have to dig ourselves out of the shitty bigot hole again.

[–] Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

Compared to 1970? Trump is making it worse but it's not that bad yet.

Edit for the downvoters.

You kids have no idea how racist America was in the 1970's.

1974, Boston:

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https://segregationinamerica.eji.org/report/how-segregation-survived.html

[–] SouthFresh@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Nope. The 1970s were better than the 60s, and worse than the 80s. And the 90s were better still. The early 2000s were even better.... but here we are certainly backtracking from where things had been going.

[–] Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

But I didn't say that the 70's were worse than the 1960's!!!

I said the 1970's were worse than today.

[–] SouthFresh@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago

Compared to

We're in agreement. My "nope" was directed at your question. The rest of my comment was illustrating why I'm shocked at how racist things have become. Because the trend was to improve until recently.

[–] zer0bitz@lemmy.world 26 points 19 hours ago (6 children)

I always feel like these posts are written by ChatGPT when I see multiple — in the text.

[–] yarr@feddit.nl 55 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I'll never forgive OpenAI for making the unordered list a reason to complain about content.

[–] immutable@lemm.ee 22 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I think the comment you are replying to is not about the unordered list — but your use of em dash.

See the above sentence for an example

[–] winety@lemmy.zip 21 points 19 hours ago (4 children)

There are dozens of us that know how to type en- and em-dashes! Dozens I say!

[–] Tagger@lemmy.world 13 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I mean, I see the point, but chat GPT got it from somewhere. That somewhere being people writing like that.

[–] winety@lemmy.zip 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I think that the use of em-dashes specifically is a result of either the preprocessing of the training data or postprocessing of the generated text. I doubt that the material the models are trained on (i.e. Reddit) contains more em-dashes that hyphens in the position of sentence breaks.

But it definitely gets the use of dash as sentence break from people writing like that. If you ask ChatGPT in another language, whose users don't generally use dashes, e.g. Slovak, it won't use then as much.

[–] Zos_Kia@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 16 hours ago

If I had to guess, I'd say it's not necessarily baked into the models, but rather part of a style guide in the system prompt

[–] orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 19 hours ago

I didn't see you at the -- convention in Munich last year...

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[–] athairmor@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago

Does ChatGPT incorrectly put spaces around the em dash, too? There should be no spaces around an em dash—that’s a clue that implies a human writer.

And, em dashes and en dashes are great—they should be used more often.

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[–] GhostPain@lemmy.world 15 points 19 hours ago

Nah bro, we're suffering from Late Stage Capitalism and Christo-facism.

This isn't a bug this is a feature of the US. It's always been intended to be this way. The mid 20th century was the outlier.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 12 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

It's not really so much the rapidness of the changes, but what is rapidly changing that worries me.

If we were rapidly moving towards progress, I'd be fine. But we are rapidly going fucking backwards here in the states.

[–] captainjaneway@lemmy.world 7 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

If you leave your phone at home for one day, take a walk, get some coffee, meet a friend - but don't use your phone, schedule in advance and tell them you'll be phone-less, etc. You'll find yourself feeling way less overwhelmed by a lot of these things. Phones keep us constantly aware of the changes around us. They make it seem like the world is whirring around much faster than it is. Basically, I guess, I'm suggesting "touch grass". But I do think phones, in particular, are the worst for making us crash out like this.

[–] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

The everything is already awful enough without us having to carry around a device that connects us to all the awful everywhere we go.

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[–] edgemaster72@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago

I think some people are, but not everyone. But the people most prone to that future shock are the older, wealthier generations, and they're using their wealth and positions of power to take out their confusion and fear on everyone else that still sees that the world has room for improvement.

[–] Menagerie@pawb.social 5 points 18 hours ago

Future Shock is pretty spot on with it's predictions. Reading it convinced me to try and take things slower, and to spend less time on the phone, on the internet, which helped. Then covid came along, and pushed me right back into information overload...

[–] Hikermick@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

Here's the Futureshock documentary I was show in high-school around 1982 for anyone interested https://youtu.be/fkUwXenBokU

[–] PixelProf@lemmy.ca 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Interesting points, maybe a book I'll have to give a read to. I've long thought that information overload on its own leads to a kind of subjective compression and that we're seeing the consequences of this, plus late stage capitalism.

Basically, if we only know about 100 people and 10 events and 20 things, we have much more capacity to form nuanced opinions, like a vector with lots of values. We don't just have an opinion about the person, our opinion toward them is the sum of opinions about what we know about them and how those relate to us.

Without enough information, you think in very concrete ways. You don't build up much nuance, and you have clear, at least self-evident logic for your opinions that you can point at.

Hit a sweet spot, and you can form nuanced opinions based on varied experiences.

Hit too much, and now you have to compress the nuances to make room for more coarse comparisons. Now you aren't looking at the many nuances and merits, you're abstracting things. Necessary simulacrum.

I've wondered if this is where we've seen so much social regression, or at least being public about it. There are so many things to care about, to know, to attend to, that the only way to approach it is to apply a compression, and everyone's worldview is their compression algorithm. What features does a person classify on?

I feel like we just aren't equipped to handle the global information age yet, and we need specific ways of being to handle it. It really is a brand new thing for our species.

Do we need to see enough of the world to learn the nuances, then transition to tighter community focus? Do we need strong family ties early with lower outside influence, then melting pot? Are there times in our development when social bubbling is more ideal or more harmful than otherwise? I'm really curious.

Anecdotally, I feel like I benefitted a lot from tight-knit, largely anonymous online communities growing up. Learning from groups of people from all over the world of different ages and beliefs, engaging in shared hobbies and learning about different ways of life, but eventually the neurons aren't as flexible for breadth and depth becomes the drive.

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[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Totally.

Thinks are obsolete before you even know they exist, or so it feels. But maybe it's just the information highway making us taking in so much information 24/7. I mean where are the solar powered self driving cars?

[–] yarr@feddit.nl 7 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

"The future is already here—it's just not very evenly distributed"

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago
[–] orbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 19 hours ago

Fascism Shock, too.

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