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[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 8 hours ago (6 children)

Uh, just in general, people tend to react horrifically to long messages, 'walls of text'.

... even on discussion boards, like here on lemmy, or as a first intro message to someone on some kind of dating app/site.

I've been using the internet since the mid 90s.

It did not used to be like this.

People thought of messages as letters, like emails.

Now, a lot of people will get viscerally angry or disgusted in basically nearly any digital context if you send a message that's longer than roughly double the original Twitter character limit.

Hooray for normalizing slogans and soundbites in lieu of actual discourse, hooray for kicking off the trend of destroying our collective capacity to read multiple paragraphs at a time, great job Dorsey.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 7 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I’ve been using the internet since the mid 90s.

It did not used to be like this.

A high proportion of people on the Internet in the mid-90s were associated with tech or universities and were comparatively well-educated. It was not a representative slice of society.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eternal_September

Eternal September or the September that never ended was a cultural phenomenon during a period beginning around late 1993 and early 1994, when Internet service providers began offering Usenet access to many new users.[1][2] Before this, the only sudden changes in the volume of new users of Usenet occurred each September, when cohorts of university students would gain access to it for the first time, in sync with the academic calendar.

The flood of new and generally inexperienced Internet users directed to Usenet by commercial ISPs in 1993 and subsequent years swamped the existing culture of those forums and their ability to self-moderate and enforce existing norms. AOL began their Usenet gateway service in March 1994, leading to a constant stream of new users.[3] Hence, from the early Usenet community point of view, the influx of new users that began in September 1993 appeared to be endless.

During the 1980s and early 1990s, Usenet and the Internet were generally the domain of dedicated computer professionals and hobbyists; new users joined slowly, in small numbers, and learned to observe the social conventions of online interaction without having much of an impact on the experienced users.

The only exception to this was September of every year, when large numbers of first-year university students gained access to the Internet and Usenet through their university campuses. These large groups of new users who had not yet learned online etiquette created a nuisance for the experienced users, who came to dread September every year.

And that's just college freshmen.

Internet access today is more universally-available. I'd say that it's just a product of seeing society as a whole writing.

A lot of what people read in, say, the 1980s was from mass media. That generally had a journalist


a professional dedicated to writing


and an editor checking their work. Those people probably had gone to college specifically to pick up writing skills, and likely spent a large portion of their professional lives writing. They had a high level of expertise relative to the population as a whole in that field. Now what you're reading is often without that filter. It's not that people in society changed. It's that you'd never seen society's writing; you'd just been reading what experts put out.

It'd be like most of what you'd seen your whole life was furniture created by professional carpenters, and then suddenly every Tom, Dick, and Harry was creating their own furniture.

I remember staring at YouTube comments when YouTube first came out and thinking "good God, these are terrible". Randall Munroe, who clearly had the same reaction, did a whole cartoon about it:

https://xkcd.com/202/

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The answer, of course, isn't that YouTube users are unusual. It's that the people who watch videos are more-representative of society than those who are writing and reading long-form text on Usenet or whatnot. That comes as a sudden and abrupt shock if you're used to reading that Usenet stuff. That is, you'd been in a bubble, and that bubble went away.

Randall worked at NASA. If you work at NASA and are accustomed to conversation among a bubble of what people who work at NASA say about space and then abruptly get thrown into an environment where people who don't work at NASA are talking about space, I expect that it's pretty shocking.

I remember also reading about what happened when email entered into businesses. It kind of mirrored this. For a long time, it was kind of expected that executives would have a secretary, because doing things like typing wasn't as widespread a skill and correcting errors on a typewriter was more time-consuming than it is today on a computer. A manager would likely at least get access to some sort of shared secretary, even if they didn't merit a personal one. That secretary likely spent a lot of their professional life writing, and got to be pretty good at it. That secretary was probably a lot better at writing than the typical person out there. Then businesses generally decided that with email, a lot of this dedicated-secretary overhead wasn't necessary, and arranged to have people just write their own memos. They promptly discovered that a lot of people high up in their org charts had very little ability to write understandably (probably in part because they'd been relying on secretaries to clean everything up for years), and for some years after email showing up in businesses, having training to remediate this was apparently something of a thing.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secretarial_pool

A secretarial pool or typing pool is a group of secretaries working at a company available to assist any executive without a permanently assigned secretary. These groups have been reduced or eliminated where executives have been assigned responsibility for writing their own letters and other secretarial work.

After the widespread adoption of the typewriter but before the photocopier and personal computer, pools of typists were needed by large companies to produce documents from handwritten manuscripts, re-type documents that had been edited, type documents from audio recordings, or to type copies of documents.

Is all this a bad thing?

Well...the Internet has democratized communication. It means that everyone has a voice. It's got pros and cons. It's changed how politicians communicate (Trump being a good example). It means that it's easier to get material out there, but that the material doesn't have a filter on it that might have been useful.

I think that it might well be the case that the average person today probably writes a lot more than they did in the past, because electronic communication enables written text to be so-readily and quickly transmitted. I'd wager that the average level of writing experience is higher today than in 1995. It's just that you're seeing a higher proportion of Average Joe's writing than Jane the Journalist's writing than you might have in 1995.

[–] rickrolled767@ttrpg.network 5 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Now you’ve got me wondering when tldr became a thing on the internet

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 hours ago

to the best of my memory, at least in my experience, i think it originated on, or perhaps was popularized on early reddit, like, pre 2010, perhaps earlier in other forums?

i guess i would not be surprised if it actually originated on tumblr and then made its way to reddit, but yeah, i think i remember it basically 'becoming a thing' roughly around 2008ish? On reddit?

Ah fuck, apparently its first recorded usage was on usenet in 2002.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/TL%3BDR

I may have been using the internet since the 90s, but I also was under the age of 10 for most of the 90s, so... yeah I did not exactly know as much about usenet, as say... gamefaqs, and neopets lol.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 5 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Many people are only semi literate. This cuts two ways- many people struggle with reading longer text, but they also struggle with composing longer text.

I've generally worked in tech with rather educated people, but even there the lower portion of their writing skills can be disappointing. Like, a low grade for English Composition 101. Now, remember that most people don't have even that much training, and don't practice on their own in ways that encourage (what's traditionally considered) good writing.

I think this is part of why some people love chatgpt. They're poor at writing, and now there's a tool that purports to fix that problem without all the pesky work of practicing and learning.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

ChatGPT also dramatically worsens the problem.

It just does the writing and reading for you.

So you then just... never develop any actual reading or writing skills.

Its turning people into something akin to zombies, more or less. Either that or maybe just trying to think of it as some new kind of addiction or mental disability would be a more apt comparison?

I... its baffling, I can barely comprehend how significant and widespread this problem is... when I was in elementary school, I finished assignments and such so fast, with such frequency, that I would get assigned to go out into the hallway and help other kids who were struggling with reading skills, I'd help them read through books, sound out words, explain what they mean.

Thats my point of reference here, I'm back in 2nd grade, helping (probably dyslexic) 4th graders learn how to read.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

So you then just… never develop any actual reading or writing skills.

This is one of the scary parts, yes. Reading and writing are fundamental skills that will atrophy if not practiced. Combined with anti-intellectualism, where people fundamentally do not value reading and writing skills, it's pretty nasty.

I don't know how to fix it. It's a gap in values. I often find myself wondering about the people around me, "Why don't you care?" I don't know why they don't care about things.

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Why don't they care?

... The reliance on machines to do their thinking has more or less made them into actual NPCs.

First it was the combined effect of all of the media machines of capitalism, providing so many distractions and distortions.

Now... its much more direct, formidable, capable... total.

Just go look into the number of people who've killed themselves or others after more or less being goaded or gaslit into by... their only friend, ChatGPT.

Its realworld cyberpsychosis, from Cyberpunk 2077.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

I’ve generally worked in tech with rather educated people, but even there the lower portion of their writing skills can be disappointing.

I'm pretty sure that education helps. I used to hang out on /r/Europe, which had a lot of non-native English speakers...but who were generally very well educated (probably because of the sort of people who are going to be hanging out on an international forum and writing in some language that often isn't their native tongue). The quality of the writing was pretty darn good. I'd say that the Dutch users there in particular wrote exceptionally clean English.

That said, it was an interesting experience, because I discovered that there are completely different categories of errors that native and non-native speakers make. For example, I've seen plenty of native speakers here in the US confuse "their", "they're", and "there", probably because they learned to speak the terms long before they wrote them and then kind of mentally linked them in the interim. I virtually never saw that error on /r/Europe, probably because a lot of Europeans learned to write English relatively-early compared to learning to speak it. But I did see a higher proportion of people having problems with some errors that aren't common among native speakers:

  • Words where English has one word that passed through different languages and then entered English as two different words (e.g. bloc and block).

  • Headlines. Until spending time on that forum, I was basically oblivious to the fact that headlines in English use very different grammar, a different set of conventions, than standard English. I'd grown up reading them, internalized them, never thought about it. Then I wound up on a ton of posts with people in /r/Europe complaining that the submitted headline for an article was completely nonsensical or unreadable. To me, the headlines seemed completely reasonable; at first I thought that users were just joking. Took me a while to realize what was going on. I couldn't even find any websites that provided a full summary of all of the headline-specific grammatical conventions, just some that had some common examples.

  • Words that have irregular prefixes. For example, someone might write "uncompatible" or "noncompatible" instead of "incompatible". English has many different prefixes that can mean approximately "not", ("a-", "un-", "anti-", "non-", "in-", "im-", "ir-", "ex-"). Just have to memorize them, kind of like grammatical gender in some other languages. I've rarely seen native speakers not know the right irregular prefix, but that was an extremely-common error to see on /r/Europe.

  • Specifically for Slavic language users, I saw some users having trouble with definite/indefinite articles (something that doesn't exist in Slavic languages and is actually fairly uncommon in languages globally) or using gendered pronouns where one wouldn't in English (modern English has only the tiniest remaining vestiges of grammatical gender).

Also, it was interesting to see where errors did crop up


my impression was that it tended to be with French or maybe Spanish speakers. My guess is that that's because those languages are the other European languages that are also (relatively) widely-spoken around the world, and so by using English, you expand the pool of people you can talk to the least; I'd guess that people who speak these other languages use English less. For Spanish, it's maybe a factor of 3. For French, maybe a factor of 5. Compare to something like Icelandic, where it's something like a factor of 4,000.

[–] mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

This is even bleeding over into professional email. I’ve noticed that if I send more than a few paragraphs, the recipient won’t actually read any of it.

I’ve taken to highlighting the important things, so they’ll at least feel like they can reliably skim.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

I’ve noticed that if I send more than a few paragraphs, the recipient won’t actually read any of it.

I was reading an article about how some people were using LLMs to generate longer emails with more fluff to make it look like they were putting more work into their emails, and how other people were having LLMs summarize emails that had been sent to them to cut out excessive fluff because it was wasting their time.

One can but imagine what the end game of all this is.

[–] flamiera@kbin.melroy.org 1 points 5 hours ago

I blame the early stages of texting when the dawn of cellphones began, when they became more easily accessible.

Then, I blame Twitter and Facebook for character limits. So, it forced people to dumb down everything they try to talk about.

Then, I blame TikTok/Vine/YouTube Shorts for even worsening the attention span of people.

So now it's like, if you attempt to explain things in great detail, you'll get one or both reactions. One being, people being snarkily towards you about how the post is at length and it is one thing for your post to be a giant blob of text with no structure. Nobody likes reading that, even I don't like reading that and I can get wordy.

The other reaction are people who just complain, bitch, moan and cry about how long the post is.

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 hours ago

It did not used to be like this.

I don't know about that. I've been involved in a lot of long form debate/arguments on forums back in the day and every time you saw a wall of text you had to roll your eyes.

The only difference is we all used to read it all back then. Maybe we just tolerated it better when we were younger.