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[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 66 points 22 hours ago (3 children)

Men's rights very much do differ by state but not anywhere near as significant

[–] neatchee@piefed.social 9 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (2 children)

You are missing the point. There are no rights exclusive to men that vary by state. The only rights that vary by state for one gender are women's rights.

Things like parental rights don't apply here because those impact both genders (they are zero-sum; a decrease in men's paternal rights implies an increase in women's rights).

Only women have specific rights that ONLY impact women and vary from state to state

[–] IndieGoblin@lemmy.4d2.org 6 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

There are no rights exclusive to men or women. Abortion also affects trans men.

[–] neatchee@piefed.social 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (2 children)

While you are technically correct, this is very obviously a discussion about reproductive rights, and the historical oppression of women as those who are most commonly impacted by reproductive rights issues. Your point is factual and valid but it is a distraction from the very important conversation being had here.

If this discussion leads to improved protection of reproductive rights, by pointing to the imbalance between traditionally male and traditionally female rights under US law, then trans men will also benefit. As such, the distraction of pointing out that trans men are also impacted therefore it's "not just women" and the implication that we shouldn't be talking about the ongoing oppression of women but rather "uterus havers", works against your own interests.

The people who need to be convinced that reproductive rights need protection, and for whom the "it's imbalanced" argument will be effective, are often even more vehemently opposed to trans issues. Bringing your point up here only serves to further entrench people who might otherwise be swayed to make changes that would benefit trans men. This is called "breaking into jail".

There is a time and a place to have the "trans men are impacted by reproductive rights issues" discussion and this isn't it.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 12 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Maybe make the point in a more direct and less confusing manner then? People are just critiquing the message because its written poorly. Its not even apparent its about reproductive rights until someone else clarifies that.

[–] nieminen@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I knew immediately that it was about reproductive rights, but that's just because that's been the latest and most consistent snub against women lately.

If this were 40 years ago it would probably be about their ability to get a bank account or credit card without a man.

[–] IndieGoblin@lemmy.4d2.org 0 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I know it seems pedantic and normally I wouldnt interject but clearly based on your responses throughout this thread it needs to be brought up.

[–] neatchee@piefed.social 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

My omission of your point was intentional because as I said, in this context it's not pedantic but rather self-defeating.

If we were in a different context I'd be right there with you championing the fact that trans men are effected by reproductive rights issues.

But for all the reasons I've already explained I chose not to bring transgender matters into this conversation because it only serves to make it harder to get the things you actually want, which is reproductive healthcare equality for trans men (and women).

It was a deliberate choice to meet my target audience where they are, knowing that a victory in that context would benefit trans men too.

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world -3 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

So you’re saying that in addition to the rights we all have, women have additional exclusive rights.

[–] neatchee@piefed.social 13 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (2 children)

No, I'm saying that women are SUPPOSED to have the same rights as everyone (e.g. complete bodily autonomy) but have their rights restricted in varying ways from state to state.

This really isn't that hard to understand. Women have had their rights restricted in ways that men didn't for a long, long time. It's so normal that you aren't even aware of it.

They got the right to vote later than men.

They got federal protection for their right to have their own bank account without a man's approval in 1974 for fuck's sake.

Is it so hard to recognize that women's rights are controlled in ways that men's aren't?

[–] kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Female genital mutilation is illegal in the United States. Male genital mutilation is common practice. The discrepancies certainly aren't equal, but they aren't exclusively one-sided.

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Let’s not forget that women have never had compulsory military service in the US either. I hear some things can happen to your body in war. I mean aside from it being mandatorily shipped away for months and years.

Yes, anyone pushing for that last inch of total exclusivity here has another think coming.

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

It’s not that hard to understand. Neither is “Men's rights very much do differ by state but not anywhere near as significant.”

If you had just been reasonable and settled for that, I woudln’t be deliberately winding you up like this.

[–] Fusselwurm@feddit.org -5 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Well yes. In addition to the body parts we all have, women have some that are exclusive to them; and as they're a bit special they require extra rights.

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

Well, no. Both sexes have body parts which are exclusive to them. And before you say “yeah but there’s nothing controversial or invasive happening to any male body parts” consider circumcision.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (2 children)

Amendment 2 varies by state county city. But not by sex. Lots of rules are state wise, not federal

[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 5 points 21 hours ago (1 children)
[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

You can open carry where? You can own an assault rifle where? You can not open carry nor own a pistol where 18 vs 21 where?

All are questions of the second amendment. In NYC you can't own a gun without privelege. In Orlando, you can now own one and carry one.

[–] neatchee@piefed.social 13 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

You're missing the point: are any of those rights different my state only for men or are all of those rights different by state for EVERYONE including men and women?

There are no rights exclusive to men that vary by state. The only rights that vary by state for one gender are women's rights

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I was agreeing they didn't vary by sex, but just to play devils advocate, rape. In many states only men can be charged with rape, because it defines it as penetration, and I don't believe fingers count

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 14 hours ago

There are no rights exclusive to men

You can kinda stop there, I mean, are there any rights exclusive to men? If there aren't this is kind of a false dichotomy.

Not that I disagree with women's rights of course, I'm just having trouble thinking of something that even would possibly "only apply to men."

[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 1 points 22 hours ago (3 children)
[–] 13igTyme@piefed.social 4 points 21 hours ago

Electric bugaloo

[–] ignirtoq@feddit.online 4 points 21 hours ago (2 children)
[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 18 hours ago

right to own bear arms.

[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Oh. Usually it's phrased as second amendment.

[–] ignirtoq@feddit.online 6 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Yep, I definitely think the whole phrasing of that comment is unusual. I understand the basic facts they are stating, but not the point of stating them.

[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I'm confused about what your point was in your original comment. I don't get the relevance?

[–] ignirtoq@feddit.online 4 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

My original comment? I just answered your question as to what that other commenter meant by "amendment 2." I didn't say anything else? Did you not want someone else to answer your question and only want that commenter to?

[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 2 points 12 hours ago

Oh sorry. Everyone on this site feels like the same person to me except for @SantasMagicalComfort@piefed.world

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world -4 points 21 hours ago

The world is at the brink of war because 1 man was used as a parrot, and you haven't cauton yet?

Let me debrief you.

Man in Whitehouse is grifter who doesn't care about anyone.. being used by governments around the world (Russia, SA) to get what they want. It doesn't end there

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago

The second amendment to the constitution