this post was submitted on 12 Nov 2025
937 points (96.3% liked)
memes
18021 readers
2925 users here now
Community rules
1. Be civil
No trolling, bigotry or other insulting / annoying behaviour
2. No politics
This is non-politics community. For political memes please go to !politicalmemes@lemmy.world
3. No recent reposts
Check for reposts when posting a meme, you can only repost after 1 month
4. No bots
No bots without the express approval of the mods or the admins
5. No Spam/Ads/AI Slop
No advertisements or spam. This is an instance rule and the only way to live. We also consider AI slop to be spam in this community and is subject to removal.
A collection of some classic Lemmy memes for your enjoyment
Sister communities
- !tenforward@lemmy.world : Star Trek memes, chat and shitposts
- !lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world : Lemmy Shitposts, anything and everything goes.
- !linuxmemes@lemmy.world : Linux themed memes
- !comicstrips@lemmy.world : for those who love comic stories.
founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
Why would I want to just add more shit to what someone else is dealing with and then have theirs added to me? That would just leave us both more stressed out than ever.
You'd think that, but that's part of the point and magic, and it does not necessarily add up to that point of "leave us both more stressed than ever".
It still adds up to increasing connection, not decreasing it. The caveat is that the whole leaving room for the other person too is vital, it can't be overwhelmingly one sided, good or ill.
The human condition includes depressive shit too, and no one is unique in capacity for suffering, only details. That's still something to bond over.
It does me. You all are acting like I have no experience with this. Finding out other people are suffering the same as me doesn't make me feel better about the situation. It makes it feel more hopeless.
People often vent that way. They need to hear they're not alone in this shit - it makes them feel better.
It doesn't make me feel better. It makes me feel like our situation is hopeless.
Because people with problems in common often have solutions in common and then only one of you needs to have the answer. The whole person-climbs-down-into-the-hole-with-you story.