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I think the total opposite, people who value small talk assume every stranger is someone to value and attempt to connect with, whereas people who frown at or avoid small talk are often the ones assuming some pretty negative things about others
That's pretty unfair to the 10 to 20 % neurodiverses.
I mean, this is a total generalization. I'm ADHD AF and I love small talk. I'm very earnestly never "testing" people, either.
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Strictly based on OP, people who value small talk assume every stranger is someone who needs to be assessed as a possible threat, and must "prove that we can get along". They might be someone to value and attempt to connect with, but that is indeterminate until tested. The small talk is the test.