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I personally cringe when I hear a friend js having a kid. All I can think of is how bad theyre going to have it. Hell id definitely have been better off being born 20 years earlier, but these new kids are REALLY screwed unless they have super rich parents.

"Nothing new under the sun" I suppose!

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[–] platypode@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That’s our fight—not our unborn childrens’.

Having a child for any purpose other than the flourishing and well-being of that child has always struck me as a deeply flawed decision. If your child doesn’t want to fight for a world they never knew, all you’ve birthed is misery.

[–] Sanctus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Mate, we have to create the environment to flourish. I never said it was fair. I never said it was right. But look at the world around you. Someone has to pick up the banner, and we won't be here forever. You still have to kindle hope.

Also, some people fuck and kids get made, and thats just life.

[–] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Amen.

If we try and leave the world better than we found it then we can make space for kids to flourish. Thats our obligation to them.

But we have to actually try, even when it’s hard or inconvenient or unfair.