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[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 0 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I didn't say I magically know everything about anyone. I said if I'm marrying someone, I make it my business to find out who they are.

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Okay I got it. So you have a magical power that as soon as you say I do you gain full and complete total knowledge of somebody. Impossible to fool no way whatsoever something could get by you. We're taking you to Vegas. Going to set up a CIA black site and an Elvis impersonator and get some shit done.

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 0 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Not able to discern that huh? Don't worry I know it's just cuz we haven't said I do yet.

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 0 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Do you really believe you're making a point here?

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Do you really feel you're the person to ask that question after your little sanctimonious speech about how everyone else is stupid if they get fooled and you'll never be fooled by anybody? Did you think you were making a good point with that?

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 0 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

My, ahem, speech was literally "Find out who you're marrying before you marry them". If what you heard was "everyone else is stupid if they get fooled and I'll never be fooled by anybody", then you might have some introspection to do.

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Sure buddy, you totally came off as genuine and not at all judgmental with this:

In a relationship, sure. In a marriage? Can't help to fault them for not finding out.

Literally said you fault them. Really holding back the judgmental nature there weren't you? I don't know why you just be a dick like that. There's no reason for it. So take that introspection and maybe apply it yeah?

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 0 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, I fault people for not finding out they're marrying Nazis and then acting surprised. Again, if you believe the bottom line of that is me calling you stupid, that's a you problem.

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

Oh looks like introspection isn't possible for some people I guess. Sad.

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 0 points 5 hours ago

Very sad indeed.