My, ahem, speech was literally "Find out who you're marrying before you marry them". If what you heard was "everyone else is stupid if they get fooled and I'll never be fooled by anybody", then you might have some introspection to do.

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Sure buddy, you totally came off as genuine and not at all judgmental with this:

In a relationship, sure. In a marriage? Can't help to fault them for not finding out.

Literally said you fault them. Really holding back the judgmental nature there weren't you? I don't know why you just be a dick like that. There's no reason for it. So take that introspection and maybe apply it yeah?

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 0 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, I fault people for not finding out they're marrying Nazis and then acting surprised. Again, if you believe the bottom line of that is me calling you stupid, that's a you problem.

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

Oh looks like introspection isn't possible for some people I guess. Sad.

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 0 points 5 hours ago

Very sad indeed.