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[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 11 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Age related. There is a user who keeps asking if it's ok for adults of different ages to date, marry, whatever. Dude kept asking so often I had to block.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 hours ago

Grimereaper. Yup. I have them tagged as "Weirdly obsessed with age gaps and superheroes"

[–] juliebean@lemmy.zip 11 points 12 hours ago

i hate when someone asks a question, but qualifies it to only want answers from some specific subset of people, when that limitation isn't really relevant, and other types of folks are likely to have answers too.

a made up example: "Truck drivers of lemmy, what's your favourite platformer video game?"

[–] gigastasio@sh.itjust.works 8 points 13 hours ago

Think of the same twenty or so reposted questions on r/askreddit week after week, and as long as I don’t see those I’m happy. What I love most about this community is people seeking very specific information or help on a given issue and actually getting it.

That being said, I’m also a habitual shitposter. I get a laugh out of seeing and posting questions like that and I hope people like to use them to either play along with the joke or use it to make a good point.

How do I do x in a Linux/Software. Mostly because there is not a lot of discussion going on and I can't contribute anything valuable. I might change my mind once I bork my own system once again.

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 5 points 13 hours ago

What should I do about my bad coworkers?

[–] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 5 points 8 hours ago

Questions that don't invite discussion are bad content. When there's basically no replies to top comments it's a poor post.

[–] SwingingTheLamp@midwest.social 4 points 12 hours ago

In general, the "what's your favorite [x]?" questions, where [x] is movie, album, game, or the like. Few people share anything about the title, or why it's meaningful to them, and very little discussion ensues, because, what's to talk about? It just tends to result in a list of media (most of which I've heard of) connected to screen names of people I don't know. Not usually worth reading.

[–] Libb@piefed.social 3 points 1 hour ago
  • Lazy questions. Those whose answer anyone could easily find by themselves.
  • Fake questions. Questions that are only there to trigger (emotional) reactions or as a way to get some validation for the OP, and not as a way to spark a sincere (aka, open) discussion.

What's great is that no matter how easy it is to ask those kind of questions, even for the most... intellectually challenged trolls, it's even simpler for all of us readers to ignore them and not get triggered, or even not worrying about them being a thing ;)

[–] Vanth@reddthat.com 2 points 11 hours ago

Questions that are more appropriate as websearches. No need to ask here to learn the capital city of Lithuania or the law on jaywalking in OP's home town.

I usually tag the users most blatantly guilty of that as "LMGTFY" and move on.

(LMGTFY = let me google that for you, a phrase but also a link generator one could send someone that opens to a recording of their question being typed into google search and then providing them with results)

[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Mainly the "look at me, I'm smart" questions.

[–] RickAstleyfounddead@lemy.lol 0 points 11 hours ago

Normal Xitter post: Look at me I'm stupid
I can prove it

[–] Jmsnwbrd@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

Anything that starts off negatively. . .

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago
[–] adhd_traco@piefed.social 1 points 4 hours ago

I really don't mind the vast majority. Unless it's really dumb, hateful or repetitive, I'm good. It's just one more thing to scroll past, if I'm not interested. Though I do notice people with cool input running for the hills when the questions aren't 'exquisite' enough and places can turn dull.

[–] SparkleBooty@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

What's your favorite song