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Duck face came to mind yesterday - randomly realized I hadn't seen duckface in the wild for a long time.

Or, alternatively, what are some old fads you wish would make a comeback?

The spirit of the question is social fads. Please try to keep replies to lighthearted things. I'll delete the post if the comments turn into political commentary.

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[–] BlameThePeacock@lemmy.ca 28 points 1 day ago (4 children)
[–] MyBrainHurts@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Last week, I had to explain what pogs were to a pair of teammates, had to stop myself from starting with "back in my day, when things were good and people didn't spend so much time on their phones..."

[–] kamen@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, because many people didn't have cell phones back then. For me it was when I was maybe third grade; two or three kids out of the whole class had phones.

[–] MyBrainHurts@lemmy.ca 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Oh wow, do you mind if I ask when pogs hit for you? I would've been in early grade school, so, maybe 94/95.

[–] kamen@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

Seems like I'm a bit younger than you, it must've been early 2000s for me.

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[–] Croquette@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago

Pogs are the civilized upgrade of throwing rocks together. Fuck yeah it should come back. It is ingrained in our DNA

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 2 points 18 hours ago

They already did. That one's cyclical.

[–] vorpuni@jlai.lu 24 points 23 hours ago (2 children)
[–] troyunrau@lemmy.ca 7 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Saw (or rather heard) a few at a football game recently. They're still here, but at least it isn't a stadium full.

Instead we use cowbells like God and nature intended ;)

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 6 points 18 hours ago

I got a fever

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 4 points 18 hours ago

Thanks for the reminder lol

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 23 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Vaguebooking. At least it died out for me, when my age group grew up past high school. Specifically, the vaguebooking that would involve lame-ass "motivation quotes" or worse song lyrics that were obviously about some dramatic thing happening in their life, usually pointed at someone.

I still have one person who never moved on from high-school who still does crap like this, but now I just still follow them for the pure nostalgia and the joy of seeing these. Seriously, they show how immature they are, unable to actually go talk about their emotions a veil so thin of "please I want my privacy" while posting about it online.

[–] IcedRaktajino@startrek.website 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

vaguebooking that would involve lame-ass "motivation quotes" or worse song lyrics that were obviously about some dramatic thing happening in their life

You've just described like 90% of the AIM away messages in high school lol.

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh god now there is a concept I long forgot about!

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[–] IcedRaktajino@startrek.website 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I didn't notice it at the time, but AIM away messages were basically like proto-Twitter long before actual Twitter became a thing. Some people would always be "away" so their inspirational crap would show since AIM still let you chat like normal while "away".

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Aaahaha. Back when Facebook was still a thing I would vaguebook with Protomen lyrics. God knows what I was thinking

[–] Silic0n_Alph4@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

If you destroy the working class all you get is a broken machine?

[–] teslasaur@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Omfg yes. I remember when Facebook had that promt next to the posting input, prefixing all statements.

"Person".. is feeling like somebody hurt me badly.

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[–] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Oh my, yes. That one needed to die before it started. Obviously fishing for responses, refusing to elaborate, sometimes getting defensive in the comments, sometimes moving conversations to private chat.

And the tired old "someone knows who they are!"

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Followed with one of their friends saying "Yeah Tim's an asshole" and them replying either "Yes he's such an asshole" or equally likely "Please respect our privacy". Either way, super annoying.

Just publicly saying they're in the know, and closer to the poster than anyone who doesn't know. "Look at me! I'm such a close friend that I know who they're talking about!"

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Thx im fine thx 4 always being thrre xxxx

[–] MisterCurtis@lemmy.world 20 points 17 hours ago

I'm already feeling nostalgic for democracy

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You don't really hear about serial killers anymore.

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Of course not - they're in politics now after all.

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[–] RandomStickman@fedia.io 17 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I'm glad pop music stopped sounding like EDM

[–] squinky@sh.itjust.works 8 points 18 hours ago

Next I’d be pretty happy if EDM could stop sounding like pop music too

[–] teslasaur@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not sure that this alternative is better.

Compression up the ass and nasal whiny vocals can't become uncool soon enough.

[–] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

You have any opinion on Espresso by Sabrina Carpenter? Just curious lol

[–] teslasaur@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

It's different from what i'm thinking of. I'm hearing alot of jpop/kpop-influence in the song.

But it's also insanely compressed. Artificially loud is the description that comes to mind. Like i get a headache from the constant pressure of the song.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 16 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

NFTs. They have not been and will not be missed.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 9 points 1 day ago

Most all trends or fads are not my thing. Im usually always out of fashion and its sorta funny when something I wear or do or whatever actually comes around again or whatnot.

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 5 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (3 children)

Coincidentally I was thinking about this yesterday, along with girls puffing their cheeks in selfies.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 4 points 18 hours ago

Duckface? Yeah that's not completely dead, unfortunately.

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[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

The fidget spinner.

Currently waiting on people to stop using "know what I mean", "end of the day", "umm", "like", "I mean", and other filler words.

[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think you'll be waiting a very long time. The specific words and phrases will shift, but I think filler words are just a natural consequence of thinking while speaking. Some people are better at that than ~~me~~ others but it's not going to disappear.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago

Obama: "Um."

Vonnegut: "Um."

Yeah, um, it works.

[–] brashboy@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I agree but also filler words are important. It spaces out the information, making it easier for people to digest in real time.

[–] RodgeGrabTheCat@sh.itjust.works 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

A brief pause does the same thing.

[–] IcedRaktajino@startrek.website 2 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

But then.....you sound like....William.....Shatner.....and I'm not...sure....if that is any....better.

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[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

Fidgets have great therapeutic uses, just they tend to get tossed at teachers who aren't trained

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 3 points 16 hours ago

'mid', 'based', and the rest of last-year's clique-signaling kid-pidgin.

[–] Zamboni_Driver@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] RedEyeFlightControl@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Skinny jeans, ultra tiny phones, basically anything that was a PITA to use or traded comfort to look fashionable.

Two things I want to see come back is JNCO style jeans that are enormous, and zipoffs. Oversized jeans - that's comfort right there. I lived through that. There's nothing like being able to put your 2" thick 10 lb math textbook in your back pocket like a wallet, lol. Zipoff pants / convertable pants were the bomb. You could be warm on a cold morning and have shorts in the afternoon. I really miss those, and the lack of cargo pockets today. Where have all the cargos gone???

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