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[–] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 70 points 2 days ago (2 children)

This doesn’t super surprise me. Driving should be taken more seriously. You’re controlling a 2 ton death machine and it shouldn’t be taken lightly.

[–] reddig33@lemmy.world 29 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (7 children)

We should be retaking driver tests every seven to ten years to keep our license.

Poorly designed roads, signage, and intersections cause a lot of accidents. Think on ramps that throw you into traffic, and off-ramps that want you to get over three lanes after exiting in order to turn right at your cross street.

Lack of traffic enforcement drives up insurance costs and reduces city revenues. Some states have cheaped out on the reflective paint used to stripe roads, so you can’t see lane dividers in the rain. More of that wonderful “deregulation” and people not wanting to pay taxes I guess.

It also doesn’t help that many states are getting rid of car inspections for some bizarre reason. Not great to avoid shit falling off of the car in front of you when you’re going 70 mph.

[–] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Yeah my state has gotten rid of inspections and it’s baffling to me.

[–] thejml@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Mine has been arguing this point for a while. Apparently there wasn’t really a drop of issues here when they went into place, so they question the usefulness.

That said, they’re just done incorrectly in the first place. They are done by dealers/shops that lose money in doing them and are instead banking on charging you lots of money for problems they find and hope you get fixed with them. They need be done at an independent run spot with no interest in anything but safety and no way to be bought out.

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[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

it shouldn’t be taken lightly

Well, of course not. It's 2 tons!

I'll get out...

[–] AwesomeLowlander@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Not gonna make much of a difference unless you take your mum with you.

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[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 39 points 2 days ago (7 children)

Cars are not designed to inflict harm. This cheap false equivalence tells us a lot.

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Right. I can't ride my gun to work or the grocery store. I get that there's a lot of negatives associated with car culture, but it's a tool in a way that firearms are not.

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[–] limer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Cars, roads, and car culture are inflicting harm though, even if it’s seen as a neutral tool by many

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[–] LeninsOvaries@lemmy.cafe 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, cars aren't even designed to kill people and they still do it just as much as guns. They're way too dangerous to be legal.

[–] Draedron@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 days ago (3 children)

That doesnt make any sense. Since card have other purposes than killing they can be legal.

Since guns only exist to kill they should not be legal. But it is a fight against wind mills since americans love their ability to kill who they want more than they love their kids.

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[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 30 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Road deaths are typically viewed as a risk we take while going about our day, while firearm deaths are either an intentional act, or someone doing something very stupid.

How many people drive a car daily in this area?

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Yeah heart disease kills more than either but we don’t hold candlelight vigils to ban butter. Because food is a normal part of life. I know a lot of people grow up with guns, but to me, guns are weird. I don’t know anyone who owns a gun. Not that I know of anyway. I have never held a gun. I have never seen a gun, except strapped to a cop walking by. I hope to never touch a gun (or be touched by one).

[–] LeninsOvaries@lemmy.cafe 3 points 2 days ago

Nobody should grow up in car culture either. It's not safe for kids to be surrounded by Death Zones. It leads to kids either being kept inside all day and getting brain atrophy, or dying on the road. Not to mention all the asthma. Raising a child in a car neighbourhood is abuse.

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[–] radix@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Dumb question: which one draws more media attention in Chicago?

In my own experience (not Chicago), the local news is dominated by where the rush-hour crash is today, while national news talks way more about gun deaths.

I'm going to go with the general vibe of Lemmy here and assume you mean that auto deaths need to get more attention in America. To that I would say there is a general cultural attitude that cars are a necessary evil (even among most people who don't outright love them, which is a huge demographic), and fixing the zoning and infrastructure would take decades and many tens of billions of dollars to restructure a large city around public transit. Besides bumper-sticker-slogan politics ("more public transit!") there are precious few real, concrete plans for getting from the current situation to the car-free utopia.

Even then, you'd not eliminate cars entirely. Among the more developed western European nations that are known for good public transit, Ireland seems (at a quick glance) to have the fewest cars per person at 536 per 1,000, while the car-happy US has 850/1,000. So best case, you reduce cars by ~35%.

Gun deaths, on the other hand, are easier to imagine as a problem that can be solved relatively quickly and with less disruption. From an advocacy point of view, it's the lower-hanging fruit.

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[–] maxwells_daemon@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (7 children)

Driving is orders of magnitude more likely to kill you at any second you're in a car, than flying is at any second you're in a plane.

People who are terrified of flying will get in a car and drive like a monkey like it's no big deal.

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago

Phobias are, by definition, irrational.

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[–] elvis_depresley@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I guess it's because one of these things is a widely used tool, a requirement for work / living in the USA and gives people freedom.

The other is just car.

[–] grueling_spool@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago

One of these things is purpose-built for the deliberate infliction of harm. The other is vastly more popular and merely causes harm through negligence.

Sort of like the American political parties, I guess

[–] count_dongulus@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Neither of these topics should even be drawing media attention, considering how frequent and non-notable they are. They just report on this stuff every day because it's cheaper and easier than exclusively finding and reporting on real notable local news, and television news needs filler content for selling ad spots. Ever had a day where there was no news, and they ended early?

[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That is a pretty high number of shootings then. Practically everyone drives so that is a lot of miles/person. You have to drive, you don't have to be shot, that is why it draws media attention.

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[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

In absolute numbers.

How many users? How many per people?

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[–] BottleCaptain@feddit.nl 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Given the strong correlation between these two, I hypothesise that in Chicago, cars rather than bullets are shot from guns.

[–] cicadagen@ani.social 6 points 2 days ago

Car guns. Fully automatic.

[–] ReasonableHat@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Genuine question: do the lines diverge (and in which direction / how much) if you account for the number of cars / guns per person?

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I want to see it broken down into the fatal and non-fatal portions and also the mental health of the cars at the time of the crash.

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[–] jacksilver@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

I think the better stat would be time handling a gun/driving a car.

The average person probably spends about an hour in the car per day (based on some loose numbers I saw online). But I suspect the number of hours holding a gun is a lot less.

Its kinda like the fact that new Yorkers bite more people than sharks. It isn't because new Yorkers are more likely to bite you, but with eight million people interacting daily the amount of interactions outweighs the odds of a bite.

[–] rolling_resistance@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Traffic engineers use decades-old manuals that ignore safety in favour of driver convenience. This has to change. Streets built by them are a huge public safety issue.

We should never accept crashes that result in serious injuries or deaths as if they are an inevitable force of nature or something. They're merely a predictable outcome of a badly built system.

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[–] Rockbear@feddit.dk 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Amazing.

The Chicago metropolitan area has about one and a half times the population of denmark and five times the traffic fatalities.

(And 150 times the gun murders, but it's kind of a given that the US is completely whack on that compared to the rest of the western world)

You should really look into both.

[–] Ricaz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They don't have 50+ hours of mandatory training before hitting the roads like we do. In some states you can practically just go to an exam and luck out.

Their perception of freedom is messed up and literally causing huge amounts of unnecessary deaths.

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[–] ohwhatfollyisman@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

this is not a valid comparison. the number of people in and around cars--and the amount of interactions that the average person has with a car--vastly outstrips those near or using guns. by at least two orders of magnitude, one would estimate.

it's like saying that the number of papercuts received is marginally higher than the number of intentional stab wounds and the media only focuses on one.

that's how it should be. one of those two things impacts a larger percentage of the people that encounter it.

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[–] sundray@lemmus.org 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Fuck cars and guns, ban both.

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[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

This is especially surprising to me because Chicago is one of the few US cities with decent public transportation, so there's a significant percentage of people that aren't driving.

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[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If guns are so alike to cars, why not require a license that you get by passing a written test on gun safety and a practical test on basic competence and safe usage?

[–] IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

They are not alike. It’s a dumb comparison. Transport (albeit flawed) brings many more advantages than shooting people. That’s why people accept cars more than guns.

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[–] rizzothesmall@sh.itjust.works 4 points 23 hours ago

Wow, we really need to educate people on safety and strictly license usage based on examination and proven ability.

[–] infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I think the math works out that each year the average American has roughly 1 in 10,000 chance of dying in a car crash and a 1 in 200 chance of being injured in a car crash (Though the second stat likely leaves out a lot of unreported injuries). The average American rolls those dice once a year, so plan to live til 75? 1 in 133 chance that you die in a car crash, >1 in 3 chance you're injured in a car crash at some point.

I've known two people who died in car crashes, and at least several dozen who were injured in crashes including several really gnarly pedestrian bystander injuries. And I'm barely middle aged.

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