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TLDR - what’s the question mark in the following scale

Cult(-1)……………….Religion(0)……………….????(+1)

Long version (a.k.a my stupid mind’s question that is keeping me awake):

My understanding of cult is a group of people with an absurd or even possibly nefarious belief system. Like something negative.

By that definition I would put religion in the middle (though a majority of it leans towards the cult side). A group of people that is very serious about what they believe in, no matter how illogical it is.

So with this understanding what would you call the positive side ? A group of people coming together to have a tradition and belief system just for the fun of it ? Is there such thing ?

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[–] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 86 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Philosophy debate club with no membership

[–] Botzo@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I was made treasurer of the philosophy club by emailing the list at college to join. We met one time because the president and VP were excited someone joined.

There were no funds to manage.

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 day ago

Sounds like a cushy gig 🤣

[–] FordBeeblebrox@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’d never want to be part of any club that’d have me as a member

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[–] faltryka@lemmy.world 37 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Religion and cult is basically the same thing with different connotative subtext.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

The only difference between religions and cults is the size.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago
[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The only difference is the person using the word.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The difference is the likelihood any given person overhearing could be offended.

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[–] can@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Scientology is pretty new, and pretty big.

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[–] blargle@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'll answer your question with two more questions:

What's the opposite of a rat king? What's the opposite of an ant mill?

Also I have to question your whole premise of the relationship between religion and cult. Where a cult is the bad kind of something and a religion is the neutral, default kind.

A religion is just the final form of a successful cult that got big enough and old enough that it no longer needs to take the drastic "cult-like" measures to restrict its members and separate them from society- because it has thoroughly infiltrated and colonizied that society to such an extent that being born into that society is enough.

[–] josefo@leminal.space 4 points 15 hours ago

I know what you mean, but this is a fun exercise. The opposite of a Rat King clearly is a Cat Peasant. The opposite of an ant mill is trickier, there is no such machine that recomposes flour to make whole grains again, reversing the milling process, but the next similar thing would be making bread, so I pick Thermite Bakery.

If cults need to protect their members and beliefs from society and laws to survive, and with religions both support each other, then the opposite of an cult would be a society that needs to protect their members and laws from beliefs, taking drastic measures to separate their members from said beliefs. I guess some sort of atheistic authoritarian state would be the opposite, on your scale. So, North Korea? It doesn't feel quite right because those authoritarian states depend on a cult of personality. Maybe some technocratic AI state? I don't know if there is something simpler I'm missing.

The other way of thing it would be, the beliefs organization growing bigger and shallowing the society in that third stage, so people need to protect themselves from the big theocratic apparatus, taking drastic measures to restrict their members and separate them from the big theocracy, living in communities, farming and reading philosophy and cultivating science, educating each other? This is somewhat similar to the setting in V for Vendetta. Also reminds me of what people do in some places dominated by Islamic theocracy, a very cult like way of gathering in secret at houses, sharing banned books, and literally risking their lives for even discussing such things at their homes.

But I agree with you, OP needs to define better the difference perceived between cults and religions, so we can extrapolate a better answer.

[–] iMastari@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

What's the difference between a cult and a religion?

About 100 years.

[–] Zier@fedia.io 7 points 1 day ago

Based on maga, I would say 8 years.

[–] cam_i_am@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Community.

They're all groups of people with some kind of shared purpose or values. Cults are harmful and power based. Communities are helpful and consent-based. Religions can fall either way, or somewhere in the middle.

[–] fishos@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (5 children)

This or "support group". Community implies those already around you. Something like AA would fit the bill for something that is similar to religion or a cult but positive and affirmative.

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[–] Pandemanium@lemm.ee 18 points 1 day ago

Not everything has an opposite. That is a trap of binary thinking.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 18 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (5 children)

Atheism.

Technically speaking, all religions are cults. The definition of "cult" is just an organized practice of religion.

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Some atheists treat atheism itself as a cult. I’d go one step further. My choice is Agnosticism.

I’m happy to say I don’t know. Maybe we are all on the back of a giant turtle. If the turtle was big enough, we wouldn’t be able to tell. It’s all good.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 18 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (11 children)

Some, sure. Most, no.

Atheism is simply the state of nonbelief in a deity. It requires no declaration nor even conscious thought. I don’t believe in leprechauns, but I don’t belong to an anti-leprechaun cult.

e: you’re likely atheist about Ra, Thor, Sheba, and Quetzalcoatl, right? Most atheists feel the same about Yahweh, and aren’t likely to bring it up unless you do. Most will even hold out for dozens or hundreds of times. Many Christians seem oblivious to how often they reference their religion in casual conversation. Often, Atheists only have to say it once.

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[–] kruhmaster@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 day ago

Everything doesn't have to have an opposite, you know.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

A cult is simply a religion that's too small to have sects and too young to have legitimacy.

When people started worshiping a guy nailed to a torture device and said he was God, the Romans thought they were lunatics, because that's genuinely unsettling. The eating his body thing doesn't help either. It's just that the Christians won.

[–] TheDrunkard@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago
[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 day ago

Cults and religion are the same. The only thing that differentiate them is time. If you have a systematic set of illogical beliefs that have been around for a few years or decades or even just one lifetime, it's more likely to be called a cult. Give that group a lot more time and it will be called a religion.

As for your question .... I don't think it's anything the opposite of religion / cult but rather which belief system. I think as humans, we will always come up with some sort of belief system because we will always want to. We're just wired that way.

And to me the best belief system is one where we value one another no matter what, who, where, why or how. That includes honoring, respecting even those who don't believe what you do. A belief system where we honor all life, human, animal and organic. A belief system where we do our best not to harm one another or any life around us.

If we could that, then following a religion wouldn't be so bad because the belief system would be used to actually benefit all life.

[–] faltryka@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)
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[–] palebluethought@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

A cult is basically just a religion that is not large or old enough to force people to take it seriously. It just so happens that small, new religions are also extremely volatile and unstable and prone to extremely stupid decisions

[–] zonnewin@feddit.nl 7 points 1 day ago

Intellectual freedom, with an appreciation of philosophy and scientific inquiry.

[–] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

The opposite of an oppressing group believing in farytales is atheism. It's weird there's a name for not believing bullshit, but there it is. Every religion is a cult, they are just of different scales.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

Cult is just what the big congregation calls the small congregation

[–] Doc_Crankenstein@slrpnk.net 6 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Your scale is off. Religions and cults are the same thing. The only difference is how accepting society is of them. There is no third option.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 day ago

An individual who thinks and acts rationally and who doesn't try to manipulate others.

[–] Zier@fedia.io 5 points 1 day ago
[–] Steve@communick.news 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The key difference between religions and cults, is the level of restrictions on outside information.

On that scale cults are at one end, religion in the middle, and science at the other end.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I don't like to see science presented as a belief system. Science is a tool for establishing fact about the natural world in a methodical and reproducible way. For debating the existence of gods, you need philosophy.

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[–] CoolThingAboutMe@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think this is closest to correct. If the metric is that cult members are kind of duped to go along with group think and philosophy is the practice of questioning belief and thought processes.

That positions philosophy as the meta-analysis end of the scale and cults as the automatic.

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[–] AugustWest@lemm.ee 4 points 1 day ago

Defining characteristics of a cult: inside information and ritual, seperation from others and non believers, words and speech that are internalized and often only understood by cult members, heiradchy - often to one person or small group, loss of self, loss of independence, removal of physical items or required clothing, and generally there is an eventuality that those in power will begin abuse that is often sexual.

Now, the actual beliefs have nothing to do with it. Where a religion ranks in the scheme is debatable.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

At the far end of the spectrum, with no judging and only help, is a food bank.

A community in which everyone has equal power and acts in solidarity with one another

[–] SplashJackson@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

Normal society

[–] Arkouda@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

First and foremost, not all cults are negative. From that point we can have the scale be cult specific.

Negative Cult(-1) - Benign Cult (0) - Positive Cult (+1)

The opposite I would assume would be non spiritual groups of people who connect in another way outside of something "spiritual", without a set standard for beliefs provided by a singular leader required to be member to the group.

Negative Group(-1) - Benign Group (0) - Positive Group(+1)

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