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[–] MnemonicBump@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I moved to Minnesota from San Diego 5 years ago and it feels like a better decision every single day

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

Aiming my way there from Ohio within the next year, any recommendations?

[–] LilB0kChoy@lemm.ee 8 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

Get to know other transplants to Minnesota ahead of time or find a way to meet some once you move. Native Minnesotans are notoriously tough to befriend; many Minnesotans have friend groups that go back to primary school and can be kind of standoffish at first.

[–] peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 5 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Nah, we don't have friends groups that go back to primary school

Wait does that include middle school and highschool too?

And we aren't standoffish! Just don't face us directly if talking, that's rude you ain't a cop. And keep your opinions uncommitted. It's rude to express anything that can give the impression you have a strong opinion or feeling about something. Why are you guys talking so much anyway, there's perfectly good hotdish goin to waste.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 4 hours ago

Could maybe get used to that.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[–] LilB0kChoy@lemm.ee 2 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Maybe, I haven't spent enough time in Ohio to judge but being from Minnesota that is the #1 thing I hear from transplants. There's even been articles written about it.

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world -2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Just remember that Minnesota Nice is not a complement.

[–] LilB0kChoy@lemm.ee 3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

It's not but it's not really an insult either unless your a dick who's misusing the term.

Minnesota nice is a cultural stereotype applied to the behavior of people from the U.S. state of Minnesota, implying residents are unusually courteous, reserved, and mild-mannered compared to people from other states. The phrase also implies polite friendliness, an aversion to open confrontation, a tendency toward understatement, a disinclination to make a direct fuss or stand out, apparent emotional restraint, and self-deprecation.

Having spent a number of decades in Minnesota I'd say Wikipedia pretty accurately captures Minnesota Nice.

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 0 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

If Minnesota Nice was a compliment it would just be called nice. People confuse polite with nice. The best way to describe it is "nice to your face".

It's a special kind of nice.

[–] LilB0kChoy@lemm.ee 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Here I thought a good way to describe it was as a cultural stereotype applied to the behavior of people from the U.S. state of Minnesota, implying residents are unusually courteous, reserved, and mild-mannered compared to people from other states. The phrase also implies polite friendliness, an aversion to open confrontation, a tendency toward understatement, a disinclination to make a direct fuss or stand out, apparent emotional restraint, and self-deprecation.

Minnesota Nice does not mean "nice to your face" but you seem like one of those people who wants to use it as an insult instead.

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Your invalid assumption is that those actions make someone nice. It makes them polite. If you live here you've surely encountered the case where someone suggests getting together outside of the shared context you are currently in (like work). You know damn well that the correct answer is non committal. "yes we should do that soon". Under no circumstances was this a real invitation and you do not start suggesting dates.

[–] LilB0kChoy@lemm.ee 1 points 3 hours ago

Your invalid assumption is that those actions make someone nice.

I never made that assumption, you did. I provided the quoted explanation from Wikipedia and stated that was a pretty accurate description of the terms meaning.

You know damn well that the correct answer is non committal. "yes we should do that soon". Under no circumstances was this a real invitation and you do not start suggesting dates.

I don't know that because I've been in that situation and actually followed through. It really seems like you're kind of a dick and use Minnesota Nice as an excuse.

[–] MnemonicBump@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

The cities are cool, and like any major metropolitan area, every neighborhood has its own vibe. Duluth is a REALLY cool city, and totally worth a look. But I ended up in this small, off the freeway, city called Northfield. It's really nice. There are plenty of jobs, lots of services, the rent is okay, and there are two liberal arts colleges here, which means that this tends to be a really progressive area

[–] LilB0kChoy@lemm.ee 5 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Northfield is progressive or the whole area? I would think you go 5 minutes in any direction and that sentiment would change.

[–] MnemonicBump@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Northfield is progressive. All around are farms. But it's not all that far from the cities, either.

[–] LilB0kChoy@lemm.ee 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I'm familiar with Northfield but I'm also familiar with Randolph, Elko/New Market, Farmington and those areas don't scream progressive to me which is why I was curious.

[–] MnemonicBump@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 6 hours ago

No, they're not. They're all a lot more rural. I don't think many people consider Northfield because it's out of the way and off the freeway (and surrounded by nothing), which is one of the reasons I think it is the way it is hahaha

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

There are plenty of MAGAS around. My old suburban district used to vote republican by a decent margin. That's changed and we've elected Democrat to us house for a few cycles. But that democrat was Dean Philips. Northfield is about about 30 minutes out of the metro and is going to be very maga around it.

[–] LilB0kChoy@lemm.ee 1 points 4 hours ago

I know where Northfield is which is why I was asking. I grew up in that part of Minnesota and figured that area would mostly still be rural red.

[–] ChillPenguin@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Does Northfield still smell like cookies every once in a while?

[–] dumples@midwest.social 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Come fly into the twin cities and take a look around. There's tons of different neighborhoods and you can drive to the major other cities in a day. Duluth is great and got a whole different biome from the Twin Cities. You can go to Rochester which is growing fast and has the Mayo Clinic if you need or want to work medical care. I love stillwater since it's a small town close to the twin cities but not really a suburb. You can't really go wrong.

Also to note Minnesota has three different ecological biomes in it. Prairies, coniferous forest and deciduous forests. So you can pick your landscape and see others nearby

[–] TheRealKuni@midwest.social 6 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

You can go to Rochester which is growing fast and has the Mayo Clinic

Does it also have the Miracle Whip Faith Healing Center?

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[–] dumples@midwest.social 3 points 7 hours ago

I'm sure you can find one nearby

[–] peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Lol

That's the sort of thing someone might pay a stupid amount of money to make a sandwich shop nearby and name it that

[–] TheRealKuni@midwest.social 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

That’s a storming good idea.

[–] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

I love to see Rosharan curses in the wild ❤️