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Since this wasn't apparent the last time I asked... no, I'm actually not a US citizen or green card holder (permanent resident). Just happened to be in this country for a long time due to career reasons.

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[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 70 points 5 days ago (2 children)
  1. consider keeping your US phone number until all banking stuff is done since many banks do 2fa and this can be a giant pain after moving. Try to switch to an app if possible. Many providers also disallow known VoIP numbers.
  2. driving license was another one mentioned. Having it not expire before you can transfer it is preferable (assuming the target country allows transfer. Japan didn't until after two years after I got here and my license expired so I had to start from zero despite driving for 15+ years in the US). You may need to get notarized driving records which is also easier before you leave.
  3. go through and change/cancel anything with an address on file -- can be much easier from within the US. I went through the past year's bank records to find anything sneaky that doesn't renew monthly. If you have things that only renew every N years, don't forget to cancel or update those (domain names, for instance).
  4. Make sure all city, municipal, county, state, and federal tax stuff will be OK to do after leaving (sometimes, some prep is needed)
  5. If you have any retirement plans like 401ks, IRAs, etc. see about rolling them over or whatever
  6. maybe do something with social security with regard to your target country if an agreement is in place, particularly if you didn't work long enough to claim it. You can get US SS overseas in the vast majority of countries, but there are also certain provisions where you wouldn't or it would be reduced based on what you have in the target country.
  7. Freeze credit reports at the agencies as others mentioned
[–] jjpamsterdam@feddit.org 14 points 4 days ago (1 children)

driving license was another one mentioned. Having it not expire before you can transfer it is preferable

This is a giant, often overlooked issue. My home country of the Netherlands for example doesn't allow a simple transef and makes you take a test (because road safety is important to Dutch people!). In Germany it's even worse. There it depends on the state you obtained your US license in, since Germany has agreements with some states but not all...

[–] Pandantic@midwest.social 5 points 4 days ago (2 children)

In Germany it's even worse. There it depends on the state you obtained your US license in, since Germany has agreements with some states but not all...

Wow, I did not expect that. Is it more with or without agreements?

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Honestly, I can't blame them. Some states are true shit holes without a functioning government.

[–] Horsey@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

Kentucky and Mass are both approved drivers’s licenses in France among others. It’s kinda random which states actually put in the work to have reciprocity.

[–] jjpamsterdam@feddit.org 7 points 4 days ago

There's more with an agreement. Some also have a partial agreement, where only a written test is necessary. Here's the full list, if you're interested: https://www.german-way.com/for-expats/living-in-germany/german-drivers-license-reciprocity/

[–] randint@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Cool you moved to Japan? How has it been?

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I've been happy most of the time. It's not for everyone, but I'm a decade in and don't plan on leaving anytime soon.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

What's the cost of living like compared to the US? I'm guessing you speak the language if you've been there that long?

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 13 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Both the US and Japan have extremely varied costs of living depending upon where you're talking about. I live in the countryside and things are generally fairly cheap, though inflation has been hitting hard since corona and a poor rice harvest last year. I studied the language a bit before I moved, came over as a language student (probably second-oldest there in my 30s), and found a job a few months later. I'm conversational, but my reading is pretty crap. I generally do all my own medical stuff and the like, though definitely run documents by my wife to make sure of some things (particularly government and finance). We basically only speak Japanese at home.

Tokyo can be expensive or not totally depending upon the experience you want to have. No need to own a car so no inspection, tax, insurance, gas, and parking spot cost. I lived there for 8 years without driving at all but did end up getting a motorbike after moving to the suburbs. I had to get a car when we moved to the countryside. Houses are going to be much smaller and much closer than most of the US. I earn well above the median salary (which is something like 4-6 million JPY/year for someone in their 40s) and pay roughly 26% of that out to pension, taxes, etc. Healthcare is far cheaper than in the US but not free at point of service like other countries. There are out-of-pocket maximums over some periods and tax rebates on the year if you go over 100k yen.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 4 days ago

Thanks for the thorough reply!

[–] randint@lemmy.frozeninferno.xyz 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Glad to know you're doing well!