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I get the approach here, but unfortunately, this is impressively hard to do without a (fiscal) safety net.
I agree that it is wise to push out panic-inducing thoughts; mindfulness and all that. That's not always possible when professional failure equates unemployment and the possible crippling poverty that follows. In my experience, employers do a garbage job at pointing out where the guardrails are, and what the bar is for dismissal, going as far as refusing to put anyone on a PIP before letting them go. Many people are in countless pressure-cookers like this, perpetually on the edge of their seats if they're paying any attention at all.
From all that I take this advice to boil down to: Practice mindfulness, ease, and inner-peace, especially when the shit hits the fan. You can't control the consequences, but you'll recover better if you keep your head.