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Two for me:

  1. The moment you feel tipsy it's time to ease down. You have a stomach full of booze that's going to make you more drunk even if you stop immediately.

  2. If you think people are good, you're probably right and if you think people are bad, you're probably right.

People are good IMO.

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[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 59 minutes ago) (2 children)

To be clear, I've always been progressive. I was never overtly racist in the way so many of my peers were growing up. But their overt racism impacted me and filled me with assumptions and unchallenged beliefs that it took years to identify and challenge.

I was born in Moree (the destination of the Freedom Ride (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_Ride_(Australia)), and racism still shapes the town today. I don't think it would be possible to grow up in that town without being shaped by racism in some way.

[–] prex@aussie.zone 2 points 8 hours ago

Fixed link and good one for not just going with the flow.

[–] flubba86@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Wait.. I thought the significantly higher than average percentage of Aboriginal people in Moree would cause the population to be less racist in general. Your experience implies that is not the case.

[–] theneverfox@pawb.social 2 points 3 hours ago

There's diversity, where you have a lot of different types of people, and then there's places with a high concentration of a minority group

The first one makes people less bigoted, because you can't avoid dealing with people when they're everywhere. Your not going to last long in NYC if you don't want your food touched by them. Either you deal with it and get used to it, or you'll find it hard to eat

The second one doesn't force those normal human interactions. Instead, you have exposure. You see them around, but don't have to treat them like people. You might not interact at all.

So every time you see them, it reinforces the racism

You see it all over the American South, people around the black communities aren't less racist, they're giga-racist