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Studies show that coupled persons on average have more sex than singles. I'm on Mobile and many of the sites I'm getting in search results are badly formatted a butt load of popups and shit so I don't want to link them.
That just sounds like an unhealthy relationship in general, not something to do with marriage. Shared property is a financial benefit of marriage. One of the many marital rights that the LGBTQ+ community had long fought for equality over. If you're phrasing in a "lost everything in the divorce" context, then there's always pre-nuptial agreements. You need to enter a relationship with well communicated expectations and goals. Planning out how the eventual divorce will go before you're even married sounds like manifesting failure to me.
Again, clearly communicated goals and expectations. Someone expecting you to give up cero hobbies is something you should know before the relationship is that serious. You naturally shifting your priorities away from a hobby of your own choice also isn't a negative regardless of relationship status.
Agree with some points but also see there may be opportunities for more happiness.
Anyone you're with you have to compromise some and longer relationships are more investments.
I dont think you have to have an inconsistent or dead bedroom. It can be hard because more priorities but have you tried to bring it up to your partner? Would she be willing to try more knowing you miss it? What kind of foreplay does she like? Does she know what you like? What havent you/they tried, do you guys like toys or lingerie? Etc. Some of the fun is finding these answers!
Wishing you the best