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Sorry if this is inappropriate to ask, I have morid curiosity and I need to know how parents feel.

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[–] blackroses97@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have weird perspective i would be obviously very devastated, sad and heartbroken with ton of questions but in back of mind my mind i will remember “ Sometimes one’s pain is far to great to continue living.” the idea of them not being in pain offers some sort of tranquility/peace. I would never want my child to die by suicide , I hope they would find something to fix/ease pain but sometimes life doesn’t allow you to stop the pain you might feel. It’s deep and emotional thing to think about because their is so much questions to why . I myself struggle with suicidal ideation and thoughts during pain crisis episodes because it feels like my pelvis is being shattered and pain is absolutely unbearable that nothing touches pain , I feel so many things in that moment and my thinking becomes foggy /unclear . It brings you to a very dark place . I would like to think that everyone should live in world where they do not suffer and have correct options in terms of suffering from either mental or psychical pain . Sadly those who suffer tend to die by suicide because of system flaws and over flow , shame and deep frustration of suffering. The Mind can go dark really fast when their is no support or common understanding and when thoughts are to far gone . You can have someone say i love , encourage you through your struggle but if your pain far to great , it where you fear the most . I really do encourage people to get correct support and help before it consumes them. I think what you will get from this comment is their pain ,deep emotional aspect of losing someone to suicide with understanding to a possible why .

[–] blackroses97@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago

***** DISCLAIMER I WANT PEOPLE TO UNDERSTAND I DO NOT ENCOURAGE SUICIDE AND WANT PEOPLE TO GET HELP IF THEY ARE STRUGGLING. I HANDLE GRIEF AND THINKING DIFFERENTLY ***** IF YOU ARE STRUGGLING PLEASE CALL SOMEONE OR GO TO NEAREST HOSPITAL *****