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Maybe she likes older guys but not the kind that are looking for younger women.
I would normally say that at least she's after guys that aren't creepy by default, but I feel that more applies to guys chasing ladies under 21, not someone who's in their mid-late 20's
Yeah you actually nailed it. It's a very similar process of women who are fat, but they do not want fat fetish guys, they just want guys who will accept or like them without that underlying, highly specific lust.
The truth is I have sex with a lot of younger women. But not that level of age gap. And lots of younger women love older dudes for many reasons. Most are just able to say it out loud without playing all these crazy games.
I think what happened was she was expecting mom to go out with her cousin or something for a movie, and she could get a quick bang but mommy stayed home unexpectedly, and she thought she could still get the bone and nobody would be the wiser.
That's the kind of clueless, selfish thinking a ~25 year old woman does. Which is why I date 30+ usually. Women (men included) are still idiots until the brain development stops. I kinda clued in that I was lied to about the age when I got there, but you can never really be sure. I mean, I look at least 10 years younger than my age/cohort.