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I had talked to that girl in a karaoke bar once and we swapped numbers. Had forgotten about her but half a year later she texted me if I was in for a date the same evening. Should have been a red flag already since this is weird, but I was curious... and horny. Date: after 10 minutes of small talk and funny banter she told me that her boyfriend is at home and does not know she's on a date. No idea why she told me. Was she waiting for some approval? Anyway I was flabbergasted but didn't decide to call it off right away (I should have but again, I was curious ... and horny, even though a little less so now). First hesitated and a few bars and drinks later I decided it's her responsability not mine and we had some fun later that night and never came back to it until a few weeks later she texted me a whole 'novel' full of reproaches, as if I we had had a long relationship and I had broken up on her or so. Absolute weirdo. Friendly reminder to always always ALWAYS wear a condom (I did).