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[โ€“] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

this feels like she was mad at you for not being able to complain about you ignoring her and watching the game.

you paid attention to her and treated her right and she didn't like that. I've been there before.

[โ€“] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

I'll just say it.. She was nuts. The sex was OK, but not good enough to deal with crazy. Fortunately, she was not the smartest and the games she attempted to play were all things I had seen before and she had the subtly of a brick. So it was pretty easy to avoid her traps. That probably lead to what happened that night. I wasn't fulfilling her supply needs and wanted to find an easier target. At least it has made for a good story 22 years later.

Also, It all worked out in the end. About 6 months after the above happened I met the future Mrs. CanopyFlyer. We've been married 20 years now and have two kids.

Just for kicks, after posting above I looked up Pool girl on Facebook, she has a fairly unique name. She lives in Boston now, the event above took place in Cincinnati and she is apparently still single 22 years later. At least her profile does not show anyone but her. She is 4 years younger than me so that puts her at 51 single and no family.

I get people not wanting kids. I didn't until I met Mrs. Canopyflyer so no shade on Pool girl on that, but I cannot imagine still being alone at my age. With that said, I do have a friend that is my age that lost her husband to a heart attack this year. That's been pretty devastating and I feel so badly for her.