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[–] Libb@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Worst is a bit vague. Do you means worst in the sense of the girl, or me, being a real nightmare to deal with, or do you mean 'worst' as in ‘some random/stupid shit happening'?

As for some random shit happening (that would have been happening in my 20s, many decades ago), would being puked on in a pub, by my completely drunk best friend while he would have been trying to curl into my arms shooting into my ear, and for everyone around to hear, how much he loved me right when the girl I would have been waiting for would have been entering the pub... Would that count as a possible worst date? The girl would have been the classy kind of girl, the kind that would have made her parents proud and make a few classy boys chase after her. Exactly not the kind of girl I would have imagined ever willing to date a thing like me. But there she would have be, standing still, while would have been trying to get rid of my collapsing best friend.

Just asking because, quite obviously, nothing like that ever happened. And the girl, quite surprisingly, also never offered me to accompany her to her (absent) parent’s house to help me clean up the mess. Never.

To be honest, I did not have that many bad dates. I had a lot more failed attempts at dating, as I was already very clumsy, shy, and not handsome... And I had a few odd dates too, on occasions. But those would be a story for another thread ;)

[–] Jumbie@lemmy.zip 2 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

I have no idea what the middle part of this writing is trying to communicate. Sorry, man.

[–] Libb@piefed.social 1 points 21 hours ago

Don't be, probably means I will need to learn to do better (thx for the feedback ;)