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I realised in recent times that my friends, whom I've befriended since secondary school, grew in different ways. They garnered influences beyond my own, and in a natural fashion became different people.
This happens sometimes, and it's not anyone's fault, however the people we both became (keeping in mind I most certainly have changed, over the years, in the same light) had a polarising effect on our friendships.
So I called it quits, however with the intention of finding new friends. Being with the same people, at least for me, prevented me from properly engaging in circles which would suit me better by today's terms.
Honestly it didn't take too long, I just dived into social situations where I would more likely find like-minded individuals. I've made a bunch of friends since, and we already get along better than the ones I no longer speak to now.
Surround yourself with things you yourself enjoy, within a social setting, and you're more likely to be around people there for similar connections. You'd surely have a lot more to talk about too.
Don't be too upset about people moving on in different ways though, people grow and some people grow apart. Make sure you continue to grow, is all.