this post was submitted on 03 Sep 2025
512 points (96.7% liked)
memes
17322 readers
1026 users here now
Community rules
1. Be civil
No trolling, bigotry or other insulting / annoying behaviour
2. No politics
This is non-politics community. For political memes please go to !politicalmemes@lemmy.world
3. No recent reposts
Check for reposts when posting a meme, you can only repost after 1 month
4. No bots
No bots without the express approval of the mods or the admins
5. No Spam/Ads/AI Slop
No advertisements or spam. This is an instance rule and the only way to live. We also consider AI slop to be spam in this community and is subject to removal.
A collection of some classic Lemmy memes for your enjoyment
Sister communities
- !tenforward@lemmy.world : Star Trek memes, chat and shitposts
- !lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world : Lemmy Shitposts, anything and everything goes.
- !linuxmemes@lemmy.world : Linux themed memes
- !comicstrips@lemmy.world : for those who love comic stories.
founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
To be fair, is that a decision anyone can make? That is, we can't usually control whether or not we're attracted to someone.
But to your point, yeah, what consenting adults do should be nobody else's business. We can acknowledge that we wouldn't personally want such a relationship for ourselves without taking away others' autonomy.
As to OP, it sounds like they personally didn't want the relationship, in which case it doesn't matter how bad the 18 year old wanted it. Nobody's obligated to take part in a romantic/sexual relationship they don't want to have, no matter how desperate the other party is for it.