I don't tip for take out I have to pick up myself. But tipping culture here in The Netherlands is vastly different than the US. We basically only tip in restaurants, and only if the service was really good. Most people don't tip for bad or average service.

[–] Plurrbear@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, a lot of people don’t tip for take out, but who do you think makes and puts together your order for a nice restaurant take out? (I work for a Sushi and Steakhouse). Sadly, we have to and ensure orders are right and still don’t get tipped. It’s not a McDonald’s (we have many other options and temps of food, etc.). You came to a nice restaurant for take out and we ensure all is well, we had to put together your order and ensure all food is correct, it’s vastly different than a fast food drive thru. Yes, you had to pick it up but we still had to put the order together and ensure all the fine food is correct. If that makes sense, it’s different.

We don’t just heat up a cooked burger patty and put it on a bun and shove you through a drive thru, it’s 100% different. You came to a sushi steakhouse with different orders and temps of foods with modifications very different than the standard “take out”.

Basically, America just needs to pay the employees vs tips but that’s not changing. I was a teacher for years but with the recent political drama and parents shoving their kids to iPads with no respect I left and found out I am making almost 3X a month as a server than a teacher, that’s savage!

[–] Ronno@feddit.nl 1 points 1 day ago

The answer is in your last sentences, employers should just pay a livable wage (mandated by the government really). In your first paragraph, all the things you explain to me are just part of the job. Nobody is going above and beyond to give me a better service/experience, it's literally just people doing their jobs. In non hospitality services, people don't get tipped for doing their job either, right? I've never seen anyone tip a nurse, teacher, police officer, etc.

The whole tipping culture in the US is such a wild concept. In that aspect, I'm glad that we here in The Netherlands don't have that culture (yet), that we are not expected to tip and that we only tip great hospitality. But meanwhile the times are changing, we also see a "leave tip" prompt more often and it is really starting to annoy me. I'll decide if I want to tip, no need to shove it in my face, especially not considering people make a living wage without tips anyways.