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[–] toofpic@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Checked and found that US citizens don't have inherent right to work in EU - it's only easier to travel, not to settle down.
And speaking of renting - it really depends. If we're talking about Copenhagen, it is expensive, the market is broken (thanks AirBnb), and it's really hard and expensive to move in. I burned through my savings and owed some money to my employer before I could invite the rest of my family into a freshly-rented apartment. But if we're talking about "a bed under a roof", it's super easy to find a room on FB Marketplace, and live with a couple of other internationals.
So if it's just about "getting out of US" (crazy, I never thought it would be a thing, I'm sorry for them), then finding work is a must, but in a big city you usually can find something. It's only hard to find something nice and permanent

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

yes, permanent employment that allows you to stay in the country is a must. As a trans person in the US, it's been difficult to know whether to give up my career and whole life for basically constant instability and risk living as an immigrant in another country, especially when trans rights are getting stripped everywhere else too. Getting trans healthcare in Europe is not always such a breeze even for citizens.

Still, I appreciate your optimism and willingness to see the possibilities- that's important to know.

[–] toofpic@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Denmark is fine for trans - nobody cares who you are, in a way that you have the same rights.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

right, but when comparing my chances of economic survival, somewhere like Prague seems even more likely to work than Denmark just from a job market competition perspective, and Prague seems equally "idgaf" in attitude towards trans people (not that this kind of tolerance is the same as acceptance, non-discrimination, or integration)