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I prefer web over app. I tried a site which was said to be free. signup was fine so i started to use the site only to realise to see my matches or start chats i had to pay for a "premium" account or something. that really annoys me and it's a waste of my time so does anyone know any good dating sites which are actually free, as in i don't have to pay to use the site for what it should be used for? thx in advance ๐Ÿ‘

oh and I'm looking for men, forgot to specify lol

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[โ€“] liverbe@lemmy.world 11 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

I went on quite a few dates on Bumble & Tinder, which have pay options, but you don't HAVE to pay.

Facebook dating seemed a little higher quality (somehow).

Please create a good profile that has: Some of your own words, at LEAST three RECENT pics, and NO fish pics. It didn't work for me, but good luck!

[โ€“] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

NO fish pics

Are you referring to fishing or phishing?

[โ€“] liverbe@lemmy.world 6 points 15 hours ago

Guy holding fish he caught pic. I get it you don't take a lot of pictures and that was one you had. Put in some effort and go take some damn pics.

[โ€“] frenchfryenjoyer@lemmings.world 3 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

thx! are you able to chat/message people without a paywall?

[โ€“] liverbe@lemmy.world 6 points 17 hours ago

Yes, but you won't be able to view who swiped on you, so you can only chat if you both swipe right.

[โ€“] ImminentOrbit@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

I didn't pay and used bumble three years ago and found my wife that way. She had, however, paid for a membership for some of the extra perks it gives you, so dunno if we would have matched otherwise.