I remember duplicate communities seemed like it would be a problem, until you experience it and realise it's actually a feature of the fediverse.
I was just so used to the centralised mentality. I honestly have a hard time putting myself back in that headspace…
Definitely. Another similar trick I used to do was to write down the objects in my agenda under "things I wanted to buy." Sometimes just the act of writing it down gave me the feeling of having fulfilled the desire in some weird way.