drbollocks

joined 4 months ago
[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago

on the same community? and teens, yes

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 3 months ago

no, someone else

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago (2 children)

i also have mental disorders and they look down on ppl with mental disorders

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

well he does but he feels bad bc he has a bf he has been dating longer.

sometimes he’ll send the occasional heart emojis if i do first

“They mostly just type like this.

Hello

I’m fine, what about you?

Sorry, I can’t hang out. I don’t want my boyfriend to be upset.”

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

i mean, i have to strain to remember the name of the guy who harassed me, so i probably won’t remember his name either after a decade :)

thanks so much

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 months ago

ah, he said “let’s be friends” but he wanted to get back together in the future and i was willing to do that, but obviously not now.

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 3 months ago

thank you ❤️

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 months ago (6 children)

thanks ❤️ ig cuz it’s so recent and i still harbor some old feelings, i feel like he can change

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 months ago (8 children)

i also notice that although he’s bi, he’d only talk about hot men (especially fictional), wouldn’t mention me to other people, and would talk to me about his crushes as if we were just good friends. he would also try to make moves with some of them, presumably not telling them about me

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

the reason was that she wanted to stay friends after losing interest in me and she liked another girl, so idk

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 4 months ago

genuine question. how are you not a victim of homophobia if you dated a girl in high school and are lgbt? and if no one ever has judged you for that, how do you not feel empathetic to other lgbt people who have?

 

i don’t mean this to say that people with mental health conditions are all abusive, nor do i take your comments as a diagnosis, i’m more or less just curious. after all, only a professional could help the specific person.

i have been emotionally abused by someone. they can never accept their own faults or mistakes. telling them they made a mistake will set them off and cause outbursts of anger. they strictly adhere to rules and try to control people to follow a rigid set of them.

will often prey on weaknesses to make you stay with them because “no one understands you, just me”. discards you but comes back after a while and the cycle repeats.

often makes others feel bad about themselves, that they are the best/only good person and they should be the reliable one to come to when something’s wrong. in their eyes, you are worthless no matter what you do to change it.

 

for example, when i go to lemmy.world, i see downvotes, but here, there are none. i find that pretty cool :)

i want to be able to post genuine things without being downvoted to hell, even though they shouldn’t matter to me in the end.

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