LillyPip

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[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 months ago

Yep. And this bug exists in both scenarios.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (10 children)

Someone just told me these shields mean I’m a mod and can interact with these posts, but that’s not what it meant to me. To me, it means ‘this user is a mod’, which was super confusing.

I’d instead color the edit menu ellipsis green, not add a shield.

Those tags, like this shield, convey information about the user’s status, not what I can do. The ellipsis tells me what I can do.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Wait, really?

That’s terrible design. I know I’m a mod and can take action. That’s the point of being a mod. Flagging all comments is superfluous and misleading.

I thought something was wrong with my community.

e: Instead of a shield (which to me means ‘fellow mod’) I’d colour the edit ellipsis green or something. This makes me think the commenter is a mod.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

It helps to know it’s only on my end, thanks! I was worried anyone could mod my community. Thanks for your input! I’ll put it in as a UI bug. Cheers!

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 21 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Awesome, thanks for letting me know you don’t see everyone as mods. That helps me.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (8 children)

Yes, that one. Here’s what i see:

collapsed inline media

I’m using Voyager on iOS.

And I don’t see those flags on posts outside my community, anywhere on Lemmy.

e: if you’re not seeing it, it’s likely a bug in Voyager. Thanks for letting me know! I’ll post in in the Voyager community. <3

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 56 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (7 children)
[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 months ago

I’m not saying ‘words have meaning.’

I’m saying we create meaning and we should not just give in to the fascists’ definitions.

They do not define us.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Just to drive this point home for the quiet listeners at the back of the house, I’ve had very long conversations with conservatives (I’m in a red area) who actually get more distrustful the more you relate to them. I’ve been told to my face that nobody cares that much about other people, and I was clearly only pretending to in order to make them listen to me. That it was obvious, because nobody cares that much. That empathy can only be manipulative, and is never real.

It took me years to understand this isn’t a contradiction, but that since they can’t imagine caring that much, I must be fake.

My whole outlook changed once I realised that. It’s insane, but many people literally can’t envision caring, and they think you’re fake and just want recognition for doing so.

Several of these surveys take on a different meaning once you realise there are fundamentally different perspectives like this.

e: and this is one of the biggest divides with conservatives. Simple word choice will not bridge this gap.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Most of your peers don’t have that reaction. They should~ but they don’t. Ask them to name a king not from a Disney movie and report back. *edit: ask them to name the king independence was fought over. I’ll bet many can’t, and I’ll bet none can give you the actual reasons (other than vague concepts like ‘freedon’ or ‘taxation’).

I’m with you. Let’s stop fighting each other and figure this out.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

That’s a big problem that switching from ‘oligarch’ to ‘king’ won’t solve. Using different words is a very simplistic answer, when what we’re fighting here is not a language barrier but a wide cultural one.

The real issue is complex and multifaceted: conservatives have been highly propagandised through increasingly insulated media bubbles to the point that now there’s very little that can penetrate them, and switching up a few words will not get them to listen. They’ve been taught to be distrustful of facts and reality, and to believe that compassion is weakness.

I don’t know how to fix this, but watering down our language will not help. That’s been tried many times, and it always backfires.

[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 months ago (2 children)

‘Fuck you, I got mine.’

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